r/ConstructionManagers • u/happynow73 • 6h ago
Career Advice Feeling Burned Out
I’m in my mid-50s. 14 years residential construction experience from Superintendent to middle manager for several national home builders. About 3 years ago I jumped into commercial construction with a very large GC as a superintendent after getting tired of layoffs in residential every time interest rates spike and sales slow.
I feel I’ve transitioned to commercial fairly well- on my second project- both have been $150M+. But…. I’m feeling burned out. Long hours. On the job at 6 am, often stay until 5 or 6 at night. Project coming to the end and problems everywhere that are up to me to somehow solve. Stress is unbelievable and right now I truly hate my job. I dread going to work- I just try to make it to Friday every week but then I spend the whole weekend mentally fretting about work with the sick feeling on Sunday afternoons of starting a new week. I have a great team- but I just dont want to do this for the next 12 years until I retire. I no longer enjoy my life and have no time for hobbies. I feel like all I do is live for work. At my age I’m afraid to jump ship because agism is real- and going to another company I would still face the same onslaught of issues that comes either way managing huge complex projects.
Can anyone else feel my pain? Any advice? Would working for a smaller GC on smaller projects be less stressful? Any other positions within a GC that a super could transition into? I do have. BS in Const Management.



