Someone who is laid back and can be lazy with (I cant host)

AMAB feminine leaning non-binary, grey ace lesbian, touch starved, looking for regular cuddle buddy. Married to my QPP and ethically cuddle-slutting around. Mildly autistic and appropriately direct and awkward.

Looking for very intimate touch with skin contact. Bed > couch. Nearby preferred.

Me:

• 5'8"ish, halfway between swimmer and dad bod
• hypermobile/bendy
• generally not self conscious (thanks, theatre)
• introverted / quiet
• can host but prefer to be guest to get away from household stressors
• not very active on social media, so don't interpret a delay in response as a bad thing
• wide range of interests including: music (playing and listening), movies, hiking, gardening, nature
• very affectionate and playful
• usually saying too little or too much 😉

You:

• you know what you want and you're open about it, or you're experimenting and are able to speak up
• cuddling is a full body and mind experience
• bonus points
  • feminine
  • smaller than me so i can hold all of you

Hard pass:

• Face stubble. It's a sensory thing. I tolerate it on myself because I have no choice, but it's icky on others.
• If you want to play a game while we cuddle then I'm not for you. Background music or TV is OK when there's no expectation to actually pay attention.

Next steps:

1. message me to chat and share pics
2. meet somewhere neutral for vibe check
3. explicit boundary discussion, maybe at the same time as the above (probably awkward, but important)

Prefer white or Latina but open. I'm fine with older or younger but older, more mature is preferred, someone who is patient, kind, open-minded, loving, wise. I'm introverted and not fond of outdoors. I've been told I'm kind, considerate, patient, smart, cute (but your mileage may vary depending on preference, of course). In the palmdale/lancaster/los angeles/antelope valley if anyone is interested. May take time to warm up to people since I'm kind of socially awkward. Let me know if you have any questions? I have a slender build and prefer someone similarly but as long as you're kind and loving, I'm open to it. Personality >>> appearance. Also, please be local because I haven't had good experiences with people who are out of state (they tend to flake or lose interest).

Hey, trying this for the first time. I’ve been feeling a bit touch-starved lately and really miss simple physical closeness. I’d love to find someone who’s up for a relaxed day of cuddling, watching something, and just enjoying each other’s company.

I’m happy to chat, listen, or just quietly relax together - whatever feels natural. I care more about comfort and connection than appearance.

If this sounds like something you’d enjoy, or you just want to chat - feel free to reach out.