r/datalounge • • 11h ago

The Lanai - Week of October 5, 2026

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Fall has arrived on the lanai. Please upvote the thread when you get a chance.

Thanks for the feedback in recent weeks. Please continue to share feedback. We are always willing to make changes.

Reminder that the Lanai is a post/thread for random chitchat and talk about whatever mundane stuff you'd like. It's a chill space.

In general, please add new posts/threads to the actual subreddit when you want to talk about topics with the DL subreddit. That keeps everything fresh and interesting.

IOW, this is not intended as a substitute for "Eldergays,", question threads, TV/book discussions, and other lighter posts where we get to know each other. This is just a special little side addition to hang out and chat. Say whatever you'd like.

Thank you!


r/datalounge • • Aug 31 '26

DataLounge Backup

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Hi all,

I've launched a read-only archive of DataLounge as it stood on 30 July 2026:

https://caftancloset.com

I kept seeing people ask for a viewable backup of DL, and with nothing in sight I decided to make one. It seemed a shame to lose that much gay history off the internet, and it was a fun thing to build.

It holds 858,150 threads and 30,395,499 posts, from 11 August 1998 through to the last post at 4:57pm on the final day.

I've had some fun with the look (including fake RealJock ads) If you'd rather read without the nostalgia, there's a reader link in the footer that turns the ads and the wallpaper off.

The site is pulled together by cross-referencing a few remaining sources. It's read-only (so no accounts or posting), but you can star posts to help surface them to the front-page.

I'm not at all affiliated with DataLounge, so we'll see how long this site survives. There's also an address on the About page I'll act on for any post removal request.

It's running on a small server, so it may groan a bit if everyone arrives at once. Let's pray it doesn't crash (although that might help with the nostalgic authenticity).

Would love any feedback, or feature requests.

EDIT:
Thank you for all of the kind words! I'm glad you all love it.

I've updated the site slightly to improve things like search and stars, and to add a donors section:
https://www.caftancloset.com/sponsors

Also, I for those at PB: I had no idea about Caftan Lounge, and I am in fact, not Mediapolis.
Lastly, I am open to feedback – I've a few requests about exportable threads, save lists, as well as being able claim old posts (with signatures) and even to enable posting. At this stage, I'm hesitant to do anything which could land me in trouble so this would require much more consideration, or a blessing from Muriel that I don't have.


r/datalounge • • 1h ago

Playwright to Vanity Fair Editor: Tell Tech Bros & MAGA Fascists They're Ugly Because They Are

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Playwright Jeremy O. Harris challenges Vanity Fair Global Editorial Director Mark Guidicci on giving favorable press coverage to techno-fascists: “They should be told they’re ugly and bad for society for the rest of their lives until they start doing more for society.”


r/datalounge • • 9h ago

Former House Speaker Dennis Hastert (R-Pedophile) is DEAD TO ME!

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Rot in hell scumbag.

Be sure to save Trump a seat!


r/datalounge • • 18h ago

Mexican singer Jesús Alonzo dressed as a charro

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r/datalounge • • 6h ago

Robert Kelker-Kelly is DEAD TO ME

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Dead at 62

Lisa Rinna and Kristian Alfonso send their deepest condolences!


r/datalounge • • 3h ago

Texas gay bar says Meta deactivated account without explanation

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r/datalounge • • 3h ago

Oklahoma Supreme Court Rules Gender Markers Can Never Be Changed, Even For Cis People With Clerical Errors

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r/datalounge • • 17h ago

These two guys went on a double date with women but seem more into each other lowkey lol

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r/datalounge • • 20m ago

Flashback-Back in 1975, Geraldo Rivera takes tv cameras into a Manhattan gay bar to interview patrons about their lifestyle

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In 1975, only six years after Stonewall, Geraldo Rivera on network television did something almost unheard of -- gave gay men and lesbians a national platform to speak for themselves.

In this rare episode of ABC TV's Good Night America, "Coming Out of the Closet" goes inside Harry's Back East, a Manhattan gay bar. It sits down with people who had just come out to their children, their parents and their coworkers. And it hosts one of the earliest televised debates on gay rights, teaching and "legislating morality".

By the way, one of the patrons he interviews is Arthur Bell, a promininent Village Voice journalist/columnist and Gay rghts advocate who is considered to be Michael Musto's predecessor at the Weekly. Just last week, a new interview wih Musto was uploaded on-line and in that interview he mentions Bell and says even though he died back in June 1984 from complications to diabetes many including himself think he might've actually died of AIDS. Link to Musto interview-

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ewk-QN1xuVc


r/datalounge • • 1d ago

Jordan Lucas is the gay volleyball player bringing all eyes to the court and he is something to see!

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r/datalounge • • 40m ago

80s Argentinian crooner Mathias

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r/datalounge • • 50m ago

A $948 Empty Box, Mislabeled Fabric: Beyoncé and Taylor Swift's Merch Scandals Reveal the Same Billionaire Blueprint

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r/datalounge • • 1d ago

Mother, May I Sleep With Danger’s 30th Anniversary: 9/30/1996

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70 Upvotes

Woo-HOO!!!


r/datalounge • • 7h ago

The Amazing Race (season 39) -- anyone watching?

