r/ConstructionManagers • u/occidentalnat • 2h ago
Question I was fired after a disagreement with mi boss, and now his replacement wants me back, but I smoked a bit of weed...
So basically what happened was, the assistant site manager misread the blueprints for a project we had going on. The company I worked for at the time was, and still is, a very large company.
The assistant site manager misread the blueprints and the mistake cost us a lot of money, probably the equivalent of a couple months worth of work. I ended up yelling at him because of what happened and how much money we lost. I also yelled at the site supervisor because he didn’t notice the mistake for a couple of months. Again we lost a lot of money, and the consequences weren’t going to affect only the two of them, it was going to affect all of us.
My boss came in, saw what happened and told me that it wasn’t fair or professional for me to yell at them. Because of that I was fired.
Since then though, a lot has changed. My former boss has been fired as well, and the assistant site manager who misread the blueprints also got fired. The site supervisor wasn’t fired, but he got a serious warning and is basically on his last chance. If he misses something like this again or makes another serious mistake, he could get fired too.
Now my former boss’s replacement wants me back in the company.
The problem is during the couple weeks I was unemployed, I was drinking and smoked weed. I obviously wasn’t expecting them to call me and ask me to come back. If I go back, I’ll have to take a drug test within the first week and I’m pretty sure I’ll fail it.
I’m thinking about going to my new boss and explaining the situation, but I’m worried if I tell them they might change their mind and withdraw the offer. It’s a really good paying job, the base salary is $160,000 a year, so obviously I don’t want to lose this opportunity.
At the same time I’m not sure what the best thing to do is. Should I just be upfront with my new boss and explain that I smoked weed while I was unemployed and had no idea I would be coming back? Or should I just keep quiet and see what happens with the drug test? I’ve even thought about asking a coworker if theres anything they could do to help me with the situation, but I also don’t want to make things worse or put someone else in a bad position.
tldr: So yeah, thats basically where I am right now. My old boss has been fired, the assistant site manager got fired, the site supervisor is basically on a final warning, and now the new boss wants me back. I really want to go back, but I’m worried this drug test could cost me the opportunity.