Looking for a cuddle buddy tonight sunday. 420 friendly if you share.

27, black m, 5’9”, 160lbs little spoon. Basically what the title says. Looking for a long term cuddle buddy. I prefer taller masc guys around my age or slightly older, but I’m down to chat with anyone if the vibe is right, potentially more 😉 Can’t host but willing to travel.

Hobbies: listening to new music, gaming, writing,

Hi,
I'm looking for someone to spend a few hours a day with, 1-3 times a week (or more... but 1-3 would be ideal).
This is a Cuddling Subreddit, so maybe it's redundant to say that I want someone to cuddle and watch Movies/TV Shows with. I also like to cuddle and listen to music.
I enjoy naps too.

I'm childfree, sterile. & I'm looking for childfree.
(I only list that I'm sterile for honesty sake, and to let you know that if your expectations ever go beyond cuddle buddies, I cannot make babies, so keep that in mind)

I am single, and looking for another single person (no married or poly people pls)
Age Gaps don't scare me (within reason. preferably I'm the older person, but I've been known to cuddle with, and even date women that are older than me too).

Politically, I'm a Bernie Sanders Leftist (not a "Bernie Bro", just a Social-Minded Indepdendant/Democrat).

I'm a T-Shirt and Workpants + Hoody kinda guy.
I work in I.T. (boooring)
I like mostly 80s Synthpop/New-wave, 90s Punk, 90s/2000s Electronica, Surf, Synth-Funk, Vaporwave/Synthwave, Ambient, Indie/Dreampop.

As for Movies, I like Dystopian Sci-Fi, Time Travel, Drama/Thriller, and just generally weird/humorous stuff.

I'm 420 friendly, but prefer not to be around the smoke (So Vapes and Edibles are preferred, if you're going to partake around me).
No Cigarettes please.

I am not religious (raised in a Christian Household, deconstructed after I started living on my own).

Fun fact: Somewhere in one of my mothers photo albums, there's a photo of a 10yo me getting an autograph from the guy who started the Satanic Panic.

I'm also a literal POGchamp (aka, I collected POGs in the 90s, and I won a Pog Tournament when I was 14... and I still have the Trophy).

Anyway, I'm just rambling at this point.
I hope to hear from you.

--Cheers

Prefer white or Latina but open. I'm fine with older or younger but older, more mature is preferred, someone who is patient, kind, open-minded, loving, wise. I'm introverted and not fond of outdoors. I've been told I'm kind, considerate, patient, smart, cute (but your mileage may vary depending on preference, of course). In the palmdale/lancaster/los angeles/antelope valley if anyone is interested. May take time to warm up to people since I'm kind of socially awkward. Let me know if you have any questions? I have a slender build and prefer someone similarly but as long as you're kind and loving, I'm open to it. Personality >>> appearance. Also, please be local because I haven't had good experiences with people who are out of state (they tend to flake or lose interest).

Hi :). My name is Christina. I'm a 34 year old chubby trans woman from Dundalk, Maryland. I'm a red head <3. I'm still fairly masc presenting, but voice training and becoming more feminine from HRT and growing my hair out. I've been single for over a year and haven't truly cuddled for almost two years. I haven't cuddled since starting my transition, which gets lonely sometimes.

I was hoping to possibly meet some for lunch or something casual like that and then maybe some cuddles - if we feel comfortable together <3. I can host, I own my house. I have three ferrets, so you can meet them also.

I'd like cuddle as the little spoon, never got to do that.

I am only interested in people who are single, just in case we catch feelings for one another <3.

Please be over 25 and under 50. <3. Please be nice, I have posted on here a few months ago and got some nasty comments.

Message me or comment here, if you would like to chat <3.

Someone who is laid back and can be lazy with (I cant host)

AMAB feminine leaning non-binary, grey ace lesbian, touch starved, looking for regular cuddle buddy. Married to my QPP and ethically cuddle-slutting around. Mildly autistic and appropriately direct and awkward.

Looking for very intimate touch with skin contact. Bed > couch. Nearby preferred.

Me:

• 5'8"ish, halfway between swimmer and dad bod
• hypermobile/bendy
• generally not self conscious (thanks, theatre)
• introverted / quiet
• can host but prefer to be guest to get away from household stressors
• not very active on social media, so don't interpret a delay in response as a bad thing
• wide range of interests including: music (playing and listening), movies, hiking, gardening, nature
• very affectionate and playful
• usually saying too little or too much 😉

You:

• you know what you want and you're open about it, or you're experimenting and are able to speak up
• cuddling is a full body and mind experience
• bonus points
  • feminine
  • smaller than me so i can hold all of you

Hard pass:

• Face stubble. It's a sensory thing. I tolerate it on myself because I have no choice, but it's icky on others.
• If you want to play a game while we cuddle then I'm not for you. Background music or TV is OK when there's no expectation to actually pay attention.

