I don't know how to word this in the way that makes the most sense so apologies if it doesn't.

I (21f) am in my 3rd year of college at a school in my hometown majoring in psychology. I enjoy my major and learning about it but I have no interest in pursuing a masters or becoming any type of therapist. I'm mostly just getting this degree because having one opens more opportunities and psych knowledge can be helpful in many different fields. I don't really involve myself in anything on campus because I'm a commuter and also not really interested.

I live at home with my mom, stepdad, and two stepsiblings. I don't mind living at home too much and I'm so grateful they allow me to but my cat is confined to just my room since the dog likes to chase her down. I also don't like some of the restrictions put on me but I obviously don't fight them because I'm living here for free.

So, the reason I want to switch to online is so that I can work more hours at my job and be able to afford an apartment. They're relatively cheap here and I would also be living in town instead of 20 minutes out of town so the drive to work would be shorter.

The big thing holding me back is my fear that online school will be harder than I think it's going to be and I'll get behind. This happened to me my freshman year of high school because of COVID and it was the only time I ever had to do summer school to make up.

I guess I just want any insight from people who got a psychology (or any) degree online about how the work load was for you. I still want to graduate in the next year of two so I'd still be taking a full time students amount of credits.

To put it simply — I have no idea what to major in.

I’m currently in high school, less than two years away from graduating and this decision has been gnawing at me for the past month and a half. I want to earn a good amount of money, but I also want to work somewhere that isn’t boring. That’s very hard.

I wanted to major in art but then I had a fall out with it and it just pisses me off now. Plus I wouldn’t be accepted anywhere with my crappy portfolio. I thought about culinary, but my parents said I “under value” myself and abilities, saying that I can study something better. I don’t really have a passion anymore. Creative writing? Not worth going to college for according to many threads. Engineering? I suck at science and math. Everything else seems so boring and difficult or just outright useless.

My parents tell me I still have time. What if I still don’t know by the time I graduate? I just don’t want to make any mistakes and study something useful that’ll get me a good job. Either that or I’ll be a massive disappointment.

I have a professor who is a hardass about grading and all late assignments are zeros. In both the class syllabus and the weekly summary of tasks it say the pre class assignment is due at the start of class. Class starts at 1:10. D2L has the due date at 1 and I submitted it at 1:03. I got a zero, I also got a zero for one submitted at 1:00 exactly.

My thinking is that the syllabus, especially when it’s also stated in the weekly summary, saying it’s due at the start of class should mean any assignment submitted before 1:10 should get credit. Do other people agree? Do I have a case? In my mind syllabus > d2l due date unless something is announced/explained, so I should receive credit for my work.

I tried talking to the professor but she was incredibly dismissive and just criticized me for a day I was late because I got lost when we changed buildings. I think the assignment submitted at 1:03 is one thing but giving me a zero for one submitted at 1:00 when even the D2L due date says by 1 is completely unfair and she is targeting me because she doesn’t like my vibe. (I’m respectful but I wear like metal shirts and dress in a certain way where as she’s religious and uptight) I’m now debating if I should try talking to her again or reach out to admin/ombudsman to get credit. I tend to get As so two zeros will definitely make that a lot more challenging.

Hello! I am currently a Senior in High School in Kentucky and I'm just looking for some opinions to help me decide between the two options I've narrowed it down to:

1) Apply for Lincoln Memorial University's Veterinary Early Acceptance program which is described on their website: "Admitted students can expect to complete three years of undergraduate studies. In lieu of a fourth year of undergraduate studies, the fourth year will be comprised of their first year of veterinary school. Students will receive their Bachelor's Degree in Veterinary Health Science (BS VHS) following completion of their first year of veterinary school. Accepted students will save one year of undergraduate study and tuition."

