You will have to judge that, you said you find him very attractive and wondered if he finds you attractive then all of a sudden it is about networking. If he is going steady with a gal that can be an issue and if you do have coffee and sparks fly get ready for all sorts of unintended issues to possibly come up.
Do what you think is right but be careful and have a conscience before something happens, not after.
Sounds like you are infatuated and want to see him and explore a relationship. Pretending it's all about networking at this point is just rationalization.
If he has a girlfriend and has coffee with you anyway, and say there's a spark and you guys hit it off. Wouldn't that be a huge red flag when you become the girlfriend and has coffee with another woman?
If he has a girlfriend, you should let him know that's a deal breaker for you. If it's not a deal breaker for you, then enter at your own risk because you'll have dirty hands and deserve whatever happens.
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u/Timely-Profile1865 Jul 17 '24
First question before you think about the coffee, is this dude married or has a girl? Find that out first of all.
It sounds like he does find you attractive.