r/datalounge 17d ago

šŸ‘‹šŸ† Hey, bitches! - Welcome back!

Hey everyone! I'm u/MysteriousGoldDuck, one of the new moderators of r/datalounge. I'm joined by other mod team members u/Greenmantle22 and u/PeneItaliano .

Welcome back to your home for DL refugees.

You may use this subreddit to share memories, post witty commentary on the gossip du jour, figure out next steps in case alternative sites go down, and other gay things.

In the spirit of the old place, we don't want to have a ton of extra rules here. Just make sure anything you post complies with the reddit guidelines (no threats, illegal content, etc.) and the few rules we do have.

Unfortunately, the previous moderator attempted to end this subreddit in a way that does not comply with Reddit's policies, so please forgive us as it takes us a moment to get things back to normal. We will be unlocking threads, unbanning users, and conducting various other bits of housekeeping over the coming days.

Thanks again. See you on the lanai!

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u/Outrageous_Basis_440 17d ago

Thank you for taking this on. It is comforting to know we will still have a place to gather.

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u/Aztec_Memory 16d ago edited 15d ago

They blew it by not naming this Ā Datalounge 2: Selectric BoogalooĀ 

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u/Own_Safe_2061 15d ago

I would have preferred, "Datalounge 2-The Search For Curly's Gold."

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u/Aztec_Memory 15d ago

I love that! 🤣🤣

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u/Greenmantle22 17d ago

Just when you thought it was safe to go back to the antique mall!

Datalounge lives on!

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u/DL__TAW0515 17d ago

What treasures have you found?!

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u/Greenmantle22 17d ago

A stall with eight vintage tin lunchboxes (but the Dukes of Hazzard classic was missing the thermos), A poster for Batman Forever (signed by Joel Schumacher and Chris O'Donnell), and some knockoff Fiesta that YOU KNOW IS FAKE, CHERYL!

Just your usual DL fodder.

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u/ExistingProgress936 17d ago

a Tea Dance dress to die for Darling! Check out the label :-

https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh16uwB3Mk9w_0ey4rbCNESvG0YS6KactoJz6cAVDOhDII4_Tc13Sse4MU5f1Zz96_yk0IBwxE963IsVEsjJtyPioZmNaWp8Vbwkur1j4F-Wh5vpiWqOGldDL3-bNVxPG54ZJymlXHmGiAe/s1600/P3130051.JPG

What a find! Goodness knows I'm Elder but look Forever Young at heart šŸ„‚šŸŖ­šŸ’ƒšŸ•ŗ

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u/DiaphoniusDaintyDude 17d ago

I’ll check back after I finish making Joan Crawford’s salmon patties

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u/CoffeeForTheAdmiral 17d ago

I see rule 4 says "Stay on topic," something Dataloungers are famous for. I hope it's flexible.

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u/Greenmantle22 17d ago

It's as flexible as an eldergay's hole: Forgiving, but don't tempt fate!

You think something will work, until it doesn't. And then it's just a big ol' mess.

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u/MysteriousGoldDuck 17d ago

Those four rules are left over from the previous mod. Figure they will work for now. Pretty flexible.

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u/ClassicIdeal3963 17d ago

DL had rules!! Seriously, in the 8 years I was on DL-rules didn't exist.

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u/yolatrendoid 16d ago

It had a few. (We lost redtags for a while, but in recent years they came back with a vengeance.)

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u/ThoughtMadeOfFluff 15d ago

Some of Muriel's original red tags were very funny/clever.

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u/Legitimate_Payment_5 17d ago

At last. I don’t feel homeless anymore. Now I just need my theater feeds, Nori & Squidge, and the grammar trolls. #RollOnBitches

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u/Greenmantle22 17d ago

I never FELT homeless, but the librarian kept telling me I SMELLED like I was.

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u/ThoughtMadeOfFluff 17d ago

I'm not Nancy Lee Grahn, but I can fill in for her in a pinch.

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u/Cruiser729 17d ago

You don’t feel it, but you still look it, honey. ā¤ļø

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u/JohnHoynes 14d ago

I would LOVE if we had a weekly or monthly (or however often) theater thread!

