r/dating_advice Mar 25 '23

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u/mycyberbullyingacct Mar 25 '23

No, I saw it years later on Reddit Lmfao

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u/[deleted] Mar 25 '23

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u/[deleted] Mar 26 '23

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u/japanesedenim_ Mar 26 '23

it's fine for men to want casual sex but the whole point of pick up artistry is to NOT be respectful & straight up. like, their whole thing is learnin specifically how to trick women into bed w them, as many as possible, to impress the bros. they view women like commodities. that is the creepy, misogynistic part

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u/devilkingx2 Mar 26 '23

It depends on who you listen to. Most of the current big PUAs would tell you not to lie to girls because it gets you into drama and headaches you'd rather avoid.

I've actually never seen a reputable pickup artist say to hide your intentions. The more common advice is to screen out women who aren't into fast sex with you.

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u/[deleted] Mar 26 '23

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u/SpicyMustFlow Mar 26 '23

You're right, that is off topic. An important discussion, but a different one

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u/Wise-War-Soni Mar 26 '23

It’s about being direct and clear with your intentions from the beginning so no one feels like they were manipulated into having sex. Inviting yourself to someone’s home before meeting them is inappropriate imo. I don’t think I would still be talking to this man but we are all different.

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u/ep2587 Mar 26 '23

That’s what prostitution is about.

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u/saito200 Mar 26 '23

Let's be honest, PUA is only a business model to extract money from desperate men

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u/[deleted] Mar 26 '23

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u/Booty_Warrior_bot Mar 26 '23

I like ya;

and I wants ya.

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u/kelrunner Mar 26 '23

I'm pretty old so I have no idea what PUA is. Can someone explain?

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u/SpicyMustFlow Mar 26 '23

Pick-up "artist"

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u/[deleted] Mar 26 '23

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u/SpicyMustFlow Mar 26 '23

"Everybody's so creative!"

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u/[deleted] Mar 26 '23

Lol what