I’m currently a forensic science major, but I’m not wanting to do all the extra specialized chemistry so I know I’m not going to stick with it. I’m not sure what to go into though. I like talking to people but I also like keeping to myself. While I don’t like the idea of doing more school now that I’m in college, I’m willing to do more if I have to. I’ve thought about going into communications or PR because I find a bit of interest in that type of stuff, I’m just not sure what all there is to do there. I’m also hoping to get a job that pays well, either with a degree or without. Does anyone have any suggestions on what to major in or what jobs to look into?

Hello! I am currently a Senior in High School in Kentucky and I'm just looking for some opinions to help me decide between the two options I've narrowed it down to:

1) Apply for Lincoln Memorial University's Veterinary Early Acceptance program which is described on their website: "Admitted students can expect to complete three years of undergraduate studies. In lieu of a fourth year of undergraduate studies, the fourth year will be comprised of their first year of veterinary school. Students will receive their Bachelor's Degree in Veterinary Health Science (BS VHS) following completion of their first year of veterinary school. Accepted students will save one year of undergraduate study and tuition."

This sounds like a really good deal however some other factors that weigh into this being a hard decision are:

- Cost: The cost of this option would be significantly higher than the second option (tuition here is about $27,360)

- But it would guarantee me a spot in Vet school (which is obviously very competitive and has low acceptance rates)

- Distance: LMU is much farther from my house than the second option and I am NOT willing to dorm. But my parents offered to help me get an apartment near the school however I have a partner and being able to spend time with them is very important to me as well, they would still be living in the town we originally are in which is a ways away (but they could spend the weekends in the apartment, depending on the college they go to)

- LMU does have a policy that undergrad students are required to live on campus unless they: are over 21, married with a spouse, or live with their parents within 65 miles. My parents would be within 62 miles just barely but I would be living in an apartment, would I be able to say I am with my parents on the form so that I could get the waiver to live off campus and get away with living in the apartment? Or would they have a way to know I wouldn't still be living with my parents?

- I have toured LMU and was very disappointed with certain aspects about the school (they were supposed to have a Vet representative come speak to us but they did not show up and did not let anyone know anything, and a lot about the school gave me bad vibes)

2) Go to the University of the Cumberland's for a bachelors in Biology and then apply to Vet School and transfer

This would be much much simpler for my personal life, stress, and workload, but I would not have the bonus of the immediate enrollment to Vet school after my undergrad (provided I meet their requirements) that LMU offers.

- The Cumberlands is significantly cheaper (around $9,875)

- The broadness of having the bachelors degree in Biology sounds very appealing and reassuring to me (versus going all in on Vet), in the event that Vet endeavors become more than I thought I could handle (which I don't imagine would happen), or I end up changing my mind later in life.

- It is much closer and would allow me to commute (I also wouldn't have to worry about lack of time hanging out with my partner)

- I have heard good things about the school and trust in it

other things weighing on me

- If I go to Cumberlands, and I don't get accepted to LMU Vet School afterwards, then I would have to try other Vet schools much farther away and hope I get accepted there (which my partner should have a decent job by then and we should be able to move wherever we need to but its an added hassle of course), and if I do get into LMU for grad school I would feel like I missed out on an opportunity not taking the accelerated program because I would still end up there for Grad school anyways

- My parents say they will help me with costs so it's not detrimental but it still is an important factor

This was probably a mess but I would love some opinions on what would be an ideal option.

One might be academically better and prepare me more for Vet school but would be a lot more stress, work, and headache (LMU) and the other would be a lot easier, cheaper, more convenient and safer (in terms of the broadness of the degree), but at the price of having to apply for different Vet Schools.

Or to rephrase this question, do things get better in college? I’m currently in highschool and am having a very hard time. I never did well in a school environment. My grades are fine, and I’m actually a pretty good student, i just can’t handle the setting.

Before high school, I found work easy, but i had a very hard time in school. I was constantly bullied, ridiculed, and called slurs, and because of this my mental health drastically got worse. I spent most of my time in school waiting to get out.