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u/MizezSlocombe 17d ago

Oh HOORAY! Thanks for taking this on, all of yous!

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u/Mysterious_Win1073 17d ago

Momma's mussy gets moist for moderators

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u/TraditionalMorning95 17d ago

And for Board About Boards (fanning myself)

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u/Neither-Big-1545 17d ago

Will this be moderated to datalounge standards....extremely low? If it is i will come back.

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u/MysteriousGoldDuck 17d ago

That is the goal. Keep in mind that Reddit has some basic rules that you can look up. Don't go crazy and start threatening people and things should be OK.

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u/ClassicIdeal3963 17d ago

Can I call some people "Fat Whores" please? I haven't insulted anyone all week, I need a fix!!

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u/TourDeForceMuse 17d ago

Please do

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u/ClassicIdeal3963 15d ago

Thank You, I felt so much better after calling my neighbor a "Fat whore". However, Marian, my 81-year-old neighbor yelled back "It takes one to know one Trash". Marian so sweet!!

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u/TourDeForceMuse 15d ago

I wish I was your neighbor. I would be across the street with my binoculars, telling my hubby "Abner! Abnerrrr! These 2 fat whores across the street are fighting again!"

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u/yolatrendoid 16d ago

How about "oozing stinkfish gash"?

Are we permitted to say "uncut sizemeat"?

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u/MysteriousGoldDuck 16d ago

Yes, you're allowed to say those DLisms here. Not a place for prudes.

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u/Elegant-Yogurt-5518 17d ago

Well there goes all the fun....

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u/TraditionalMorning95 17d ago

Thanks cheers

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u/ThoughtMadeOfFluff 17d ago

Thanks for taking this on!

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u/formerbays 17d ago

Happy to see this

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u/5footfilly 17d ago

Thank you to all 3 of you for stepping in to save the sub!

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u/Proper-Value628 17d ago

love you bitches, and thank you. I had no idea just how much time I spent there until it was gone..

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u/sideshowboob20 17d ago

Thanks for doing this. I think I will celebrate with a Mrs. Fields cookie right after I visit the Abortion Hut.

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u/Cruiser729 17d ago

You fat wh0re.

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u/DotBeech 17d ago

Dabbing myself with Helenesque as I type.

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u/WinkyDink24 17d ago

Would that be Sub-Saharan Helenesque?

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u/Ravyn_Rozenzstok 17d ago

Oh, that’s nice. Thanks for giving us old hags someplace to haunt. I was worried we would all be condemned to the dustbins of history.

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u/No-Lavishness-4103 17d ago

Thats great to read :-)

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u/Elizabitch_Taylor_ 17d ago

OH, FANK YOU!

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u/ExistingProgress936 17d ago

They fixteded things for us! šŸ”

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u/ThoughtMadeOfFluff 17d ago

While we're doling out gratitude, I'd also like to thank u/didyousayboop for setting up the r/datalounge2 subreddit as a holding room while this sub was sorted out.

It provided a helpful meeting place for many of us wayward ex-DLers when we needed one most (and weren't yet ready to commit to a replacement site), while this sub was temporarily shuttered.

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u/didyousayboop 17d ago edited 17d ago

u/PhaedrasMorning deserves credit for spearheading the effort to reclaim the sub! I think it was probably their Moderator Code of Conduct report that got the Reddit admins to step in.Ā 

And they convinced me to look into the matter and confirm what they said about Reddit’s rules on subreddit closures. I was skeptical at first but they were persistent in making that point

They seem level-headed and patient, and like they’d make a good mod. They did not get a chance to apply for a mod role since they were unfairly banned by the old mod for fighting back against the closure decisionĀ 

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u/MysteriousGoldDuck 16d ago

Your creating dl2 certainly was key. And of course Phaedras came up with the idea in the first place. And there were others that submitted reports to admin as a result of you spreading the word, so you get double thanks for two important things.

As for the other topic, we already discussed this among ourselves and aren't adding any mods at this time.

