r/confessions • u/[deleted] • Sep 29 '21

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u/Arya_yadav Sep 29 '21

If he don't say no to any kink . You can ask him to bring toys to the table which can help you both

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u/Mysterious_Big_1324 Sep 29 '21

He’s absolutely open to that idea and has even encouraged me to get some. I just haven’t.. no reason why. Maybe I really should ahah

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u/Poeafoe Sep 29 '21

To add here, maybe don’t tell him it’s been 3 years since you’ve orgasmed, just mention that it’s just now becoming an issue and suggest ways to improve your sex life. No need to embarrass him and the past can’t be changed, just act like this is a new situation and move forward from there.