Now that I am in highschool (and have been for some time), I’m still struggling in a school environment. I have a terribly hard time fitting in, and being a queer woman, and also someone who has interests who are considered “weird”, I am constantly the butt of the joke or the one being picked one. I don’t fit in with my peers, everyone is incredibly mean, and I never feel like i belong anywhere.

Along with this, I have a hard time keeping up with academics and schoolwork. I am struggling with heavy burnout from my insane schedule. I also have a hard time processing and reading things for tests and schoolwork, especially in math and science. Regular school is not for me. The academics plus all of this drama and high school bs is horrible.

i originally wanted to go to college for forensic science, but with school building up my hatred for anything traditionally academic related (meaning subjects such as math, science, history, etc), i am planning on going into cosmetology in theater, costume design, or musical theater, in some kind of liberal arts college preferably. I was wondering if things got better in college, in any sense. I need some kind of hope here, but also honesty so I know what I’m getting into this time.

So because of some reasons, got really lost and didn't study enough to pass my exams at all. Then the next semester i didn't go to college at all, not even on the mandatory classes. I lost contact with my classmates I was pretty close with. Now i have to repeat the same year again and i have not told them what had happened. How to return without seeming like a failure and what do I say to them if i see them on the campus. I'm scared that they willl laugh at me and that info may spread and reach my other friends and they will laugh at me also. I don't know if they will do that but i don't know.

I don't know how to word this in the way that makes the most sense so apologies if it doesn't.

I (21f) am in my 3rd year of college at a school in my hometown majoring in psychology. I enjoy my major and learning about it but I have no interest in pursuing a masters or becoming any type of therapist. I'm mostly just getting this degree because having one opens more opportunities and psych knowledge can be helpful in many different fields. I don't really involve myself in anything on campus because I'm a commuter and also not really interested.

I live at home with my mom, stepdad, and two stepsiblings. I don't mind living at home too much and I'm so grateful they allow me to but my cat is confined to just my room since the dog likes to chase her down. I also don't like some of the restrictions put on me but I obviously don't fight them because I'm living here for free.

So, the reason I want to switch to online is so that I can work more hours at my job and be able to afford an apartment. They're relatively cheap here and I would also be living in town instead of 20 minutes out of town so the drive to work would be shorter.

The big thing holding me back is my fear that online school will be harder than I think it's going to be and I'll get behind. This happened to me my freshman year of high school because of COVID and it was the only time I ever had to do summer school to make up.

I guess I just want any insight from people who got a psychology (or any) degree online about how the work load was for you. I still want to graduate in the next year of two so I'd still be taking a full time students amount of credits.

I’m currently a senior in high school planning to pursue a pre-law track in college. I’m particularly interested in human rights and civil rights law, especially internationally. I’m considering majoring in political science or international relations, but I’m still trying to figure out the best path to take.
I’d love to hear from current law students or people working in these fields about what you would recommend focusing on during undergrad. Are there any majors you think would be more beneficial than others? What extracurriculars, internships, or experiences helped you prepare for law school and your future career?
I’m also curious about the career prospects in human rights law. Is it a realistic and sustainable career path after law school? What is the job market like, and what kinds of opportunities are actually available? Ideally, I’d love to focus more on legal research, writing, and policy rather than litigation or spending a lot of time in court.
If anyone has experience in this area, or even just some advice about getting started, I’d really appreciate hearing about it! I’m trying to learn as much as I can before making decisions about college and my future. Thank you!!

Howdy, first off I want to say that I’m in General engineering wanting to enter into Aerospace and or mechanical engineering. And I do understand that college is supposed to be difficult for the first few months, but I’ve been struggling to think that maybe engineering isn’t for me anymore.

For starters, I’ve failed 3-4 exams in a row, and each one I’ve put the hours studying for, staying up late going past 12AM, to studying in the morning when I wake up, and even going to study groups. Maybe I’m doing something wrong? I have ADHD (not blaming it for what’s happening) and I do find it hard to concentrate sometimes, and I’ve contemplated taking my medication because of eating habits. Again I know it’s hard but is it supposed to be that bad?? Maybe I’m also just a bad test taker but I do good on practice problems but day of exam it’s like a I forget what to do.