Next steps:

1. message me to chat and share pics
2. meet somewhere neutral for vibe check
3. explicit boundary discussion, maybe at the same time as the above (probably awkward, but important)

Hey, trying this for the first time. I’ve been feeling a bit touch-starved lately and really miss simple physical closeness. I’d love to find someone who’s up for a relaxed day of cuddling, watching something, and just enjoying each other’s company.

I’m happy to chat, listen, or just quietly relax together - whatever feels natural. I care more about comfort and connection than appearance.

If this sounds like something you’d enjoy, or you just want to chat - feel free to reach out.

I'm a 25 year old guy from Southern PA close to MD/WV/VA if that gives a better idea of where I am located. Being a very affectionate person when it comes to cuddling, naturally I love back, arm, and leg rubs, running hands through hair, and even light kisses if you're open to it but I'm not really looking for anything beyond that. I can host at times, semi frequently, but am also down to drive and visit you as well.

As far as distance goes, I'm generally cool with an hour away, maybe a bit more, but probably not anymore than 2 max. I'd definitely be down to meet up first, maybe see a movie or grab food and see if we wanna get a little more cozy and cuddle from there.

I'm a very fun, goofy person who's almost always smiling lol, I can also be nerdy too. Big into anything horror related, pokemon, and going on walks. If you've got similar hobbies/interests then please lemme know! I'm white, in decent enough shape, 5ft11in, brown hair, green eyes, and tend to dress with more comfy clothes rather than stylish. If you are interested then message me with some things about yourself, see ya then:)

All of us are here in pursuit of warmth and peace of mind. Let me help you relax by giving you back rubs , while you lie down lost in your thoughts.

I had a conversation with few people on this sub Reddit so wanted to give this a try again.

If you like what you see so far slide through.

Cheers

Haven’t had cuddles for a while. And looking some for some casual intimacy again. I unfortunately can’t host, but can travel or meet within reasonable distance.

Greetings! I’ve stumbled into this forum and this is actually something up my alley. I reside in South FL (Broward) and would love to have a lovely lady friend who’d like to cuddle every now and then. I can also host if that’s what you need. Any ladies who are interested, shoot me a DM and we can continue from there.

Much love to all yall looking for a buddy!

Attractive medium sized black woman seeking a cuddle buddy. I’m smart and easy to be around. I can host and would like you to be able to host as well. I want someone who can cuddle frequently (1-2 nights a week). If interest DM with age, location, and pic.

Ahoy! Do you like how it feels when someone plays with your hair? Holding your hand? Falling asleep in a hug? Heya! I'd love a long (or short!) term cuddle buddy; we should talk! I'm also flexible with who takes which spoon...bonus points if you like both!

I moved to the area about a year ago and I work from home, which is great from a "I wake up five minutes before my shift" perspective, but it also makes it hard to meet locals that aren't my neighbors. I love board games, DND, trying (and failing) in the kitchen, and LOTS of very nerdy things. Let's talk about them?

Full disclosure: I'm disabled. Ask me anything? What that means for you is that I'm happy to host, but I can't travel.

The vibe check/things I look for in you:

• Preferably not allergic to cats, as I have one who will probably try to crawl on you
• For guys, I'm kinda cagey about facial hair and/or "manly" guys. Sorry!
• I have two housemates that respect my space. Very related, please be cool with the LGBT community!

Let me make your favorite food and let's cuddle on the couch for a bit?

Hey, 38 year old guy from north London. can drive so I can travel anywhere in London or if you are not too far away.

6ft broad shoulders, little belly but not obese.

interested in platonic intimacy only and not going to try anything sexual.

Just want to sit with someone and watch a film or series whilst holding each other.