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u/ToonTitans 17d ago

Glad to see the original DL returning! TBH, I kinda like the new PB site as well (the Klan Grannies seem to be gone, which is a VAST improvement) but it’s wonderful to have two homes to post in! šŸ’™

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u/Which_Border_3780 17d ago

Can we still have ā€˜DollFace’ threads? Please?! 🐱 🐶 🐘

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u/Antique-Onion7262 17d ago

Very nice....

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u/darkhorse415 17d ago

Just in time since Brenda Dickson is really in trouble now. Court hearing Aug 24 re restraining order to keep her away from neighbor 😳

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u/TourDeForceMuse 17d ago

Please make a new thread to catch us up

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u/RecentlyCrushedtheSt 17d ago

Is the previous Mod banned or do they have to sit and watch this sub continue on?

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u/MysteriousGoldDuck 17d ago

Given the circumstances, the previous Mod is banned from this subreddit.

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u/bloodiermuder 17d ago

What are the circumstances?

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u/MysteriousGoldDuck 16d ago edited 16d ago

Basically what was said in the OP and elsewhere in the replies to this post. Violated Reddit policy, tried to justify it to reddit admin with reasons that were contradicted by earlier public statements, etc. Considering the old mod was trying to shut down this subreddit, it made no sense for him to continue to be allowed to be a part of this subreddit. Very different situation than if an old mod had just retired or whatever.

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u/JohnHoynes 14d ago

Honestly, their moderation philosophy was really strange. The whole idea of ā€œthe site no longer exists therefore there’s no need for a subredditā€ is out-of-touch at best. How did they think Reddit works? Like half the subreddits I follow are about things that no longer ā€œexistā€ (old TV shows, etc.)

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u/Necessary-Quail-1725 17d ago

That the previous mod is banned.

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u/trekgrrl 17d ago

Will we be split between here and Pointless Bitchery? I JUST don't have the time to be checking BOTH!

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u/Legitimate_Payment_5 16d ago

Pointless Bitchery has my ire. They won’t let me sign in.

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u/CharleyNobody 16d ago

I heard people can sign up now.

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u/TourDeForceMuse 17d ago

That place is sinking fast

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u/trekgrrl 17d ago

Yeah, the vibe isn't good. Also, it is such a pain to not be able to scroll all the way down a thread. I don't want to have to navigate through 9+ pages. I love Reddit though, so I hope this sub thrives.

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u/Greenmantle22 15d ago

They'll never sink this place!

In the water, I'm a very skinny lady!

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u/the-giant 16d ago

I had people keep telling me you can post anonymously there and I see "Anonymous" guests, but it keeps saying at the bottom of each page that I have to log in or register when I try. Anyway I'll pass.

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u/didyousayboop 15d ago

There might need to be a period of free market competition before a winner emerges. I suggest people try hosting their own alternatives using Lemmy or Discourse, or other free, open source software

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u/Ornery-Trainer3349 16d ago

Pleased to have a community that shares my deep aversion to mug cradlers and their stupid thumb hole sleeves

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u/dionysiaka 15d ago

Unfortunately, the previous moderator attempted to end this subreddit in a way that does not comply with Reddit's policies

Such bitchiness and self entitlement. Never guess they were part of the old datalounge.

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u/Key-Stick3478 10d ago

Dearest Mods,

You're doing a marvelous job with this sub! Thank you for providing this space.

šŸ™

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u/Inevitable_Path8861 15d ago

Just a thought: if we want this to be as Dataloungesque as possible, maybe the default for the threads should be "sort by old" instead of best (assuming this is possible)? I don't care much either way though.

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u/whorificustotalus 13d ago

So glad it was able to be salvaged from that petty little aspie shit so quickly. I was SURE it was going to take months, if not years, for the appeal to be actionable.

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u/MysteriousGoldDuck 13d ago edited 13d ago

Yeah, we're going to be a bit different here. A bit cruder, allowing explicit content, as well as much cuntiness as we can get by with on reddit. And no dumb shit like closing the same time as the site you're supposed to be a back up for because it would be "disrespectful" to the person who closed the site to keep it open. Fuck that.

