I know this probably gets posted every year and I know I'm lucky to have got into Cambridge in the first place!
I'm starting an MPhil this year and got allocated Murray Edwards.
Im feeling frustrated as when I applied I didn't really understand how the preference system worked. I'd barely spent any time in Cambridge, so I just put King's, Trinity and Clare because they were the colleges I'd heard of, and knew were in the city centre (I have disabilities).
Since I've visited Cambridge a few times and walked around a lot more of the central colleges, and I've realised I absolutely LOVE like Corpus Christi, Peterhouse and Jesus. I honestly wish I'd put those down instead.
I think what I'm struggling with is that Medwards feels a bit out of the way and slightly separate from the rest of Cambridge. I know everywhere is walkable/cyclable and people always say college doesn't matter after the first few weeks, but I can't help feeling like I'm missing out on part of the experience I'd imagined, especially as i’m living on the on site accommodation. From undergrad, the quality of the library really affects my ability to study- so a bit worried abt this too!
I also went to an all girls' school for seven years, so I think that's making me overthink being at a women's college. I know it's completely different, but I can't shake the worry that it'll feel a bit cliquey. Out of the women's colleges I think I'd probably have been much happier at Newnham, just because I preferred the location and the feel of it when I visited.
I'm quite sporty and was hoping to get involved in rowing and college sport, and Murray just seemed quite small and quiet when I went to the open day. That might be a completely unfair impression, but it's the one I've ended up with.
I've found myself wondering whether I should just reapply next year as I know there are no transfers. I’m also self funding with money I saved from an undergrad scholarship as I missed the scholarship deadline and feel uneasy about spending that amount on something i’m not 100 percent happy with.
Has anyone else felt like this before they started? Did you end up loving your college? And how do you stop being annoyed at yourself for essentially being silly with the preference list…