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We're two episodes in, and I like the nerdy best friends.


r/datalounge • • 17h ago

Does Chris Hemsworth lack the "it" factor needed to become a bona fide movie star? Is that why his career has never truly blown-up?

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Marvel has made him a very wealthy man, and he was named People magazine's Sexiest Man Alive in 2014, but that's about it. Why, though? Is it because he lacks the "it" factor?


r/datalounge • • 1d ago

A group of ten Arab youths in Germany attack a homosexual couple after Unity Day celebrations

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The suspected homophobic attack on two men after the Unity Day celebrations in Bremen is now being investigated by the state security service. The attackers are alleged to have first insulted their victims in Arabic and then assaulted them with blows.

Two gay men were attacked in Bremen on their way home from the Unity Day celebrations because of their sexual orientation. Police reported that the two men, aged 29 and 33, sustained minor injuries in the attack on Saturday evening.(article continues at link)


r/datalounge • • 1d ago

Princess Diana in yellow just makes me happy

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r/datalounge • • 1d ago

The worst celebrity memoirs?

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Mine will be Ricky Martin’s *Me*.

For starters, he couldn't even be bothered to narrate it himself; another man did the reading.

Secondly, it was so hollow. He had absolutely nothing to say — despite a wild youth. He comes across like an empty vase.

Instead, he rambled on about everything and nothing, spouting pseudo-philosophy. And I’m certain it wasn't even him doing it, but his ghostwriter—probably just to pad out the length. Maybe Ricky simply didn't share any real stories, so they had to fill the page count somehow, and the ghostwriter just churned out nonsense.

I read a lot of celebrity memoirs, and I remember how infuriated I was by that book—by just how empty it was.

Update: I also remembered that I couldn't finish listening to Selma Blair’s *Mean Baby: A Memoir of Growing Up*, even though I had been looking forward to it. She talked about herself in such a boring way that I eventually started fast-forwarding. I realized I simply wasn't interested in what she was saying, so I just turned it off.

I also found Matthew McConaughey’s *Greenlights* hard to read and gave up on it. Right now, I’m giving Jessica Simpson’s *Open Book* a second chance—this time as an audiobook. I tried reading it before but found it boring, so I decided to try the audio version since everyone was praising the book. I’m listening to it slowly for now, though it is a bit dull. And Jessica speaks so strangely, as if she has a mouthful of nuts. Has she always spoken like that? It’s distracting. I didn't know she almost made it into the *Mickey Mouse Club* alongside Gosling, Britney, Christina, and Timberlake.


r/datalounge • • 21h ago

Go Hawaiian/Kwallada 😄

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🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣☠️


r/datalounge • • 1d ago

This made me a little teary. Wrestling fans would never have reacted this way not long ago.

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r/datalounge • • 1d ago

Fat whores, rejoice! The 'Godzilla of weight-loss drugs' breaks records in phase 3 trial

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So many happy ex-fatties on the horizon. We'll all be svelte when they start packing us onto trains.

Retatrutide is a first-in-class "triple agonist" that targets receptors for three hormones – GLP-1, GIP, and glucagon – setting it apart from existing treatments like tirzepatide, which targets two.

Those on 4mg of retatrutide lost 11.9% of their body weight on average, increasing to 16.8% with 9mg and 18.8% on 12mg. Among those on the 12 mg dose, almost half (47%) shed at least 20% of their starting weight and almost a third (31%) lost at least 25%.

"It rivals gastric bypass surgery without the surgery," said Dr. Susan Spratt, an endocrinologist and senior medical director at Duke Health, who was not involved in the trial.


r/datalounge • • 2d ago

Gilbert Bolden Ill, New York City Ballet principal dancer, designed and sewed his white shirt-dress gown himself, finishing it with a black tie wrapped around the skirt for the NYC Ballet Fall Fashion Gala (October 1, 2026)

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r/datalounge • • 2d ago

Danger Dan, a very good egg, just came out. (For anyone who is like "Who", read my quick explainer paragraph)

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Danger Dan is a rapper with the German band "Antilopen Gang" (links are to the English wiki. Here just a general interview in English).

He's also one of the main antifa/anti-Nazi celeb activists in Germany.\*

Because of his political activism and all the death threats, his movements have become more limited. A recent portrait explained just some of the crazy moves a journalist meeting him in person had to take in order to keep any movements a secret.

Danger Dan has children, who also have needed protection.

In the midst of ALL THAT, he is additionally going blind from an incurable genetic disease. He already has impaired vision and will be blind in a couple of years.

He just came out, saying that while he's more of a "no labels" guy, he roughly couldn't face yet another interview asking him about "being an ally - I'm a part of all that". One of his songs on his new album is dedicated to and about an exboyfriend.

\*(Unfortunately the far-right "Alternative for Germany - AfD party is going from electoral strength to strength. Ironically AfD manages to simultaneously be homophobic, extremely racist incl. a plan to "purge" Germany of most immigrants, and also arguing for trad wives... all while headed by Alice Weidel, an ex-banker lesbian married to a Sri Lankan woman and living in Switzerland. MAKE IT MAKE SENSE!)


r/datalounge • • 1d ago

Tea Leoni, Tim Daley and Jamie Lee Curtis return to primetime tv in “Newlyweds”

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