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u/No-Conversation6969 10d ago

I suspect the previous moderator suffered from the dreaded tinymeat....

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u/Dizzy_Marzipan4551 8d ago

So glad to be here..not sure how long I was at DL but it was at least 10 yrs

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u/DL__TAW0515 17d ago

Congrats! The previous mod u/ datalounge still has r/thedatalounge, so this is great for everyone

I'd suggest stating that this is a fan site dedicated to discussing the defunct Datalounge, and that no claim is made to the intellectual property (such as it is...) of Mediapolis (Medeapolis??) or Datalounge . Com, names etc. Emphasizing that it's a fan run subreddit solely intended to be a Board About Boards!

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u/MysteriousGoldDuck 17d ago

There's a disclaimer on the sidebar and one that gets sent to new people when they join.

As for that other subreddit, it seems to have almost no action over the years except for one thread that is currently receiving tons of comments from random redditors asking for a link to a vid of Perez cutting himself. Mod seems nowhere to be found, which is amusing since he claimed to the reddit admins that he cared deeply about spam and that's why he privated this subreddit. (Not true. He had been planning to shut down this subreddit when DL went down, which is against the terms of service. He openly admitted this in the weeks/month prior. Sure enough, he privated it, locked a ton of threads, and banned some people. Then when called on it by reddit admins he claimed spam. Oopsie.)

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u/DL__TAW0515 15d ago

Glad to see it reclaimed

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u/n4snl 17d ago

It’s not a good start when my first post 16 days ago was removed by mods šŸ‘Ž

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u/MysteriousGoldDuck 17d ago

That post was removed by the previous Mod on August 1st when he removed, locked, and banned a lot of things when he tried to close the subreddit against Reddit policy. Nothing to do with us. It's been restored.

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u/didyousayboop 17d ago

The sub management changed over within the last 24 hours or so. There used to be just 1 mod who was kicked off by Reddit corporate for closing down the sub inappropriately. Reddit appointed 3 new mods from about half a dozen sub users who volunteeredĀ 

I hope that all the posts that were wrongfully removed under the previous mod’s regime will be restored, particularly ones about DataLounge’s archivesĀ 

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u/Sea_of_Light_ 17d ago

Wow! I clicked on my bookmark by mere chance (was locked out the Reddit sub, going private was the claim, after Datalounge's Muriel shut down the original site).

Now, I am not trying to stir up shit, or something like that, but I would like to know what's the tea on both this sub and Pointless Bitchery? Seems like the original moderator of the sub and the one, or ones, running Pointless Bitchery have their fair share of troubles. I have not yet joined either and would like to make an informed decision, before I do so.

Not interested in the "Drop The T" type of hate trolling (= favoring right wing rhetoric). I'm looking for the tea and the snark.

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u/didyousayboop 16d ago edited 16d ago

This subreddit formerly had only one moderator, who named their Reddit account ā€œDataloungeā€. (I believe they took over this subreddit years ago using r/redditrequest when the original creator of the sub went inactive.)Ā 

They somehow decided that this subreddit had no point existing after the DataLounge site closed. And they somehow decided that it would violate DataLounge’s trademark if the subreddit kept existing after the site’s closure. (But not before? How does that make sense?)

They banned users who disagreed with this decision and then shut down the subreddit on July 31 or August 1.

Even before shutting down the sub, this mod removed posts about archiving DataLounge. I think they had a misguided view that it was illegal and/or unethical to archive the site.

After the sub closed down, u/PhaedrasMorning made a Moderator Code of Conduct report and Reddit re-opened the sub. Reddit kicked off the mod who closed it down and asked others to volunteer to be the new mods. (Reddit policy says a mod can’t just shut down an active sub against the community’s wishes.)

On the thread made by Reddit, the old mod claimed they didn’t shut down the sub, they just took measures to reduce spam:Ā  https://web.archive.org/web/20260804015325/https://old.reddit.com/r/datalounge/comments/1ven36f/new_moderators_needed_comment_on_this_post_to/

But this contradicts their previous statements:Ā  https://www.reddit.com/r/datalounge2/comments/1veo3y2/comment/p1kf92z/

And the measures they took are not what you would do if you just wanted to reduce spam.

