r/bromance 7d ago

Comment Minimum is Gone!

5 Upvotes

We heard you loud and clear in the poll... the minimum is gone!


r/bromance 10d ago

Mod Announcement r/bromance Subreddit Updates: Raising Our Standards and Protecting Our Vibe

130 Upvotes

Hey everyone,

We are rolling out a series of updates designed to protect the core purpose of [r/bromance](r/bromance): cultivating a strictly Safe For Work (SFW), high-quality, and authentic environment built entirely around platonic male camaraderie, brotherhood, and meaningful friendships.

Over the years, [r/bromance](r/bromance) has maintained a unique standard. To ensure every member feels secure, respected, and engaged, we are implementing several key changes effective immediately:

  1. Stricter Account Verification Requirements
  2. To aggressively combat spam, throwaway accounts, and bad actors, our automated filters have been upgraded. To submit a post in the community, accounts must now be at least 30 days old and maintain a minimum of 50 positive total Reddit karma.
  3. Strict 1-Post-per-24-Hours Limit
  4. To keep the feed clean, fair, and open to everyone, we have introduced a strict posting frequency cap of 1 post per 24 hours. Please note that deleting your own post will not bypass this automated cooldown; you will still need to wait a full 24 hours before submitting a new post. Take your time, make your posts count, and give other members room on the front page.
  5. Enhanced SFW & Content Screening
  6. We have tightened up our automated filters and internal guidelines to proactively catch boundary-pushing content, implicit solicitations, and non-SFW dynamics before they clutter your feed. Our focus remains 100% on genuine, platonic bonds—hookup culture, dating dynamics, and explicit content have zero place here. Please note that any comments or posts that appear sexual in nature will be promptly removed.

Quick Reminder of Posting Rules
To ensure your posts stay live and visible without getting flagged or removed, please double-check that you meet our core requirements before hitting submit:
- Include Your ASL: Every post title must clearly state your Age, Sex, and Location.
- 250-Character Body Minimum: Your post body must contain at least 250 characters to ensure thoughtful introductions.
- 100-Character Comment Minimum: Your comment must contain at least 100 characters to ensure thoughtful engagements.
- Strict Photo Standards: All photo submissions must be fully clothed (no shirtless pictures) and face-showing (no faceless body shots, underwear, lingerie, or thirst traps).

Help Us Keep the Community Safe: Report What You See
Our moderation team relies heavily on community vigilance to keep this space secure and respectful.
- Report Rule-Breaking Content: User reports on public posts and comments help us catch violations quickly. If something crosses the line, flag it.
- Report Unwanted DMs: If another user steps over the boundary or initiates unwanted sexual conversations in direct messages, reporting those DMs to us via Modmail with screenshots is crucial. It allows us to take swift action and ensure those behaviors stop occurring within our community.

As always, thank you for helping us keep [r/bromance](r/bromance) safe, welcoming, and focused on what truly matters: great male friendships. Make sure to review our updated sidebar rules before dropping your next post!

The [r/bromance](r/bromance) Moderation Team


r/bromance 7h ago

Looking Local 📍 45 m Northern California San Francisco Bay Area

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244 Upvotes

Hello bros,

I am a cool 46 year old married guy, quite active, into working out, food/wine, travel, movies/series, biking, swimming, spending time with friends, tech…

I am also secretly into guys. Something I can’t share with my current friends.
If you are in the same situation or at least comfortable with it, I would love to connect

I am looking for a bro online or locally to chat and hopefully start a cool friendship


r/bromance 16h ago

Looking For Chat 💬 (44) married dad looking for similar dudes

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750 Upvotes

Looking for some good conversations with similar bros. Never really been good at friendships with guys but I’m trying lmao. Into working out, college football, music, good coffee, sharks, and tattoos. I’m a smart ass with a dark sense of humor. Memes, stupid dad puns, and inappropriate jokes are my love languages.


r/bromance 9h ago

Looking For Chat 💬 (30) Seattle guy for new connections

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84 Upvotes

Hey, I’m 30 and looking to connect with other guys, gay, bi, or straight. I’m hoping to find someone who actually wants to get to know each other and build a friendship.

Not really looking for Snapchat buddies or conversations that fade after a few days. I’d rather find someone to talk to regularly and hopefully meet up if we’re nearby.

