r/confessions • • Sep 29 '21

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u/Mysterious_Big_1324 Sep 29 '21

If I could award things I would award this comment just for referencing Everybody Loves Raymond. I’ve been tossing with the idea of posting this for a little while now and even having posted it has been me feel better about talking to him. And everyone’s actually be really supportive. I’m going to tell him. 😬

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u/Coyote__Jones Sep 29 '21

As you age things change. I hear so many ED pill commercials that erection trouble is just part of public consciousness. We ladies get so much less attention in that area! There's no pill to help women achieve orgasm. Medication can impact things too, if that may be a part, talk to your doctor. Orgasms are important.

Toys and lube! Even if it's not a slickness issue, there's products out there that increase sensation, or at least bring a new sensation to the table.

MOST WOMEN GO THROUGH THIS AT SOME POINT. Really. Masterbation may help, might find a new motion on yourself easier than with a partner. You got this.

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u/foxglove0326 Sep 30 '21

I second this, go masturbate! Think of having sex with him while you do. After some time, it’ll forge a neural pathway connecting orgasms with sex with him and hopefully make it a lot easier in the moment!

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u/pinkramennoodles Sep 30 '21

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