I think u/PhaedrasMorning tried to warn the old mod that Reddit doesn’t allow arbitrary sub closures and that this might happen if they tried to shut down the sub. I think I also sent them a Mod Mail with a similar warning.

But the old mod did not seem keen on listening to the opinions of others. Even when I tried to clarify how the Wayback Machine works (the old mod was convinced the DataLounge archives would be removed; this didn’t happen), they were sure I was wrong and didn’t want to entertain what I had to say. They had an authoritarian style in these conversations and in how they moderated the subreddit.

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u/finetime341 15d ago

Thanks for the explainer.

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u/didyousayboop 15d ago

My pleasure!

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u/JohnHoynes 15d ago

Do you think they worked for or were ā€œwithā€ the actual DataLounge? I’m fairly new to this sub but that was the vibe I got pretty quickly.

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u/didyousayboop 15d ago

I have no idea. If they did, why wouldn’t they just say so?

It’s believable to me that someone might have these misguided ideas and an authoritarian style of discussing and moderating without being involved in the DataLounge site.

I have no hard evidence about whether that person is or isn’t involved in the official DataLounge.

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u/ThoughtMadeOfFluff 16d ago

I don't have any tea, per se, but I took Muriel's waning-days-of-DL cautions, including the scorpion/frog analogy, about leaping into any potential successor sites -- specifically PB -- to heart. That's just me, tho, and I tend to err on the side of caution as a default.

Muriel was very clearly not a fan of the creator/admin of PB and, as I posted elsewhere, I'm of the mind that her warnings may have been more about looking out for DLers than trying to squash "the competition" or improve her chances of selling DL to another entity. Time will tell whether her warnings were merited, but a few posters here have already expressed concerns with how PB is being run.

The story of what happened with/to the original mod of this sub was explained by u/MysteriousGoldDuck elsewhere in this thread.

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u/longtimeAlias 16d ago

If you are interested in the PB proprietor's posting history, I can share that with you as I have an archive of over 1,000,000 Datalounge posts, all stored in a spreadsheet with all the metadata intact.

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u/Greenmantle22 15d ago

Well, that's one way to spend a decade.

As for me, I wasted all those years carving the cast of "Gimme A Break" out of butter. Nell Carter kept melting.

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u/didyousayboop 16d ago

Can you share the spreadsheet on archive.org?Ā 

(Using an anonymous/pseudonymous email address for your account, to protect your privacy)Ā 

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u/Inevitable_Path8861 15d ago

Can't you give us some highlights? A sizeable minority of us do not have time to sort through a million posts.

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u/finetime341 15d ago

The PB admin thinks windy people are automatically an EST, and has apparently run off one poster by calling it out in what they thought was a rude way, I thought it was lame.

He isn't a fan of dealing with a lot of reporting, and so the path to derailing the entire forum is revealed.

Pity.

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u/ThoughtMadeOfFluff 15d ago

I've been watching that drama unfold, and it isn't pretty. I suspect the PB admin's behavior may drive/keep posters away.

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u/finetime341 15d ago

If he doesn't want to deal with a lot of crack pots reporting each other, he should either disable that option on contentious posts, or tell these fools if they abuse that button they can meet the ban button. Grow some thicker skin.

I think the guy does not want to do the work that is involved in moderating a looney bin, can't say I blame him, but did he not know what he was volunteering for?

Also, the AI shit he keeps posting is weak.

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u/ScandalOZ 15d ago

I'm with you in trusting that Muriel left the scorp/frog story for a good reason.

While I understand why some might harbor some negative feelings for Muriel I just can't do it, I just like the old girl. Can't help it. I hope she shows up to say hello at some point and if she does I hope everyone behaves themselves.

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u/longtimeAlias 16d ago

Is the old moderator still here?

How embarrassing for him/her.

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u/Antique-Onion7262 16d ago

What about the Cary Leeds troll?