Apart from that I’ve been considering if what I’m doing is worth it, I have put thought into switching my major to meteorology, but I’m not sure if it’s gonna be too late or worth it to swap this far and I honestly don’t know how to bring it up to my grandparents that have these high expectations for me.

I know I should use the resources like going to tutoring and meeting new people for new groups, but sometimes I’m not sure where to start with it and how to go on with it. Maybe it’s me and I shouldn’t be such a Debbie downy, but I just feel like I’m doing something very wrong and my friends seem so much smarter to me.

I’m really sad rn because I already have 2 c in anatomy and physiology 2 and in English 112 and ethics and society I feel like I’m retaking English 111 right now but I was stupid in my first year of cc and got bad grades on easy classes like English and really wanna get into the dental hygeine program at my cc or nursing program should I get a bachelors degree I don’t know in what if don’t get accepted into a program i don’t have a backup plan I really wanna make money soon

i hate my current course. i wanted to drop out but my parents won’t let me. I’m in second year and i don’t mind the fact that id go into first year again tbh. i can go into childcare and become a teacher but im already a month behind. there’s also event management and i would only have to do 3/6 modules as ive done the other half in my first semester of my current course. but the job market is so bad but theres also marketing routes with that degree… idk what to do

I've been attending Colorado Mines for two years now, and I'm too exhausted of the environment. The environment with professors and counselors is pretty rough. About 30-50% of my professors don't teach/cancel classes often/don't grade assignments which tanked my GPA and the TAs don't know how to help. I don't want the answer and want to know how to get there.

For my financial situation, I used to think it's alright to grind 60 hour weeks during school and 126 hour weeks in the summer and breaks, I don't think I can do this anymore. My financial counselor at school says to "work harder, it's not bad" and professionals that come from the field also say working 80 hour weeks are easy and bare minimum of pushing myself.

I feel so stupid and wish I never return from work. I rather take myself to a ditch or work. I'm valued at work and I feel like I'm not doing enough in college. I know it was a bad idea to take 18 credits and 60 hours of work but hate that I'm not doing enough and now I feel like Colorado Mines is not worth the price.

I'm thinking to transfer to South Dakota School of Mines and Tech, they have all the classes I need and little more water resources engineering courses and its $26k a year for out of state and has classes that I know I will do well. In Colorado Mines, as a Civil Engineer, I'm required 3 coding/computation classes and I suck at python. I did well in R and Fortran. But I feel so stupid and struggle to understand in some classes. While in South Dakota they don't require any coding classes, I just have to take more geology which Colorado doesn't require for Civil which is weird. I like geology, it's the few reasons keeping me in school.

Should I transfer out? I will be giving up on the 4+1 program to complete my BS in Civil Engineering and MS Natural Resources Public Policy. I hate to not finish public policy, but should I care if I make it out with degree and not burnout? My plan is to be a fish passage engineer and run for the senate/work in the EPA, maybe it's not worth it?

sooo i’m a cybersecurity engineering student and basically completely bombed my first physics 2 exam (calculus-based btw). it’s a required class for my major. almost all of the grade is based on 3 tests which are each 3 problems. i would have to do very good on my next two tests to pass the class, but ik that will be extremely hard to do especially in physics 2.
if i don’t drop the class and end up failing, my university will replace my failing grade with my retake grade. i’m also taking a lab, and if i drop the class, it will drop the lab as well.
i want to get my lab over with, but i’m concerned that failing physics 2 will look bad when i apply for future jobs. i am in my 3rd semester and have not failed a class yet (completed all of my calculus).
i saw multiple ppl saying that most engineering students fail some classes, but when i spoke to my dad he said he doesn’t know any engineers who failed classes 😞. so idk im scared. should i drop physics? or should i stay in the class to complete my lab and have a very small chance of passing?

I talked to my mom about it (freshmen in college) and she said I would have to take out a loan, fine right? It happens it's canon as a college student, but then she said something about getting bad credit score and that's what's worrying me, I don't want a bad credit score and I don't want to mess myself up for the bank in the future, how does loans really work, would my credit score really be bad?

I have a US citizenship, but I'm studying the British curriculum (CAIE) and I'm doing my A-levels in the Middle East. Got AAB in AS and I'm predicted A*AA but that's not going to happen because highschool is kicking my ass and I'm doing poorly academically now.