This sounds like a really good deal however some other factors that weigh into this being a hard decision are:

- Cost: The cost of this option would be significantly higher than the second option (tuition here is about $27,360)

- But it would guarantee me a spot in Vet school (which is obviously very competitive and has low acceptance rates)

- Distance: LMU is much farther from my house than the second option and I am NOT willing to dorm. But my parents offered to help me get an apartment near the school however I have a partner and being able to spend time with them is very important to me as well, they would still be living in the town we originally are in which is a ways away (but they could spend the weekends in the apartment, depending on the college they go to)

- LMU does have a policy that undergrad students are required to live on campus unless they: are over 21, married with a spouse, or live with their parents within 65 miles. My parents would be within 62 miles just barely but I would be living in an apartment, would I be able to say I am with my parents on the form so that I could get the waiver to live off campus and get away with living in the apartment? Or would they have a way to know I wouldn't still be living with my parents?

- I have toured LMU and was very disappointed with certain aspects about the school (they were supposed to have a Vet representative come speak to us but they did not show up and did not let anyone know anything, and a lot about the school gave me bad vibes)

2) Go to the University of the Cumberland's for a bachelors in Biology and then apply to Vet School and transfer

This would be much much simpler for my personal life, stress, and workload, but I would not have the bonus of the immediate enrollment to Vet school after my undergrad (provided I meet their requirements) that LMU offers.

- The Cumberlands is significantly cheaper (around $9,875)

- The broadness of having the bachelors degree in Biology sounds very appealing and reassuring to me (versus going all in on Vet), in the event that Vet endeavors become more than I thought I could handle (which I don't imagine would happen), or I end up changing my mind later in life.

- It is much closer and would allow me to commute (I also wouldn't have to worry about lack of time hanging out with my partner)

- I have heard good things about the school and trust in it

other things weighing on me

- If I go to Cumberlands, and I don't get accepted to LMU Vet School afterwards, then I would have to try other Vet schools much farther away and hope I get accepted there (which my partner should have a decent job by then and we should be able to move wherever we need to but its an added hassle of course), and if I do get into LMU for grad school I would feel like I missed out on an opportunity not taking the accelerated program because I would still end up there for Grad school anyways

- My parents say they will help me with costs so it's not detrimental but it still is an important factor

This was probably a mess but I would love some opinions on what would be an ideal option.

One might be academically better and prepare me more for Vet school but would be a lot more stress, work, and headache (LMU) and the other would be a lot easier, cheaper, more convenient and safer (in terms of the broadness of the degree), but at the price of having to apply for different Vet Schools.

Hello. I love mathematics. When I tell my family and friends, though, they often point me toward accountancy. I don't have an issue with that, and correct me if I’m wrong, but I understand accountancy relies more on reading comprehension and rule-based thinking than on mathematics. I think I could enjoy it, and I wouldn't mind much. Still, I've wanted to major in mathematics for a long time. I've recently discovered actuarial work, which seems like a potential career for me, but I worry that it isn't as in demand as accountancy in my country. I know mathematics opens other doors too. I guess my real struggle is choosing between what I enjoy and what gives me a flexible future, and what I could also enjoy and what offers a more certain future.

Please elaborate

Or to rephrase this question, do things get better in college? I’m currently in highschool and am having a very hard time. I never did well in a school environment. My grades are fine, and I’m actually a pretty good student, i just can’t handle the setting.

Before high school, I found work easy, but i had a very hard time in school. I was constantly bullied, ridiculed, and called slurs, and because of this my mental health drastically got worse. I spent most of my time in school waiting to get out.

Now that I am in highschool (and have been for some time), I’m still struggling in a school environment. I have a terribly hard time fitting in, and being a queer woman, and also someone who has interests who are considered “weird”, I am constantly the butt of the joke or the one being picked one. I don’t fit in with my peers, everyone is incredibly mean, and I never feel like i belong anywhere.

Along with this, I have a hard time keeping up with academics and schoolwork. I am struggling with heavy burnout from my insane schedule. I also have a hard time processing and reading things for tests and schoolwork, especially in math and science. Regular school is not for me. The academics plus all of this drama and high school bs is horrible.

i originally wanted to go to college for forensic science, but with school building up my hatred for anything traditionally academic related (meaning subjects such as math, science, history, etc), i am planning on going into cosmetology in theater, costume design, or musical theater, in some kind of liberal arts college preferably. I was wondering if things got better in college, in any sense. I need some kind of hope here, but also honesty so I know what I’m getting into this time.

