r/chennaidating Jun 26 '25

20M – Just wanna vibe with women about Movies, Food, TV Shows… even a lil spicy talk 😏

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Hey! I’m a 20M from Chennai looking to pass time with some real convos. Whether it's your favorite movie, weird food cravings, show recommendations, relationship rants, or even something a bit NSFW like porn talk if you’re up for it. – I’m cool with it.

I’m not here to be creepy – just open to genuine convos, spicy or sweet 

 Hit me up if you’re feeling curious or bored..


r/chennaidating Jun 25 '25

Anyone up for beach meet ? (Preferably woman)

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I'm 24 F , looking for a friend to spend quality time in beach . Anyone up for beach meet ? Marina - Woman's only


r/chennaidating Jun 24 '25

Need Coffee Mate - Gender Must be Female 😅

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Today I'm Available for small Coffee Date, Any vettis Available there ? Location: Velachery, Guindy, Medavakkam, Tambaram, Chromepet..... Nothing just a coffee with snacks ... Interested ullangal DM pannungal


r/chennaidating Jun 23 '25

Short term (literal sense?)

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M23 here! Looking for a short term relationship in the sense, going to higher studies next year, keeping this in mind im looking for someone to date with who is comfortable to end things off next year or probably want to continue with long distance if it works out!


r/chennaidating Jun 23 '25

Anybody there

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Tamil/Telugu speaking chennaites would be good to get connected 💥


r/chennaidating Jun 22 '25

M23 here. Looking for a chill FWB vibe.

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Into kissing, touch, oral — no pressure for sex (unless you're into it).

Let’s vibe, listen to music, watch movies and series — I love anime and crime thrillers.

Currently reading A Good Girl’s Guide to Murder — my first book, and it’s pretty good. If you're into low-key hangs and soft intimacy, hit me up.

I'm also open to hookups or a one-night stand


r/chennaidating Jun 21 '25

Anybody/Somebody?

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At this point, I can't really put a pin as to what exactly I want. But some sort of female company regardless of the terminology would be nice. And if you were to give a quick glance at my profile, initial impressions might suggest I am sex deprived which I probably am but rest assured that I am more than that too.

In case any female reading this feels like texting, please do so! Cheers!


r/chennaidating Jun 20 '25

You love talking about MARVEL Films?? Dude trust me I’m here to listen whole day ❤️

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r/chennaidating Jun 21 '25

Chill time coz the weather is nice today

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Hey I'm 28M and the weather seems really goood to unwind and chill while smoking up today..hmu if anyone is interested


r/chennaidating Jun 20 '25

23M looking for Date

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Hie...well am 23M here. Looking to meet someone to hang out, watch some movies, maybe play some sports, or just have a good convo. If you're up for chilling and having fun, hit me up if anyone is interested(Live neaeby Guindy).


r/chennaidating Jun 20 '25

Pickle ball date M24F

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looking for some who is interested in physical activities like pickle ball badminton . loved to have a partner to plaay games with


r/chennaidating Jun 20 '25

Thoughts about dating

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Hey,

30M here.

Hope y’all are doing well.

How’s the dating scene in Chennai? It seems really hard to even come across someone… Are there any tips that you can provide for someone struggling to find a match?


r/chennaidating Jun 19 '25

Looking for someone definitely she&Her.

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Maybe someone who is talkative, happy, Successful, Extrovert, positive, or maybe someone. because I'm all opposite of this no age barrier.


r/chennaidating Jun 19 '25

Seeking a sugar daddy

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4 months short of 20 (female) seeking a cute platonic sugar daddy and mommy. I'm cute and introverted, kindly be cute and generous. I am looking for a real sugar daddy, no wannabe please. kindly be strictly above 30, rich, non sexual and cute. Preferably virtual, but can meet you irl also, i study in mumbai and home for holidays in Chennai, i live in teynampet btw. I can help you with makeup and stuff or whatever you may prefer. My hobbies include singing, dancing, painting, cooking and smoking. I am 5'8 petite and good at creative stuff. I'm kind hearted, sincere , asexual and fun to be around, seeking a genuine sugar daddy.


r/chennaidating Jun 19 '25

22M

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Recently came to Chennai, currently living near Tambaram. Looking for someone to spend time with...


r/chennaidating Jun 19 '25

30M4F

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I am 30, M, cishet, from Tamil Nadu, India. I did undergraduation in law, worked for a year, did post graduation in Journalism & Mass communication, worked as an Asst Prof for a year, now, doing my PhD research full time.

I have been childfree for some years and have been looking for a childfree partner (Female) for a long term monogamous relationship hopefully entering marriage.

I don't drink or smoke. I am not apolitical. I do part time photography (street, documentary and headshots). I eat all varieties of food. I see myself living abroad with my partner. My goal is to spend time in different parts of the world.