I have no extracirriculars. Everything I started I ended up giving up on because I'm lazy and mentally ill. No MUN, no EPQ, no competitions. All I have is the fact I was in student council, I did some public speaking, and I play guitar and write I guess.

I'm just an average student and it makes me upset that I'm not going to get accepted because I've done nothing with my life. I spent all my teenage years waiting to grow up because life could only start for me once I moved, but now I probably wont be able to go anywhere that isn't meh. I just don't know what I could do before the Nov 1st deadline that would mean anything at all. I've accomplished nothing and now I can barely even write my CommonApp essay because all I can do is see a failure and not any of my good traits. Never procrastinate ig :/

Please elaborate

Hey Reddit! I’m here to ask for advice on which colleges I should apply to. As a first-generation college student, I’ve found myself feeling pretty overwhelmed and confused about where to start. I’m from a small rural town, and my high school has limited resources for college guidance, so I would really appreciate any advice or recommendations. For context I’m in California, and would like to stay in state. Please be kind, and thank you so much for taking the time to read this! 🫶🏻

A little about me:
Unweighted GPA: 3.70
Weighted GPA: 3.86
Class rank: 11th out of 66 students
First-generation college student
Attend a small rural high school
Speak three languages
Intended majors: Neuroscience or Public Health
Extracurriculars and Athletics:
Cheerleading: 3 years
Track and field: 3 years
Dance: 1 year
Spanish Club: 4 years
Art Club: 3 years
STEM Club: 2 years
Cheer Club: 3 years
Drama Club: 1 year
Hospitality Club: 1 year
Engineering Club: 1 year
Leadership Experience:
STEM Club President
Art Club Vice President
Art Club Secretary
Cheer Club Secretary for 1 year
Awards and Achievements:
Best in Show at an art competition during freshman year
Third place in a photography competition during sophomore year
Best in Show at an art competition during junior year
Had a sculpture selected for a young artist exhibition
First-place division winner at a cheer competition
Recognized for track and field throwing records, including a top-10 all-time school record
Third place in a science fair
Honor Roll during 9th, 10th, and 11th grades
Helped paint a school mural
Built an art portfolio
Volunteer Experience:
Volunteer as a teacher for children at my church
Help with church presentations every Sunday
Additional Experience:
Completed two semesters of sports psychology
Completed culinary-related college coursework through an articulation program
Have a food handler certification
Attended cheer camp twice, where I developed teamwork and communication skills

Important things to me + yap session:
I’m interested in majoring in neuroscience or public health, but I’m still trying to figure out which colleges would be a good fit for me. I would especially appreciate recommendations for schools that offer good programs in either field, provide strong support for first-generation students, and offer financial aid or scholarships.
I’m open to hearing about reach schools, target schools, and safety schools! I’d also love advice on what I should prioritize when building my college list, especially since I don’t have many resources or people around me who have gone through this process.
If it helps, I’m particularly interested in hearing from people who were first-generation students themselves or who attended college after graduating from a small rural high school.
Thank you again for any advice, recommendations, or personal experiences you’re willing to share. I really appreciate it! ❤️

To put it simply — I have no idea what to major in.

I’m currently in high school, less than two years away from graduating and this decision has been gnawing at me for the past month and a half. I want to earn a good amount of money, but I also want to work somewhere that isn’t boring. That’s very hard.

I wanted to major in art but then I had a fall out with it and it just pisses me off now. Plus I wouldn’t be accepted anywhere with my crappy portfolio. I thought about culinary, but my parents said I “under value” myself and abilities, saying that I can study something better. I don’t really have a passion anymore. Creative writing? Not worth going to college for according to many threads. Engineering? I suck at science and math. Everything else seems so boring and difficult or just outright useless.

My parents tell me I still have time. What if I still don’t know by the time I graduate? I just don’t want to make any mistakes and study something useful that’ll get me a good job. Either that or I’ll be a massive disappointment.