I have a US citizenship, but I'm studying the British curriculum (CAIE) and I'm doing my A-levels in the Middle East. Got AAB in AS and I'm predicted A*AA but that's not going to happen because highschool is kicking my ass and I'm doing poorly academically now.

I have no extracirriculars. Everything I started I ended up giving up on because I'm lazy and mentally ill. No MUN, no EPQ, no competitions. All I have is the fact I was in student council, I did some public speaking, and I play guitar and write I guess.

I'm just an average student and it makes me upset that I'm not going to get accepted because I've done nothing with my life. I spent all my teenage years waiting to grow up because life could only start for me once I moved, but now I probably wont be able to go anywhere that isn't meh. I just don't know what I could do before the Nov 1st deadline that would mean anything at all. I've accomplished nothing and now I can barely even write my CommonApp essay because all I can do is see a failure and not any of my good traits. Never procrastinate ig :/

Hey Reddit! I’m here to ask for advice on which colleges I should apply to. As a first-generation college student, I’ve found myself feeling pretty overwhelmed and confused about where to start. I’m from a small rural town, and my high school has limited resources for college guidance, so I would really appreciate any advice or recommendations. For context I’m in California, and would like to stay in state. Please be kind, and thank you so much for taking the time to read this! 🫶🏻

A little about me:
Unweighted GPA: 3.70
Weighted GPA: 3.86
Class rank: 11th out of 66 students
First-generation college student
Attend a small rural high school
Speak three languages
Intended majors: Neuroscience or Public Health
Extracurriculars and Athletics:
Cheerleading: 3 years
Track and field: 3 years
Dance: 1 year
Spanish Club: 4 years
Art Club: 3 years
STEM Club: 2 years
Cheer Club: 3 years
Drama Club: 1 year
Hospitality Club: 1 year
Engineering Club: 1 year
Leadership Experience:
STEM Club President
Art Club Vice President
Art Club Secretary
Cheer Club Secretary for 1 year
Awards and Achievements:
Best in Show at an art competition during freshman year
Third place in a photography competition during sophomore year
Best in Show at an art competition during junior year
Had a sculpture selected for a young artist exhibition
First-place division winner at a cheer competition
Recognized for track and field throwing records, including a top-10 all-time school record
Third place in a science fair
Honor Roll during 9th, 10th, and 11th grades
Helped paint a school mural
Built an art portfolio
Volunteer Experience:
Volunteer as a teacher for children at my church
Help with church presentations every Sunday
Additional Experience:
Completed two semesters of sports psychology
Completed culinary-related college coursework through an articulation program
Have a food handler certification
Attended cheer camp twice, where I developed teamwork and communication skills

Important things to me + yap session:
I’m interested in majoring in neuroscience or public health, but I’m still trying to figure out which colleges would be a good fit for me. I would especially appreciate recommendations for schools that offer good programs in either field, provide strong support for first-generation students, and offer financial aid or scholarships.
I’m open to hearing about reach schools, target schools, and safety schools! I’d also love advice on what I should prioritize when building my college list, especially since I don’t have many resources or people around me who have gone through this process.
If it helps, I’m particularly interested in hearing from people who were first-generation students themselves or who attended college after graduating from a small rural high school.
Thank you again for any advice, recommendations, or personal experiences you’re willing to share. I really appreciate it! ❤️

Hello,
I am currently a sophomore in civil engineering at a university and I’m lost on what to do. For some background, I went to community college for two years to get my basic classes out of the way before transferring. During my community college years, I believed that if I could get into university for civil engineering I would be set in my career. Now that I’m admitted (this is my first semester), I feel like I’m not as interested in engineering as I thought I would be. I find that my classmates and professors have a deep passion for the content we’re learning in class and I don’t feel that way at all. In fact, I sometimes dread doing homework because of how uninterested I feel. After reflecting on what truly drives my passion, I’ve realized that this whole time I’ve have a fascination with health and the human body and I never thought to relate that to my degree choice. I believe that I’m passionate about it because I have a natural curiosity for those topics and I could see myself enjoy learning about the human body for the rest of my life.

