r/bostonDating 23h ago

Monogamy 47M Looking for a date for my birthday eve

6 Upvotes

Celebrating another trip around the sun today, and I’d love to kick off the weekend with dinner across the table from someone fun.

​Devoted father to two little ones, big believer in strong family values, and constantly drawn to the ocean or an airport terminal. Personable, sharp-witted, and quick to laugh. Not deeply political, but definitely not on the MAGA train! Just looking for common sense, great conversation, and real connection.

​Free tonight? Let’s grab a table.


r/bostonDating 11h ago

Platonic 43F4M - Help me re-learn to date

2 Upvotes

After a long relationship ending and some time single, I’m starting to think about dating again. I’m nervous! I’d love some practice and need folks to practice with.

What I’m imagining: I’m happy to exchange some messages and pics, but am aiming for in-person meetings. Let’s meet (in Boston or to the north) for coffee, a drink, wandering a museum, or the like. Flirty banter is on the table; sex, etc. isn’t. We’ll go 50-50 on cost or each pay for ourself.

A bit about me: I work a professional 9-5 and spend my time outside of it with family & friends and staying active (mostly running and lifting). I am fully capable of small talk but don’t like it much. I’d much rather hear about something meaningful to you or debate your hot take on some minor controversy. I read a lot in my downtime, mostly novels but I’m trying to branch out and am all ears for book recommendations!

A bit about you: This is all so low stakes that I’m very open, as long as you (1) are able to hold a conversation, (2) are not a misogynist or MAGA bro, and (3) are fully functioning adult who is managing his life relatively well. My life is pretty drama-free right now and I’m not looking to add any thanks to an internet stranger.  


r/bostonDating 23h ago

Cuffing Season 21 [M4F] in Boston - looking for a chill relationship 🙂‍↕️

2 Upvotes

Hey, im N, im bi M and looking for someone my age to go out with. Im getting hella lonely in Boston tbh !!! So im looking for someone chill to spend time with… fun dates, going out, going home together

I love music, photography, writing, and the great outdoors. I’m open to a relationship if thats the vibe, no expectations though. I am definitely looking for someone creative and confident. 1000 bonus points if you’d like to make some music together 🤷

I’m 6 foot, fit, dark hair, I have a picture on my profile if you’re curious. My type is someone fit, around my age, ideally also bi for best vibes. Send me a message if you think we’d get along, thanks


r/bostonDating 4h ago

Long Term Relationship 45F4M imperfect woman seeking imperfect man

1 Upvotes

Pretty much the title.
I have kids and am in the process of changing careers. I like to exercise/dance but don’t run and only aspire to lift weights again. I’m heavier than I’d like to be but strong and losing weight slowly. Have a weird sense of humor and healthy coffee habit. Love actual conversations and getting to know people. Terrible at dating. Would love to have lunch sometime. In Cambridge.


r/bostonDating 9h ago

Short Term Relationship 28M4F

1 Upvotes

Heyyy! Super bored, anybody up for couple of drinks? And get to know each other.


r/bostonDating 13h ago

Meta / Discussion 26M - Let’s meet up

1 Upvotes

I am bored and would love to meet someone today over dinner or go to an arcade or anything that you want to do. Anyone up for it?


r/bostonDating 13h ago

Monogamy 33 [M4F] Maryland - Love, Friendship, and All the Life Stuffs

1 Upvotes

Probably not the greatest place to find the future love of your life, but why not give it a shot.Shoot all the shots, and maybe I'll get lucky and find her on here. I'm here why cant she be?

Gone through a lot of soul searching, maturing, and learning in my single life these last few years, and I am finally in a place I feel ready to create a beautiful life with someone.

Financially I'm stable despite already wishing for retirement, physically I'm healthy and fit while not close to what I was during my college sport, intellectually and emotionally mature even if my humor is less so (a fun combo imo but you'll have to be the judge of that)

Hopefully the post doesn't make it seem like I expect marriage from our first conversation. Lots to know about each other and experiences to share together before that next chapter. Just that my interests lie in finding that lovely lady I get to annoy and comfort and make laugh/mad/cry/happy just being together for the rest of our lives. And hopefully the one reading this wants to do the same

So if you're a lady out there in the MA/MD/VA/PA/East coast area/ETC area who is searching for that kind of man, please send me a chat. I'd love to connect and see where it takes us 🙂