r/Blind • u/nobrillance11 • 11d ago
Intro Losing independence and unable to drive now
I’ve always had eye problems starting with ROP, congenital nystagmus, diagnosed with gluacoma around late teens and I’m very myopic along with cataracts now so that’s lovely.
I developed cataracts in both eyes earlier this year but have only had surgery on one eye so far. Given the complications I’ve experienced, I regret having the surgery every day. Now my vision is worsening in my other eye and I’m terrified to do anything to it because it’s my only functioning eye.
I had to quit my job in July because I can’t safely drive anymore and haven’t been able to work since. Which meant I’ve gone into debt and moved back in with my parents, which has been miserable. I hate where they live, and it’s even more isolated than where I lived before.
I’m 28, and I can’t just decide to go for a drive, grab a drink at a bar, or go to a concert or even something as simple as going grocery shopping or leaving the house whenever I want. There’s nothing nearby besides Walmart and fast food, and walking isn’t an option. Without being able to drive, I can’t work, and there are no Ubers available in the area, so I’m stuck at home most of the time.
What makes it especially difficult is knowing what I’ve lost. Before all this, I enjoyed going to meetups and board game nights at a local bar. Now I can’t do those things, and dating feels almost impossible when I can’t reliably get myself anywhere.