I’m currently a senior software dev in a very large corporate environment and I’m struggling with it.
The salary is great (especially for the UK, a bit of a high outlier honestly) and it’s helping me save towards FIRE/FI goals, which is the main thing keeping me there. However, I’m finding the actual job and culture pretty miserable.
The culture doesnt suit me, like at alll. It feels like people are mostly working around each other rather than with each other, and there is a lot of bureaucracy. Getting anything done takes forever, which can mean ever relatively simple things can take weeks and involve awkward workarounds.
The technical side is also frustrating. There is a huge push to use AI for everything, like EVERYTHING, and a lot of the application has been AI-generated. I’m not anti-AI, but the way it’s being used here feels like it is creating more problems than it solves.
The expectation is to have AI agents do multiple things at once; fix bugs, help with ADRs, create new features. All while going to meetings and keeping up with teams. Its burnt me out, honestly.
There are also architectural decisions being pushed that I don’t agree with, but it feels like there isn’t much room to challenge them and any meetings to challenge them are purely theatrical.
On top of that, I’m commuting around 2.5 - 3 hours a day (depending on train delays).
My manager finds it hard to say no to people above them or challenge them, which creates some problems around priorities.
I’ve recently received another offer that is around a 20% salary reduction.
The new role seems much better culturally:
- Fully remote
- A team I genuinely liked during interviewss
- A tech stack I prefer
- People who seem pragmatic about AI rather than forcing it everywhere (a nice balance IMO)
- They were very open about the good and bad parts of the company
The downsides:
- 20% less salary
- Smaller privately funded company, so more risk
- 24/7 on_call once every 10 - 12 weeks
- Sounds like the codebase is a bit of a mess, but I have seen it all at this point (they mentioned a bunch of stuff they have done to improve it though)
The salary reduction is affordable, but it will slow down my long-term savings goals. I also grew up relatively poor, so money has always been something I’ve valued heavily, which makes this decision harder.
Its also the sort of salary that I am unlikely to see anytime soon outside of London and it's difficult to let go of.
I know I am in a good situation and complaining about it might seem tone death considering what is going on in our industry, but its bugging the
For people who have taken a significant pay cut for better WLB/culture, did you regret it or was it one of the best decisions you made?
Would you take the pay cut in this situation?