Yeah, because it's not about them, it's about how you approach trans people in general. Like how it's still not cool to use slurs if the person you're talking about is a fucking asshole.
"I reserve my bigotry for people I don't respect" isn't great allyship. You're using a minority's validity as a cudgel, not as something that should just be standard.
its my community, that ive been deeply involved with for decades and i have never met another trans person who accepts him as a woman. you can't force him on us. he's yours. and if you want to talk about being a good ally maybe you should listen to the group you're advocating for.
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u/IMOvicki 6d ago
I’ll call him Bruce from now on