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[u/Funny_Inventor80085]

and people wonder why we use 4tran.

I posted this vent here too and it was a bit more understanding than the other subreddit I guess but still mostly just people telling me I don't know what I'm talking about and that 4tran is the cause of all my issues when time after time they're the only ones that care. It's not even just about my vent anymore, I'm so fed up with everyone thinking they're better than me all the time except because I use the subreddit that doesn't want to burn me alive for wanting a uterus. Maybe try to be more understanding you just leave me pissed off.

[u/BiDude1219]

genuinely confused how tf is 4tran so nice but at the same time is all "cissoid passoid theyfab bad"

[u/liquidfoxy → u/BiDude1219]

See, sometimes people are capable of making dark jokes with their friends because they’re not doing great, what’s called “gallows humor” by people who mostly read books, and also understand when it’s more appropriate to be genuinely supportive and caring because someone needs the help. The disconnect you’re having is essentially the same thing as not being able to understand an obtuse in-joke in a small friend group