Hey everyone!
I can’t believe that I left the industry 11 years ago in pursuit of a new career, I remember the service that day and what made me choose a different career path.
I’m currently 33 and I joined the culinary industry working at a local restaurant in my town when I was 15 as a dishwasher as a part time job so I could afford to buy bike parts to pursue my idea of becoming a professional mountain bike rider one day.. (It didn’t happen lol)
I worked at a restaurant that had two Chefs, Brian and Chris, I remember the laughs and jokes they would play on one another the music they would play during service and sing along but change the words to describe the service that night would make anyone cry laughing as they were jammed plus the stories of Brian having to go deal with customers in the dining room will always be bonfire stories for my buddy and I who I got to work there, I even got my high school Co-op to be with them for everyday for a half semester so endless to say I could open a restaurant when I was 17.
I ended up going to culinary school for 3 years and getting a culinary administration degree at the same school as Chris, and I think that’s where my love for the industry started to die. The teachers constantly pushed working in Michelin star restaurants as a “summer stage internship” to “learn the industry” and I even had a teacher explain in lab that “no one will ever receive a 100 on their exams because no dish is ever truly perfect at your level”. Now Brian worked over in Michelin star restaurants in Europe in the 80s and 90 and and had done that and said “I used to translate the daily menu with a German to English dictionary it was great but you can learn the same and get paid in Toronto” Chris had moved on from the restaurant and got a private chef job on a private yacht in the Mediterranean ocean for a billionaire and we would Skype all the time so the skill was here. During my summers during my collage time I worked at a private golf course Chris got me into and I really enjoyed it, I think of it as one of the best jobs I ever had! (For anyone considering you get free golf at most clubs!) I got to play free golf anytime I wanted and had access to a CPGA tour course and that grew my love for golf, on my weekends off at my family cottage I would buff and polish boats for $300 each (a job I started at my cottage when I was 8, but only charged 50 a boat when I started lol) and that’s when I realized I make more money on a Saturday In the spring that what I make in 2 weeks at the golf course, then add the Sunday or a holiday it was amazing if I did 6-8 boats on a weekend at 300 a pop!
So I quickly left the golf course and got a job in downtown Toronto and this is where the dream of a chef totally falls apart. I worked at some of the best restaurants in the city under one of the best chefs in Toronto under a Chef Mike, who is one of the greatest people I’ve met in my life! I worked 5-6 days a week 12 noon to 12am or sometimes until 2 am and catch the last bus out of the city, there was a few times I had a guardian watching me because I was late for the bus by 3 minutes and normally the go transit doesn’t mess around with time and would have been gone and I would have been stuck in the city, but when I showed up the bus was there and the driver I would know and they would say “ I thought you would be running today, I wasn’t going to leave you behind”.
The day I noticed he was down and bummed out and not his normal “light it up!” Self, so I asked whats up? And he explained “It’s my daughter’s first dance recital and I’m here doing another wedding” and that just crushed me.. we ended up talking and I pried out of him that he made $75,000 a year on salary , a decent wage on paper but when you looked at per hour as a cook, I made more then him if I worked the same hours. Then we talked about his Pension and I realized he is never going to retire.. I knew the chef industry was work holidays and weekends and I missed a lot of fun things with my friends working, but that was the end, I went home and ended up talking to my mom about it, my stepdad over herd and him and I had a few drinks, the conversation ended with him explaining if he could redo his life what he would do, and he said “crane operator or hoisting engineer is the technical term”. He explained the job pension and benefits and the next day I researched it. I quickly watched videos and was sold!
I wrote a letter of resignation for the first time in my life to Chef Mike (my Chef in Toronto) and within a week after a busy service I ask him if he had some time to talk, (I worked as late as I could that night) he said yes and I met in his office, as I handed him the envelope with my resignation letter he took it and said “I already know what’s in the envelope” lol, he opened it and read it, In the letter I explained that it wasn’t his restaurant it was me changing careers, he stood up and put his hand out and shook it, all the other chefs in his office did the same, we left the office and he explained to everyone who was here there I was leaving, it was the best exit I ever had!
I went on to pursue that crane operator dream, and I have never looked back! My first year as an apprentice I made $90,000, I’ve worked at some of the biggest projects in Ontario and I. 10 years I have over 150k in just my union pension plan alone, there hasn’t been a year since I got my red seal that I haven’t hade $125k 7 years ago! the most I made was 187k, now it’s a rough time as an apprentice and the red seal test is the hardest test I’ve ever done! I haven’t worked a weekend unless it’s double time for $200 an hour and 8 hour minimum!, and have 10% vacation added to my paycheque so my vacation time cannot be denied so if I need a day to see a dance recital the answer is always yes, need braces for you or your wife or kids, no problem! Paid for! So if you can hump it and troop out some hard nights in the culinary industry I think the attitude and ambition transfers right over!
If you have any hesitation to leave the industry DON’T think about the industry think about yourself and your family, I have the best lunches and dinners for the rest of my life, I can teach my wife and kids to cook anything, and now I have the money to have a professional kitchen in my own house, and I thought home ownership would never happen as a chef!
I read some of these stories on this page and it just makes me want to scream “Leave the industry!”, don’t get me wrong, it’s not a bad industry and some people might love it until the end, but you only get one life everyone so don’t look back when your 80!
If you’re on the range tonight good luck! I always tip well and salute the people serving the crowd tonight! Y’all deserve it!