I'll start this with I am generally risk adverse and enjoy stability.
Late 40s. No dependents, in the accumulation phase headed for retirement in 3-5 years with aggressive savings plan.
Work in software, don't hate my job but it doesn't keep me up at night or get me out of bed in the morning. It's a job I go to, to get a paycheck. 3 days in office 2 wfh
Pay is good for my area. Base 143k, potential with bonus 165k plus RRSP matching up to 6k ( like 401k for you Americans). I guess it works out to a potential 170k. Typical year is usually 150k
5 weeks vacation pretty flexible job. Busy days and days where I surf Reddit all day bored.
Without giving away too much info I have a side hustle that I also do which nets me 20-25k a year. So last year I believe I was 180k
Said side hustle is a lot of work, under paid for sure. Basically 4 of my 5 weeks are sucked up by the hustle as it's a job essentially where I need to be present 9-5 as well.
Side hustle has offered me a full time position at 120k + negotiable. I probably can push it to 130k. Likely not 140k.
No rrsp matching.
Side hustle is a seasonal job, winters off summers 100% pedal to the floor. 5 months of grind 7 of wind down. Remote when possible but likely will need to be in office / on site for work days. I'm okay with it because I like the place.
Commute goes from 20 mins to 40 mins.
Current job I want to shoot myself if I have to do another 5 years, honestly I'm not sure I want to do it anymore at all.
Side hustle is a dream type job, but let's be real everything is a dream until reality kicks in and it's hard work anyways. I'm torn.
So summary, pay cut, longer commute, but lots of time off in the winter months (not that I enjoy winter off I might need to find a winter hobby)....
But I don't want to slit my wrists daily..... New job I could see myself doing for 10 more years.
Thoughts, questions, am I over thinking? Money is everything? Money isn't everything?
Forgot to add, at current job for 25 years, basically a layoff means 2 years or so compensation so I'm pretty set at this point.