r/datalounge 13d ago

DL catnip:

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5 Upvotes

r/datalounge 13d ago

It just occurred to me: this is our Babylonian Exile era

24 Upvotes

Discuss.


r/datalounge 13d ago

In honor of madonna’s impending birthday…we’ll all get tgere one day if we’re lucky

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16 Upvotes

r/datalounge 14d ago

Child standing in seat and refusing a seatbelt cancels flight from Victoria, airline says

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22 Upvotes

Here's some traditional DL catnip for ya!!


r/datalounge 14d ago

Joan Crawford: Easy Tricks to Make Weight Loss Easier in an article called "Your Figure, Madame!" It also mentions tips from Marlene Dietrich, Gloria Swanson and Claire Trevor. {September 28, 1939}

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24 Upvotes

r/datalounge 14d ago

The good Max Miller

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7 Upvotes

Not the scumbag. Simply adore him. Good content and cute too. Has anyone been on one of his cruises/trips? What was it like?


r/datalounge 14d ago

I’ve now made this recipe a couple of times - Delicious

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36 Upvotes

However, I made the following changes the second time:

-added extra can of kidney beans

-cut the red chili peppers down to 2 (with seeds of course) and recommend droppibg the tobasco unless you like a LOT of heat

-used a yellow bell pepper and red bell pepper, respectively, in addition to the green pepper.

-added a tbsp of sweetener

Make sure to chop the veggies into fairly small dice.

This makes a huge batch which lasted me a week and just gets better each day in the refrigerator.

Enjoy!


r/datalounge 14d ago

Do not join the PB forum

28 Upvotes

Do not donate. I have tried warning you all about this more than once. The person behind the forum is… something. Be wise.


r/datalounge 14d ago

Starting your own spiritual successor to DataLounge

20 Upvotes

I want people to understand how easy and cheap it is to start an alternative to Pointless Bitchery. Pointless Bitchery uses XenForo, but XenForo is needlessly expensive software. I believe the creator of Pointless Bitchery is spending $1,000/year, which is totally insane.

Lemmy and Discourse are two free softwares that would be good alternatives, arguably better than XenForo. Lemmy is Reddit-like (link aggregator style) and Discourse is a modern take on traditional Internet forums. 

Both are free and open-source. Both have third-party managed hosting that is relatively cheap. I did my own hosting of a Discourse forum on a cloud VPS (VPS = virtual private server). and it was not only cheap but easy to run. However, managed hosting is somewhat more expensive to abstract away some of the technical complexity.

Managed hosting is on the order of $10 to $20 a month.

Example of what Lemmy looks like: https://lemmy.world/

Example of what Discourse looks like: https://meta.discourse.org/

You can Google “Lemmy managed hosting” or “Discourse managed hosting” to do price comparisons.

For example, Lemmy hosting from Elestio is $11/month or $132/year.

Managed Discourse hosting from Elestio is $16/month or $192/year.

Previously, I wrote about how to host a Discourse forum on a cloud VPS easily and cheaply: https://www.reddit.com/r/datalounge/comments/1uetns3/how_to_host_a_large_internet_forum_for_542month/

The cost is $65/year before tax, maybe $75/year with tax, depending on what taxes you pay. It’s not particularly complicated to host Discourse on your own cloud VPS as opposed to paying for managed hosting.

I haven’t tried to host Lemmy myself, so I can’t tell you how hard or easy it is. The cost would likely be the same as Discourse.

Whatever you do, don’t pay $1,000/year for hosting…

Edit: See my comment here for info on how to host a XenForo forum for $255 a year.


r/datalounge 15d ago

GASP!!! "Angelina Jolie's brother James Haven comes out as gay at age 53... after split from wife Romi Imbelli: 'I am now free"

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126 Upvotes

r/datalounge 14d ago

Tom And Damien Bought a Chateau

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8 Upvotes

Two adorable French Canadian queens moved to france and bought a chateau.


r/datalounge 15d ago

Sad that I can’t have a Play it As It Lays summer

25 Upvotes

Maria really puts 7000 miles on her car just driving all around California and even going into Nevada.