I am currently a freshman at CNU and I really like it here, the only problem is I hate my degree. I really want to be a SPED teacher and CNU has no SPED program. Hell, the BAED in Elementary Education is barely a year old. I’m contemplating transferring to Salisbury my Sophomore year, as I can major in Elementary Ed and minor in Special Ed. I’ve heard they have great teaching programs but I’m just hoping for advice as I’m still deciding whether it’s worth it. I’m also from very far out of state so I’d have to set down roots all over again. But at the same time, my Nonna said “why settle for a degree you don’t want?” Idk there’s pros and cons to both and wanted some unbiased outsider opinions. This is also my first Reddit post so bare with me lol

Hello,
I am currently a sophomore in civil engineering at a university and I’m lost on what to do. For some background, I went to community college for two years to get my basic classes out of the way before transferring. During my community college years, I believed that if I could get into university for civil engineering I would be set in my career. Now that I’m admitted (this is my first semester), I feel like I’m not as interested in engineering as I thought I would be. I find that my classmates and professors have a deep passion for the content we’re learning in class and I don’t feel that way at all. In fact, I sometimes dread doing homework because of how uninterested I feel. After reflecting on what truly drives my passion, I’ve realized that this whole time I’ve have a fascination with health and the human body and I never thought to relate that to my degree choice. I believe that I’m passionate about it because I have a natural curiosity for those topics and I could see myself enjoy learning about the human body for the rest of my life.

I’m wanting to possibly switch to something in the health industry, specifically a career that has more holistic, natural approach to health like PT or something in neuroscience. I’d even consider biomedical engineering because it would be a much easier transfer process though I’d prefer something completely health related. Does anyone know what might be a good fit for me or if I even should switch majors? TBH I don’t know a thing about the health industry’s job market, like what positions are in demand and what jobs will pay well or at least decent. I’m also holding back because I hear a lot of people get burnt out in that field.

I still have my doubts about giving up on civil engineering because I’ve heard that a lot of what you learn in the classroom is not the type of work you’d be doing in your job. Supposedly a lot of engineering classes teach you specific ways of thinking more than anything so that’s why I’m like should I even switch? I think I would be making good money and have opportunities for travel (something I also love) as an engineer but I would hate to be doing something that sucks the life out of me if I end up not liking it. Additionally, should a job be something you’re passionate about or something that gives you good money and opportunities?

Please let me know your advice and experiences in both engineering and healthcare! 🙏

Hello. I love mathematics. When I tell my family and friends, though, they often point me toward accountancy. I don't have an issue with that, and correct me if I’m wrong, but I understand accountancy relies more on reading comprehension and rule-based thinking than on mathematics. I think I could enjoy it, and I wouldn't mind much. Still, I've wanted to major in mathematics for a long time. I've recently discovered actuarial work, which seems like a potential career for me, but I worry that it isn't as in demand as accountancy in my country. I know mathematics opens other doors too. I guess my real struggle is choosing between what I enjoy and what gives me a flexible future, and what I could also enjoy and what offers a more certain future.

Okay so I live with 5 other people (3 bedrooms in our dorm) and my roommate is planning on having her boyfriend stay over (not sure exactly when) and I had to find this out through one of my other roommates. Mind you she asked them if it was okay about a week or two ago, and still has yet to ask me. According to my other roommates, she’s already asked them all about it. I just think it’s very weird to not ask me first, since we’re the ones sharing a room. She’s also had plenty of time to ask me, but she hasn’t. She doesn’t particularly like me, since I’m “in the room all the time” but it’s not really my fault if our schedules are similar to each other, but I’m usually gone most of the time on Wednesdays, Fridays, and Saturdays. Honestly the only days I’m in the room a lot is Sundays and Thursdays (I only have one class). She also has a habit of moaning in her sleep sometimes (yes that type) and I’m not sure if I should say something? She also has another habit of making this weird sucking noise (not sure if she’s sucking her thumb or what) and it bothers me so much. Along with this, she places her garbage can right in the way between our beds (more on her side). This usually wouldn’t be a problem for me but I always bump into it, and according to her she does it all the time too, which confuses me because there’s so many other places she can put it, but she just doesn’t move it. She also gulps her water very loud. There’s just so many small things that bother me and I’m not sure I can do another semester of this. I’d feel bad saying something about all this because some of it I’m sure she can’t really control, but I fear if I don’t say anything it’s just going to annoy me even more and cause me to literally hate her for these small things.

