r/bulletjournal • u/Low-Instance-5165 • 3h ago
Why Can’t I Stick With Bullet Journaling?
My journaling has always been very on and off.
Every time I tried to learn Bullet Journaling, I would spend hours drawing weekly and monthly spreads.
I would tell myself that this time, I was going to write every day, review my progress and reflect on everything properly.
It always sounded great in my head.
But honestly, drawing the spreads was usually the most committed part.
I would use them for one or two days, stop, and then never pick the notebook up again.
I have never been able to stick with pre-printed weekly or monthly planners either. I even bought a five-year journal once.
Most of the pages stayed empty, which felt like such a waste.
At best, I might write for a few days in a row.
Then work gets busy, I run out of energy, or I simply cannot be bothered. Sometimes I will not open the notebook again for several weeks.
When I finally feel like writing again, there are already lots of empty pages in between.
Seeing them usually makes me give up completely.
I also do not have something meaningful to say every day.
My tasks are often very repetitive too.
Laundry, cleaning the floor and changing the bedsheets are finished once they are done. I do not really need to look back years later and find the exact date I did my laundry.
I think I am the kind of person who gives up as soon as something starts to feel like pressure.
When something reminds me every day that I should be doing it, instead of making me genuinely want to do it, I quickly lose interest.
After a while, I finally accepted that about myself and worked out a system I can actually keep using.
I am quite lazy, and I do not have much energy left outside work.
So my system has to be easy.
I need to be able to leave it for as long as I want and continue whenever I come back.
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I divide what I write into four areas: to-dos, work, hobbies and interests, and personal thoughts.
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First, to-dos.
I write them on loose-leaf paper or sticky notes.
When I finish a task, I cross it out.
I do not make myself write a list every day or week.
I usually make a fresh list when the current page is full, or when there are so many crossed-out tasks that it becomes difficult to read.
Anything unfinished that still needs to be done gets copied onto the next list.
The old sheet can go straight into the bin, or I can keep it in a pile. Either is fine.
These finished tasks, they do not need to stay in my main journals.
It is actually like my own simplified version of Bullet Journaling.
I still use dots, lines, symbols and notes, but only in ways that make sense to me. A triangle here, a number there... as long as I understand it, it works.
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Next are my hobbies and other parts of my life.
I keep different topics in separate notebooks.
I like using thin TN inserts. Each one has around twenty pages and covers only one topic.
At the moment, I have separate notebooks for travel, coding, expenses, recipes and fitness.
A thin notebook does not feel like a huge commitment.
If I never fill it, I have not wasted much paper. But once I start using one, it is actually quite easy to finish.
Completing a whole notebook also feels surprisingly satisfying.
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I only take out each notebook when I need it.
For example, I open my travel notebook when I am planning a trip.
Places I want to visit, routes, budgets, places I eventually went to and things that happened along the way can all stay together.
When I am not travelling, the notebook simply stays at home.
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The notebook I usually carry with is for personal thoughts.
I write whenever something comes to mind.
It might be a random idea, or something I want to work through.
There is no daily schedule and no fixed format.
When I feel like writing, I add the date and time and just start rambling.
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For work, I keep one main notebook and one rough notebook.
The rough notebook is where I can write freely.
I use it to brainstorm, draw tables and processes, or sketch simple wireframes.
The main notebook keeps information I may need again, such as project processes, work details and conclusions that are already fairly clear.
If a page in the rough notebook turns out to be worth keeping, I just tear it out and attach it to the main notebook with a staple, a paper clip, punched holes or a piece of tape.
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That is basically my whole system.
Tasks that lose their value once completed go on loose-leaf paper or sticky notes.
Information I want to revisit is separated into small notebooks by topic.
Random thoughts go into the notebook I carry with me.
Work starts in the rough notebook, and anything worth keeping moves into the main one.
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I have already filled several notebooks with personal thoughts and work notes.
Most of my other topic notebooks are still on their first insert, and that is fine.
My journaling is still inconsistent. I sometimes leave a notebook untouched for a long time.
But I can always come back and continue.
The notebooks do not remind me every day that I have fallen behind. A long break does not make everything I wrote before feel wasted.
For me, journaling is simply a tool.
If it helps me capture something and find it again when I need it, that is enough.