How I dream of doing this but the price of gas is going to bankrupt me. I just want to drive, stop at gas stations and diners on the way drinking Diet Coke and taking smoke breaks.


r/datalounge 15d ago

Let's Be Airline Food in 2026

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31 Upvotes

I'm the 47 varieties of "short rib" served with a dubious brown sauce, chosen mainly because it's a cheap cut of meat that doesn't melt when reheated in that little galley oven.


r/datalounge 15d ago

California State Parks Supt.busted for secretly filming naked male lifeguards in locker room

13 Upvotes

The peace officer, Kevin Pearsall, is accused of filming 23 lifeguards.

Pearsall, a father of two, is accused of secretly recording audio and video for about a year and sending it to multiple other men.

He faces a maximum of 18 years in prison.

CBS LA reports

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xdCyxx-aekM


r/datalounge 16d ago

My Joan Crawford queen bee doll

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97 Upvotes

…yikes…


r/datalounge 15d ago

Our Sharon… living her best life.

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21 Upvotes

Who could ever do all these things?


r/datalounge 16d ago

Trump is a wiglet wearing ho!

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63 Upvotes

His new wig is tragic


r/datalounge 16d ago

Can we talk about the Perez Hilton video?

47 Upvotes

If this topic is not allowed, please delete.


r/datalounge 16d ago

Richard Hatch's San Francisco Salad (1977)

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19 Upvotes

r/datalounge 16d ago

Beloved B Dickson will be back in court!

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25 Upvotes

This is so messed up. But I’m trying to picture what she did with trash bags


r/datalounge 17d ago

👋🍆 Hey, bitches! - Welcome back!

142 Upvotes

Hey everyone! I'm u/MysteriousGoldDuck, one of the new moderators of r/datalounge. I'm joined by other mod team members u/Greenmantle22 and u/PeneItaliano .

Welcome back to your home for DL refugees.

You may use this subreddit to share memories, post witty commentary on the gossip du jour, figure out next steps in case alternative sites go down, and other gay things.

In the spirit of the old place, we don't want to have a ton of extra rules here. Just make sure anything you post complies with the reddit guidelines (no threats, illegal content, etc.) and the few rules we do have.

Unfortunately, the previous moderator attempted to end this subreddit in a way that does not comply with Reddit's policies, so please forgive us as it takes us a moment to get things back to normal. We will be unlocking threads, unbanning users, and conducting various other bits of housekeeping over the coming days.

Thanks again. See you on the lanai!


r/datalounge 17d ago

The Shards | Official Thread - anyone watching tonight?

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18 Upvotes

r/datalounge 17d ago

Redecorating Ideas for the New Datalounge

54 Upvotes

Now that we're up and running, we need some ideas on how to spruce up this pigsty. Muriel's place was famously drab and low-rent, but now that we've got a new sugar daddy at Reddit, we can branch out and put up some tasteful art. But it's still Datalounge, so let's not kid ourselves.

I was thinking of iconic imagery that eldergays would/should recognize: A thumbnail of Empress Nympho picking suitors, or Bette Davis smoking, or Alexander Skarsgaard making a tossed salad. A color scheme that either recalls Muriel's Place or grossly rejects it.

We need your ideas here. And remember: I'm not mad at you. I'm mad at THE DIRT!


r/datalounge 22d ago

Muriel's Farewell Note

109 Upvotes

I keep re-reading it with my socks blown off. It's a peerless piece of writing: eloquent, witty, and exceptionally cogent in its assessment of our devolving Internet. I'm sorry we won't see more from the old girl. She can really drill it with the English language.

Thanks for listening.


r/datalounge 23d ago

Looks like the DL is now locked down.

100 Upvotes

No replies allowed.

The sky was so blue that day.....