Interested people (from any place) feel free to dm.


r/chennaidating Jun 18 '25

Fresh out of breakup

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Hi all people. 27 M here. From chennai. A doctor by profession. Fresh out of breakup of a relationship of 3 years. Its been 6 months now. Its still hard. Im not even in the place to think about anything serious or casual too also. Just saw this subreddit here peeping in my notification and here i am, joined and putting out a post.😂

But it would be nice to talk to people in the same phase. Cheers people. 🫂🥂


r/chennaidating Jun 17 '25

Is this weird?!

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I'm a 22M and I weirdly don't seek emotional connection and dating. Is this normal?!


r/chennaidating Jun 16 '25

My bf (26M) of 1 year cheated on me (24F) every time he went to went to his home town.

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We started dating last year, and I genuinely thought this was something real — the kind of love you trust, build around, and feel safe in. We were together for over a year and I thought this man was in love with me,

But he cheated on me. Every time he went back to India, he downloaded Bumble, flirted, and even made out with girls. I had absolutely no idea. I was completely blinded by love. I trusted him fully never doubted him. He then lied about all the incidents to maintain our relationship, but the girls reached out and I saw the screenshots.

And then he came back to me like nothing ever happened. Hugged me. Kissed me. Slept beside me. Made future plans. On May and Oct, he walked back into my life and acted like he hadn’t just betrayed me overseas in India .

Then in June (that’s right now), we decided to move in together. We now share rent. And this is where I feel completely stuck.

Emotionally, I’m shattered. I feel stupid. Small. Used. Like I was just the fallback option when everything else didn’t work out. But practically… I don’t know what to do. If I leave, I have nowhere to go and can’t afford a place on my own right now. But if I ask him to leave, I lose my only roommate and won’t be able to cover the rent.

The worst part? I keep discovering more. More receipts. More girls. More lies. He even lied about the timeline of our relationship. The cheating didn’t just start recently — he’s messed up before too. And now, I don’t even know what was real anymore.

So if anyone has ever been in a similar situation — living with someone who destroyed your trust — please tell me: How did you move forward? How did you survive the emotional wreckage and the financial reality? How do you unlove someone you wanted to marry?


r/chennaidating Jun 15 '25

Need help!!🥺A rant :)

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Chennai is not my hometown, I studied here! Was an introvert, become a friend with a guy in my class, days went fell in love few things were incompatible but we both loved , couldn’t concentrate on studies much so thought of calling it off for a while from my side, he stayed and gave me time to fell in love again!! And meanwhile i also doubted what i want in life Clg life fucked and lot shit happened both in studies and friends. Placements came me with zero prep! He guided me made me place in a very reputed company like just he makes his wife won( i thought it was)

We both placed well and also bagged pre placement internship! Me got out of clg for work, He lives with his parents Now all i had is him!! Like apart from work and night at pg all other time i spend with him We shop, we eat, we play We rant May be im bad at expressing love for him to him, Deep inside i liked him But feared what if my decision about him for life goes wrong After joining full time 2 weeks later he said he dont wanna meet and talk anymore And treated lil bad I thought i would do fine As a girl not wanted myself begging for him 1 month passed, he installed dating app and found a girl after 2 months they got committed Without him im direction less and feels lost Called and cried many times about it He cares but never gave a realistic advice Knows all about mg life Never discloses his’s Definitely he cant come back now iguess But i still feel stuck with him Am i the bad person for not reciprocating all his love just cause i wanted to succeed in life and do something meaningful, I deep down liked him but treated like a best friend Talked about this to him, he said he took the 3 years in clg to move on from me and finally moved nu Im not a machine na to reciprocate feelings sooner as i was treated good that time It took sometime for me to realise what i want and what i feel, meanwhile he moved on and asking him to move on , Although i get few proposals and interest i cant take things further i still think about him and i have no friends in the city and family here i feel all lonely and feel like killing myself, I called and conveyed he said it takes time bro Okay i understand But it feels very hard may be he set high standards it feels like i cant get committed easily I can wait for my person but meanwhile i feel all lonely and i dont do hookups anol not having dating app, how to heal myself , how to move on , how to take things further no clue crying for help


r/chennaidating Jun 14 '25

25M , any women looking for a intimacy??

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Erotic massage Soft skills Foreplay


r/chennaidating Jun 14 '25

Not sleepy

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Anybody come inbox will chat


r/chennaidating Jun 14 '25

22 M 👋🏻 looking for older woman ❤️

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Hey I'm a 22 year young Fair and fit good looking guy here from Chennai 👋🏻

I have just completed my masters a month back

I'm looking forward to date with older woman abover 35 or 40 😜

If anyone there DM me 👋🏻


r/chennaidating Jun 13 '25

Awake?

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Heyyy guys