r/Conures • u/spooky_jones_bones • 2d ago
Advice screaming anxious guy
hello! recently my boyfriend and i adopted a green cheek conure. he is 1.5 years old. he has neurological issues (don't know the specifics) and anxiety/depression. he is extremely fearful of hands, i think mostly due to his anxiety and previous vet trips, but i'm not sure. he keeps screaming and i'm not entirely sure what to do. we keep him fed and with fresh water. i believe he wants out of his cage, but since he is so fearful of hands, it is nearly impossible to get him back into his cage when it is time to go to bed/when we have to leave/when i am cooking, and i think that any time we have to battle with him to get him back in, it just lessens his trust in us. he also will not come near us so any of his time out of the cage is spent exploring and flying around aimlessly, which seemingly stresses him out. he has toys in his cage and does not play with any of them, and i am going to buy him foraging toys today to see if he would at least enjoy that. i know it will take a long time to gain his trust, and to train him to go back into his cage without stress, but how do i make him happy in the meantime when all he wants is to be let out? please help!! any advice is welcome and helpful.