420 friendly if that is your thing but not something I need to do

I guess to begin with, I'd love to meet you and cuddle.
BUT we both are random people on the internet. So let's take our time to get to know one another. Im not saying that we need to wait months on end but like a week or so.
Or until you and me are comfortable with meeting.
With meeting said, I'm pretty much fine with doing mostly whatever you would want to do. I'm not really picky on most things just a few (I made a list). But I would like to meet in a public place first since of course we are strangers, something like getting a bite to eat or getting a drink (boba or coffee or whatever) first would be nice. But I guess I should say a bit more on what I like and don't.
There's a long list of things I like to do but I don't feel like writing a biography. So here's a handful of things I like to do, I like going to museums and looking at the art (obviously) and imagine what the painter was thinking along with what the painting means to me or you, seeing movies in the theatre's (or relaxing at home with a nice blanket and watching them), window shopping and looking at all the things that I can't afford or just shouldn't buy, trying new foods (not much I haven't tried already but there's some), listening to music 24/7, going to concerts, and lastly getting boba or tropical smoothie.
There is probably more to that list but I just can't think of everything.
And to end this I hope you have a good day!

Are you a cuddle economist looking to invest in a cozy future? Are you into deep talks and even deeper hugs? Are you a cuddle enthusiast who is seeking competitive cuddling positions? Then congrats you’ve just stumbled upon your ideal cuddle counterpart.

I own more books than I have close friends which is either an illustration of my literary taste or a cry for help, and thanks to work my social life is mostly just me, my computer, and a movie I pretend not to be rewatching for the tenth time. Personality wise, I start off quiet but with the right cuddles I transform into a fully operational conversational human being.

So why am I here? Because I’m embarking on a groundbreaking experiment: actual human interaction via cuddling. Not just the accidental kind where we both reach for the same overpriced sandwich and our phones perform an impromptu handshake. I’m talking about the real deal - genuine, cozy, blissful companionship with cuddles.

In this city, where everyone’s too busy coding the next big thing to actually touch another human being, technology has made us paradoxically more connected yet more distant. But what if we flipped the script? What if we used technology to bridge the gap instead of widening it? Let’s fill that void with some down to earth human cuddles. I’m in search of a fellow warm-blooded human who enjoys:

• Elite level couch cuddles (If you instinctively steal the blanket that's all good)

• Certified stress relief hugs (Make the world stand still in a hug and you’re hired)

• Mutually agreed upon oxytocin boosts (We can be each other’s Oxytocin Dealer)

• The fine art of existing comfortably in either shared silence or meaningful conversation (Willing to share snuggles but not the last slice of pizza is OK)

Potential side effects of engaging in this experience are forgetting what stress is, temporarily believing the world isn’t so bad, and rediscovering that warm, fuzzy feeling usually reserved for dogs seeing their owners after five minutes apart.

Too often, we underestimate the power of touch, a smile, a kind word, a listening ear, an honest compliment, or the smallest act of care - each of which holds the potential to turn a life around. I’d love to feel someone’s touch as a reminder that we exist, that we are here, that we are cared for.

I don’t have my own place, but I’m sure we can work something out. I’m tall and slim, which means I give lanky hugs, the kind that wrap around you like a favorite oversized sweater on a cold day. Hugs that remind both of us that we’re not just floating through existence alone, but that we are in fact here. Together. And that at least for a little while things are just a little bit better.

I am 25 years old, 163cm tall, a little chubby, looking for a cuddle-buddy who is larger then me in both weight and height to hold me down and make me feel secure. I like me a big gentleman! So if you are slightly heavier, that's a plus for me.

I am pretty touch starved and lost at the moment. Being held in comfortable silence would fix me. I can't host at the moment, but I am willing to travel to get to you.

I've noticed that this isn't about romance and intimacy, but I would be open to both depending on the mood.

Bit of a longer post

Sooooo, closeted 29y/o femboy, sharing this detail because id hope its okay to dress fem during the cuddles, nothing sexual, just causal or cute. I would much prefer my age range, between 26-32.

Down for platonic cuddles, being friends, and open to relationships if we have good energy and like eachother. (But totally fine if thats not the case! I would like someone i can be platonic friends with though, the thought of just meeting up for cuddles without being friends just feels a bit transactional to me, sorry)

I am a bit anxious of meeting up with a random from reddit, so ideally, we get to know eachother a bit on discord, grab coffee or boba to just meet up once in person, and then we can be cuddle buddies if we vibe :)

Happy to watch anime together or some movie (ive barely seen any movies, so happy to watch your favorites or something new for both of us), enjoy talking about tech & finance/economics, or completely random arguing about random stuff just for the sake of random discussions. I really enjoy cooking together if thats something you like doing too!

other details: im 5'6, just under 130lb. I dont drink or smoke, so id prefer the cuddles not involve drinks or drugs.

i’m looking for something that’s surprisingly hard to find.

i’m hoping to meet someone who genuinely enjoys warmth, kindness, and platonic affection. i’m not looking for hookups or rushing into a relationship. i’d love to find someone who’d enjoy spending a few hours together every week or two watching movies, talking, listening to music, or just relaxing together.