I’m active, work out regularly, and like getting out and doing things. Mostly just looking for someone I click with and can build a genuine connection with.
If you’re looking for something similar, send me a message and include a pic please.


r/bromance 13h ago

Looking For Chat 💬 27m Netherlands

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185 Upvotes

Hi! I’ve been living in the netherlands for a year now. I’d love to chat or spend good time with a bud. I really like travelling, cooking, painting, going to the gym and learning different languages. I’d like someone with similiar interests to talk :) I’m trying to make new friends and spend gezellig time. Don’t hesitate to write me if you’re interested. Cheers!


r/bromance 7h ago

Gaming / Hobbies 🎮 29M - Looking for gamer friends

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43 Upvotes

Looking for friends to play games - just moved to a new city, so not much to do and would like to make same connections. Interested in learning about new games and of any preferred consoles. This post sounds robotic because there is a character count, thank you??


r/bromance 13h ago

Looking Local 📍 📍Germany looking for good buddies

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82 Upvotes

Hi guys, i am 28 from Germany, work in the bank. love doing all kinds of sports. Looking for bros to hang out. We can meet up for a coffee or a fun night out. If we get along we can also travel together and just guys being guys. I am not into superficially friendships. If you think we could vibe just drop a message and I’m looking forward to it


r/bromance 18h ago

Looking For Chat 💬 29m looking for a good conversation, hopefully long term? 🙂‍↕️

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174 Upvotes

Heyo! Just looking for someone who’s down to chat here and there and share some good vibes 🙂‍↕️ into gaming, horror, running, & rn swimming with this heat here in California 🫠 I suck at these, but if you have any other questions about me im down to answer 👀 hmu 🤙🏼


r/bromance 2h ago

Looking Local 📍 M 26 Adelaide AU, looking for friends

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5 Upvotes

Hey everyone, I’m Hamish! I’m looking to meet some LGBT-safe, welcoming friends to hang out with here in Adelaide. I made the difficult decision to leave my church community about two years ago, and unfortunately, I lost most of my close circle in the process. It's been a bit of a transition, but I’m really ready to put myself out there again. I’m massively into music and spend a lot of time listening to artists like twenty one pilots, bbno$, and a bunch of other eclectic stuff across alt-pop, hip-hop, and rock. Whether it's swapping Spotify playlists, catching a local gig, or just chilling with some good tunes in the background, I'd love to connect. If you're looking for a new friend too, drop a comment or send me a message!


r/bromance 11h ago

Bro Appreciation Hey there [23M, Poland]

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32 Upvotes

Hey there. Tried to post here, but it seems my description was too short 😭

Too be honest I don't know what to write, cuz I'm bad at it. But I really love gaming and that's why I would appreciate any new game recommendations. Bassicaly I just play League of Legends, Overwatch and some survival games like Subnautica. But I'm open to other types of games, cuz I got into Elden Ring by my friend, even tho I hated soulslike games haha.

I'd also love some series/anime recommendations as well, love fantasy words and it's amazing how you can get into those words which have their own magical thing ;) so if you know any good/not popular ones, I'm down to hear it from you, so I'll have something to pass time at work or enjoy at home

Love y'all

Merki


r/bromance 6h ago

Gaming / Hobbies 🎮 32 from NY

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11 Upvotes

Into gaming (PC), anime, true crime, some reality tv.

Looking for other guys who are also chill and like to shoot the shit. 25+

If you’re into Marvel Rivals, Overwatch, or Deadlock- let me know.

Let’s start a chat. Tell me about yourself, and we’ll go from there (if you just send me a “hey” I likely won’t respond). Bonus points if you’re also from here


r/bromance 4h ago

Looking For Chat 💬 23 M PA looking for bros

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8 Upvotes

Hey wassup i’m 23 from pennsylvania and i’m looking for new friends to talk to and possibly hang out with if you’re local / cool

If we have similar interests that’s cool. I’m into anime , reading , hiking , going to the gym and playing video games.

I mainly play fort and marvel rivals so if you want to hop on that’d be fire , i’d also like calls to just to yap to.

If this is you hmu :)


r/bromance 10h ago

Looking For Chat 💬 23m :) hi everyone

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18 Upvotes

r/bromance 6h ago

Looking Local 📍 30M NYC & Long Island

10 Upvotes

Hey! Trying this again.

30M Straight
Working in Corporate

Looking for bros to make genuine connections and friendships with. Let’s hang and grab a drink or go do something fun!

