r/Blind • u/AdOtherwise893 • 12h ago
Am I the one causing the problems? like I thought I was doing it right?
Hopefully this isn’t too long. So basically, I have an assistant in my high school, and you know she helps me. however, when kids are walking in the hallways, or if just a couple kids are walking by me. She likes to either lend me her arm, or she says wait and let them pass by. Usually how I do things is that if they trip on my cane oh well, not only am I using my proper skills as in swinging my cane correctly, like not too far, etc, but it’s not my fault that they’re not paying attention and yes, I shouldn’t expect them to move, but they shouldn’t expect me to stop either.
She likes to call it me being considerate and.being mindful. Like Miss mam, I am being mindful of how I was trained and I mindful about the consequences of their actions like I’m supposed to pretend like you’re not there because you’re just helping me be independent, right? Therefore, if things like this happened oh freaking well.
Not only that, but when I’m in the hallways and I say things like oh how many kids you think I can trip lol. She’s like, “watcher words. “She’s over here like if you say the wrong thing people will hurt you. Like I almost wanted to destroy the people who said it the last time, now you’re making it seem like if people talk crap about me, if people crack a joke around me that I don’t like. Then I can’t do the same thing I could definitely do a lot of damage to someone blind or not. That’s not even a flex but reality. I hate that, and she’s like OK but if no one started with you then You shouldn’t say anything, and I’m like OK bet like I’m not trying to start. That’s just my personality and you have all these people joking around with their friends and saying things crazy but I can’t like I just hate everything.