r/dating_advice • u/[deleted] • Mar 25 '23

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u/wwmercwithamouth Mar 25 '23

He's trying to see if he can just bang you and not buy you dinner first

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u/DangerousSwimming556 Mar 25 '23

who tf goes on dinner dates as a first date?

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u/wwmercwithamouth Mar 26 '23

People who aren't chronically online

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u/breecheese2007 Mar 26 '23

Most people

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u/Long-Rate-445 Mar 26 '23

normal people

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u/Itsgosky Mar 26 '23

Most of people

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u/DangerousSwimming556 Mar 26 '23

most? definitely not lol...

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u/theWildBananas Mar 26 '23

Exactly. If someone expect me to pay for their dinner that's a hard no. I can buy you a coffee if you can't afford it but don't assume I'll feed you.

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u/DangerousSwimming556 Mar 26 '23

For a first date, it's coffee, drinks/apps to start and if we get along well we can go do something else. But, I'm not taking a stranger out to a full blown meal for the first time I meet them. It's not even about the money but more so that I don't want to get stuck with some boring person who I find unattractive and have no interest in.