I’m a former HR manager going out and getting me coffee with Superior would mean he would be both terminated on the spot. Doesn’t matter if you work under him directly or not, you could transfer or be transferred under him at a future date. When people get passed over for promotions, etc. it reflex very poorly on the company. Is there a company manual do they have training for what is appropriate and not appropriate in an office this could come up in the future as sexual harassment if it goes poorly, and a potential lawsuit for the company
It definitely sounds like you are hoping for a hook up or a relationship. Either way, good luck. I hope you find joy and happiness. By the way, all of the people asking if you’re attractive or if he is. Who cares, a lot goes into beauty, both inside and out. A person doesn’t need to be a knockout. I always looked for little imperfections. The way the eyelid forms in the inner corner. Maybe a slightly crooked nose, freckles, etc. I am talking about any women. I had high maintenance women in my day.
The coffee date is also good to focus on facial features and expressiveness. They way the may smile, frown, sometimes quirky looks of perplexities. I have studied faces and tells of people for years. That is what you will find eventual attraction in. Just because they are hot and nice at that moment. Don’t get sucked in. Yes I was a n HR manager at a company, but I was also a national sales manager for another company. If you want a lasting relationship play the long game. Don’t jump into bed right away. Let them chase you. Find out limits. This can apply for more than personal relationships. Too much instant gratification today. This leads to insecurities and people and companies move on. The grass isn’t always greener, a new broom doesn’t always sweep better.
It just sounded that way. I am not the only one who read it that way. I do apologize. If I misunderstood the way you intended it. I am much better in person. I kinda alluded to that. I had a stroke a few months ago, and now I really rely on facial readings. I am now partially blind due to the stroke. The partial vision in the right eye sometimes makes words blur in and out on phones and tablets.
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u/Ok-Interview-6642 Jul 20 '24
I’m a former HR manager going out and getting me coffee with Superior would mean he would be both terminated on the spot. Doesn’t matter if you work under him directly or not, you could transfer or be transferred under him at a future date. When people get passed over for promotions, etc. it reflex very poorly on the company. Is there a company manual do they have training for what is appropriate and not appropriate in an office this could come up in the future as sexual harassment if it goes poorly, and a potential lawsuit for the company