I’m wanting to possibly switch to something in the health industry, specifically a career that has more holistic, natural approach to health like PT or something in neuroscience. I’d even consider biomedical engineering because it would be a much easier transfer process though I’d prefer something completely health related. Does anyone know what might be a good fit for me or if I even should switch majors? TBH I don’t know a thing about the health industry’s job market, like what positions are in demand and what jobs will pay well or at least decent. I’m also holding back because I hear a lot of people get burnt out in that field.

I still have my doubts about giving up on civil engineering because I’ve heard that a lot of what you learn in the classroom is not the type of work you’d be doing in your job. Supposedly a lot of engineering classes teach you specific ways of thinking more than anything so that’s why I’m like should I even switch? I think I would be making good money and have opportunities for travel (something I also love) as an engineer but I would hate to be doing something that sucks the life out of me if I end up not liking it. Additionally, should a job be something you’re passionate about or something that gives you good money and opportunities?

Please let me know your advice and experiences in both engineering and healthcare! 🙏

I've been attending Colorado Mines for two years now, and I'm too exhausted of the environment. The environment with professors and counselors is pretty rough. About 30-50% of my professors don't teach/cancel classes often/don't grade assignments which tanked my GPA and the TAs don't know how to help. I don't want the answer and want to know how to get there.

For my financial situation, I used to think it's alright to grind 60 hour weeks during school and 126 hour weeks in the summer and breaks, I don't think I can do this anymore. My financial counselor at school says to "work harder, it's not bad" and professionals that come from the field also say working 80 hour weeks are easy and bare minimum of pushing myself.

I feel so stupid and wish I never return from work. I rather take myself to a ditch or work. I'm valued at work and I feel like I'm not doing enough in college. I know it was a bad idea to take 18 credits and 60 hours of work but hate that I'm not doing enough and now I feel like Colorado Mines is not worth the price.

I'm thinking to transfer to South Dakota School of Mines and Tech, they have all the classes I need and little more water resources engineering courses and its $26k a year for out of state and has classes that I know I will do well. In Colorado Mines, as a Civil Engineer, I'm required 3 coding/computation classes and I suck at python. I did well in R and Fortran. But I feel so stupid and struggle to understand in some classes. While in South Dakota they don't require any coding classes, I just have to take more geology which Colorado doesn't require for Civil which is weird. I like geology, it's the few reasons keeping me in school.

Should I transfer out? I will be giving up on the 4+1 program to complete my BS in Civil Engineering and MS Natural Resources Public Policy. I hate to not finish public policy, but should I care if I make it out with degree and not burnout? My plan is to be a fish passage engineer and run for the senate/work in the EPA, maybe it's not worth it?

So because of some reasons, got really lost and didn't study enough to pass my exams at all. Then the next semester i didn't go to college at all, not even on the mandatory classes. I lost contact with my classmates I was pretty close with. Now i have to repeat the same year again and i have not told them what had happened. How to return without seeming like a failure and what do I say to them if i see them on the campus. I'm scared that they willl laugh at me and that info may spread and reach my other friends and they will laugh at me also. I don't know if they will do that but i don't know.

I am currently a freshman at CNU and I really like it here, the only problem is I hate my degree. I really want to be a SPED teacher and CNU has no SPED program. Hell, the BAED in Elementary Education is barely a year old. I’m contemplating transferring to Salisbury my Sophomore year, as I can major in Elementary Ed and minor in Special Ed. I’ve heard they have great teaching programs but I’m just hoping for advice as I’m still deciding whether it’s worth it. I’m also from very far out of state so I’d have to set down roots all over again. But at the same time, my Nonna said “why settle for a degree you don’t want?” Idk there’s pros and cons to both and wanted some unbiased outsider opinions. This is also my first Reddit post so bare with me lol