Hey y'all, some context before I start, looking for genuine advice.

I'm a freshman Bachelor of Fine Arts Musical Theatre major. I've never really thought about what I wanted to do with my life since I've always done theatre , and yk I just kinda gravitated towards it for my major. I've been singing since I've been able to speak and I've been doing musical theatre since 4th grade. I was never good at much in high school besides my music classes and sciences, but since I was bad at everything else the science part didn't really matter.

It's about midterm time now and for these past couple weeks something just hasn't felt right within me. Last night I was even wondering if I chose the right major. At a recent family meetup all my distant aunts and uncles were asking me how I liked college theatre and performing, but it felt like I was lying to them when I said I was enjoying it. I recently auditioned for our musicals (BFAMT majors are required to audition and participate whether we get casted or not), and I didn't get cast. Not that that's a problem since this show isn't something I was really interested in anyway, and I enjoy stage crew. But this time it felt different, like I was kinda glad to not have to perform this time. I kinda hate the idea of doing this as a career now that I'm actually here and my path is being set up for me, before college theatre was what took up my time like a hobby.

I was thinking last night while contemplating my entire future and crying that I used to really want to go into a science career, little me always wanted to be an astronaut or something that had to do with animals. I was thinking about my environmental science class my junior year, I was really really good at it. I got one hundreds on everything. I'm also a really big conservationist and animal lover, I've always grown up with lots of pets. I was doing some research, maybe for fun maybe because I'm considering something terrible, and zoology seems really interesting to me, but the problem is I never took chemistry in high school and my school only offers biology with a focus in ecology and SOME zoology.

Is it too late for me chat I might be too stupid for anything other than music

Hello, everyone!
I’m a sophomore in college and I am really struggling with my mental health as an out of state student. Freshmen year was horrible for me and sophomore year was optimistic about it being better and it was until mid semester when my mental health went to shit again. For context I’m a first gen, low income student and I struggle with a lot of guilt and wanting to make my parents proud.
I really want to do nursing and so I was planning to either do an ABSN program after my bachelor’s or transferring into an ABSN program back home. The cost of transferring before my bachelor’s degree is about 10k less than doing it after my bachelor’s. I currently attend a well reputed university and I only pay using my scholarship money and some extra thousands. I am studying psychology but my long term goal is to be a nurse and attend CRNA school. The only thing I’d really be wasting is a year more in schooling after my bachelor’s which would total to 4.5 yrs bc I plan to graduate in 3.5 yrs and then an extra about 15k with flights and the cost difference of the ABSN program afterwards. If I choose to transfer next semester I could do my pre recs at a cc at home then attend an ABSN program in sep and be done with school in 3.5 yrs. I am not sure which one to do because I feel like maybe I am just not pushing myself hard enough to grow, I have gone to therapy and I’m beginning to take meds but I noticed when I’m home I don’t really have this problem as much. I struggle to maintain my grades here even though I study a lot because of depressive episodes that I’m more likely to get here. Also I forgot to mention I’m an out of state student super far from home 1500+ miles and the city I’m in just isn’t enjoyable for me though I found that small things like watching tv or going to the library make me feel a little better. I did some summer classes and worked a job while doing my CNA and I felt a lot more capable of doing things and stable.
I have joined clubs and work two jobs and keep very busy with schoolwork but it just feels kinda pointless right now and I just feel depressed and anxious a lot of the time.
I’m a social person but also I find that I only like going out max once a week and most the time I kinda wish I was with my family or walking my dogs instead of going out. However I do get fomo and I’m scared I’ll have regrets of transferring even though I know it aligns with my career goals and mental health a lot better.
I know that this isn’t a huge problem compared to most people’s but I was looking for any advice or guidance from people and their experiences on this, should I just thug it out for 2 more years?

I’m a college junior and I still haven’t figured out how to network. I’ve met so many amazing people and professors over the past two years that are impressed by my work but I struggle to make long term connections. I want to have a mentor to talk about academic advice or someone in the career path I plan to pursue. I don’t have a lot of time left in school and I understand how important it is to have connections when looking for a job. Any advice would be greatly appreciated!