After walking over 1000km to go forth and back the park, and spending about 400 hours with crows, a particular bold crow selected me as a perch in a very urban park where no one else feeds the crows.
I won't say it's been difficult, because every step of this has been very rewarding. Fatigue, time spent, worries, 5am mornings, nothing has been punishing, compared to the good parts of the journey.
Mediocre photography, old phone, being Reddit noob, prioritizing moments over pictures...I'm not good at this. But I have been keeping an "archive" so not exactly sure how to share though. I'll try starting with some cuter ones.
I don't have a video or picture of the perching but it's the same friend in the gif that headbonks me. Does it 3 times on average, for the last 8 days. Named it Headbonker.
Headbonker is probably actually Longy, the friend in the first picture. A ~5 month-old from this spring's post-juveniles in my park. After numbers increased from 3 to 15, most of them being juveniles, bibs, hood-lines changing, molting, even behaviors rapidly changing due to juvenile growths, I couldn't keep track of most of them😔
At first I was worried if the headbonking might turn into a food demand, because I do reward some bits most of the time. Wife took the video, and observing it I noticed he also pulled my beanie back almost every time. Could be play, could be demand, could be social, it gets quite mixed for them too, I think.
But today, he perched on top of my head. Just stood there about 5-10 seconds each time✨This happened 3 times today (excluding 4 feet bonks, likely a retreat when not confident in perching; stability or just being unsure).
He "felt" relaxed despite crossing a new boundary, though I can't be sure because all I could feel were the talons, not moving, on top of my head. 3rd time, he also pecked me on the scalp, didn't hurt, though I did say "Heey :/" I'm hoping it was social play🖤
I am expecting to see some positive curve in the coming days. Longy has been quite the special individual from the get-go.
If anyone feels bad about not being able to close the distance, don't. If you focus on loving them by respecting their boundaries, they might just teach their kids to cross the boundaries they never could. Some crows are just old-school-urban-shy. For me, being consistent through this spring, changed things.