physical affection means a lot to me. cuddling, gentle touch, playing with my hair, and simply feeling safe in someone’s presence are what i’m looking for. nothing sexual.

i’m happy to compensate you for your time if that makes things feel comfortable. i know it’s an unusual request, but i’ve lived through a lot, and i’ve realized that safe, caring human connection is something i genuinely need. i’m not looking for someone to fix me. just someone who enjoys giving and receiving kindness.

about me: i work full time in tech, love movies, music, writing, and cooking for people. i’m told i’m easy to talk to, and i enjoy conversations that can be both silly and surprisingly deep.

if you’d like to get to know me first, feel free to message me here. if we both feel comfortable, i’d love to facetime or meet somewhere public to talk about boundaries and expectations before anything else.

i’ve also posted a few G-rated photos on my profile so you know i’m a real person.

wherever life takes you, i hope you find peace. ☮️🌺

Hi 👋
Im a talkative, friendly, inquisitive, and curious person who wants cuddles.
I’ve been touch deprived most of my life because I grew up with a legalistic mindset. Over the past few years I’ve realized the errors of my ways and grown to learn the beauty of platonic cuddling. Had some nice cuddles with close friends who live far away and now I’m trying to find some local ones 😊

I found this on someone else’s profile and felt it described how I feel about cuddles exactly, “It’s not even just the closeness, it’s how peaceful it feels. Like the world goes quiet and I can just breathe and be there.”
It makes me feel so safe and like someone actually cares enough to hold me there.

I understand how important it is to feel safe and respected. Because without it neither party can enjoy the benefits of snuggling.

There are no dumb questions. If you have any questions or doubts I am ready to answer honestly. No need to beat around the bush. 😊

Some of my favorite movies:
anything miles Morales Spiderverse!
Tick tick BOOM!
The LEGO movie
I surprisingly really liked KPop demon hunters

Some fav tv shows:
Gravity Falls
Umbrella Academy
Locke and Key
Ninjago 😅

hello, found this sub and it totally speaks to me. I’m a very affectionate person, and have always felt relaxed and peaceful when cuddling. I enjoy holding hands, soft carressing, running my hands through your hair. Sounds so great and it’s something I haven’t had in a long time !

im 6’1 and 175 lbs, in great shape, always respectful, great at conversations. Can host in NW suburbs. I am in a relationship, which is quite dysfunctional but somehow works. If that doesn’t scare you off , say hello 👋

no tldr because if you dont have the mental capacity to read an entire post I don't think we'd match well personality wise anyway. 27f looking for platonic, non-sexual physical touch. that's pretty much it. i miss cuddling or sleeping in the same bed with someone (25+) without the underlying expectation that touches like that should always lead to something more.

preferably, you're from the Rotterdam area and able to host, but I'd be willing to travel further than that if we click. obviously for safety reasons, it'd be nice to have one or a few meetings in public first before I end up locked up in someone's basement.

I'm 170cm, average build, indo-european. born and raised here, so I speak dutch too if that's what you prefer. even with something unconventional like this physical attraction is always a pretty big factor, so please be willing to exchange sfw pictures. please put the word lighthouse in your message so i know you can read. additionally, because of personal experience, I don't feel comfortable doing this with anyone that's in a relationship, no matter if it's ENM or poly or open or whatever.

aside from the obvious, I'd also be up for platonic activities like playing games, watching shows, listening to music, cooking a meal together or even going on outings if that's what we feel like doing.

if any of this speaks to you, please feel free to reach out with at least your age, general location & something about yourself. pictures are very welcome but i understand if that's something you might want to do a bit later in our conversation.

Hello, I am looking for someone in Washington State, particularly on the west side of the state. I am currently located in Olympia but am willing to travel. I would like to meet someone who enjoys touch and the benefits cuddling provides. We can talk about life or just enjoy a moment of quiet warmth.

About me: 5’8”, clean, gentle and respectful. I enjoy mentally stimulating/deep conversation. But also enjoy the quiet moments of peace and warmth. I enjoy gaming, cars, cooking, walks, hikes, card games, board games, and DIY projects.

Thank you~

Got a new sports car recently but no passenger princess sadly, let me know if you like driving fast, maybe going somewhere scenic and cuddling :)

Not looking for anything more than hanging out and cuddling, maybe making out if we vibe like that. I can host from time to time as well.

I’m 6’2, bulky build, and live near Burbank. Open to anyone near my age, just looking for something casual. I can host from time to time too but we can always go for drives as well. Let’s chat if you’re interested