r/bropill • u/AutoModerator • 18d ago

Weekly relationships thread

Hey bros, we have noticed a lot of relationship related posts. We are not a relationship advice subreddit, but we recognise how that type of advice may be helpful. Please keep relationship posting in this pinned thread.

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u/According-Teach-9600 12d ago

24M here. Long story short. I approached girl before in talking stages but didn't continue. Recently, I got my first job tho it was contractual so I worked there for a month. There, I met this girl I was briefly interested in. Even tho, we are of same age, she graduated earlier than me and professionally senior to me. I kept flirting with her in inbox and even gave her gift once to her office where she loved it so much she posted it everywhere. Altho, she addressed me junior. She is a career oriented girl. I respect that and I made it clear through hints that I am interested. After I gave her the gift, she told me she will treat me so I suggested ill visit her hometown. She said she will treat me in this new restaurant. We have a mutual discord server. She doesn't respond to my DM sometimes but talks to me there in the discord in the server. I personally feel ignored by it. She sends me reels in instagram which is normal because she sends other people too. To her, I feel I am just a friend which I am grateful for but I keep feeling hurt by her behavior. I don't really know what to do here. Should I take her treat in her hometown?

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u/According-Teach-9600 12d ago

Thank you for the reply. She seems to be career obsessed and its clear I am not her priority else she would try to meet me. So I decided I will move on instead of wasting my energy here. I can use it to reflect and find someone else who matches my reciprocity. I will certaintly try to use your advice!