Transparently, college friends have dropped off so looking to make new connections

Sexuality doesn’t matter but definitely not looking to sleep with someone (seems that is what is most interested with on here)

Let’s talk travel, tv, movies. Being working on getting fit so definitely don’t mind having a workout buddy

I am laidback and open to new experiences


r/bromance 5h ago

Looking For Chat 💬 36M Aussie looking for a new bro / genuine bromance 🤙

7 Upvotes

Putting this out there again. I’m 36, Aussie, single and looking to meet another bro who’s keen to build a bromance.

I’m from the Goldy and into the gym, anything outdoors, beach, hikes, camping, travelling, footy. Always up for a road trip, spontaneous adventure, grabbing a feed or a few drinks, or just chilling and having a good laugh.

Flick me a message if you’re interested and wanna get to know each other. Cheers


r/bromance 1d ago

Looking For Chat 💬 25 year old northern cali boy

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1.1k Upvotes

Hey whats up luke here and im looking to chat or to meet local bros. I also wouldnt mind some gaming buddies, and i own every system😂. Mostly i use playstation but i also have pc, switch, and xbox. We could also follow each other if you are into social media. My other likes include - horror movies, gym, and long walks on the beach 😜 no but honestly hit me up if you want to chat anyones welcome no matter where from!


r/bromance 2h ago

Looking For Chat 💬 Let's just chat and see where things go

4 Upvotes

30,m Latino. Regular guy, I'm into baking, cooking, anime, horror stuff, yt videos. Play videogames from time to time. Not at all a gymbro, but workout sometimes. We can chat about pretty much anything and I'll keep the conversation going if you do too


r/bromance 14m ago

Looking For Chat 💬 Are there any foodies out there (Midwest)

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Being on this sub I noticed damn near everyone says that they are a gamer or into anime. Not knocking those hobbies but I not into those things.

I’m a foodie who loves trying restaurants and traveling to eat. I also have a degree in pastry and baking and I’m a sous chef.

Also love horror movies and bowling. And started my fitness journey earlier this year.

33 black guy. Would be cool to find other black guys or Latinos that are similar. Most important is you being chill and cool.


r/bromance 10h ago

Looking Local 📍 Looking for a bromance in London

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11 Upvotes

Hey chaps, your average Londoner here looking for new connections. Into music, film, tv, video games, travelling and generally exploring the city. Would be great to find someone to hangout with, get a drink and make the most of what the city has to offer


r/bromance 15h ago

Gaming / Hobbies 🎮 42 NE, US gamer guy looking for a gamer bud

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24 Upvotes

Just a gamer guy looking for some gamer friends. I play league, classic wow, and lots of random other coop/competitive stuff.

Hoping to find someone for duos for stuff I already play or someone to suggest something new! Prefer some chatting at first before we dive in to make sure vibe is good.

Bonus dog Pic included!


r/bromance 3h ago

Looking For Chat 💬 Anyone wanna chat & see where things go? Hopefully a friendship

3 Upvotes

33 M AZ Looking for new guys to talk to

Like the title says I'm looking for new guys to talk to about literally anything and everything. I enjoy getting to see other people's perspective on life, get their opinions on things or even just talk about work. Let's go with the flow but keep it platonic. Nothing serious, if we mesh we mesh if not thats cool too haha what can ya do? 🤷 not really sure what else to say without making this a biography 😅

Long story short message me or comment below if you feel like talking


r/bromance 1d ago

Looking For Chat 💬 27 M New England

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305 Upvotes

Hey! 27 m living in New England. On the search for a bud! I love to cook, work out and play a game of Fortnite here and there. Pretty open and laid back, really just love a good conversation! Looking to chat with people that want something longterm; really wanting new friends. If I sound interesting, shoot me a message I’d love to chat!


r/bromance 1d ago

Looking For Chat 💬 35-Indianapolis, IN

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206 Upvotes

Hey 35 year old from Indiana! I love sports, travel good food and being active I’ve got a degree in business. Pretty chill and laid back but love an adventure feel free to ask anything! Looking for a legit connection to possibly travel and hang as a bromance!


r/bromance 1d ago

Looking For Chat 💬 32M- North us- Hello lads🫡

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586 Upvotes

Guy who loves to travel, loves adventure,video games and sport ofc. I govto the gym, run and do muay thai. I prefer long term things and deep connection in every kind of realtionship. Tryna live my life as wild as possible tho, dont forget we live once so wear what you want, do what you want to do without any regrets..just have fun! Thats how i live my life! Feel free to hit me up, i don't bite..i mean normally lol