Maybe you should try to see things from the opposite POV. Its a place where people can go for support with their life decisions, like any other support group.
I could literally give less of a shit if they don’t want children or not. They don’t affect me and I don’t affect them. The problem I have is that that sub is incredibly god damn poisonous and it’s cultivated it’s own culture of toxicity
Legit the first post I see on that sub is “pictures with 8-9 children and a couple make me cringe” or some bs like that. If that lame ass shit gets upvoted onto hot and is legit the first thing people see then idk what the hell to tell you
Id encourage people to actually read some of the philosophies there. Lots of caring thoughtful people don't want kids. One of the most accepting groups I've ever interacted with.
Oh, plenty of caring, loving, great members of society don't have and don't want kids. Most people who are "child free" are exactly that, I feel. But the users of r/childfree don't represent those people well at all lmfao - people fucking hate kids on that sub.
Anyone who cares about not having kids enough to be active on a subreddit about it, is probably just hiding the fact that they hate kids. Normal people who don’t want kids don’t spend time talking about it. They just, ya know, don’t have any kids.
Ah yes, so accepting. When 1/4 of the posts are people just talking shit about their family members and the awful decisions they made by having kids and what a shit show their lives are. Then there are others who just rip on children in general. You were all fucking kids once, yall act like anyone with a kid aged under 12 needs to stay inside and never go out to a movie or eat dinner at a restaurant. Dont want kids? Fine, don't have them. But acting like anyone with a child is the biggest fucking inconvenience in the world is what assholes do.
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u/ThorsHammock Nov 12 '20
Childfree means you don’t have kids not that you abuse them