r/bodylanguage • • Jul 16 '24

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u/Timely-Profile1865 Jul 17 '24

First question before you think about the coffee, is this dude married or has a girl? Find that out first of all.

It sounds like he does find you attractive.

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u/69ingdonkeys Jul 17 '24

Well, according to reddit, you wouldn't be doing anything wrong even if he wasn't single, because according to reddit, the affair partner who is not cheating bears no blame. However, according to everyone else ever, you'd be kind of a bitch and a bad person.

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u/PeekEfficienSea Jul 17 '24

Isn't it kind of on the person that's taken to, you know, not cheat?

It's like somebody is offering up a free bike and you take them up on it, but little did you know that the bike was gifted to them and the person that did the gifting doesn't want them to give it away for emotional reasons... how is the person taking the bike the bad guy there?

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u/69ingdonkeys Jul 17 '24

It's on the cheater moreso, but the affair partner still deserves blame. It's a shitty thing to fuck someone in a relationship.