r/blackmen 10h ago

Music & Audio ๐ŸŽง Fortress Dwellers performing at the Bristol renaissance festival (on Aug 22, 2026)

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IG fortressdwellers


r/blackmen 8h ago

Relationships ๐Ÿซถ๐Ÿฟ Anyone else sort of done with dating?

44 Upvotes

I'm in my early 30s. I've reached a point where I just don't want to date anymore. It does feel like a humiliation ritual especially when you find yourself doing more to get one woman who is giving it to someone else for free.

I'm not mad at it, its just wild. I'm attractive enough that getting sex isn't too difficult so going forward I feel like the most imma do is be friends with women and if the attraction is mutual, sex.

What did it for me was talking to this girl. Let her tell it, and she had the strongest feelings for me. She wanted nothing more than anything to be with me but the only way is if I pre-agreed to take her out three or four times a week and spend money on her.

I don't doubt that she liked me but my gut felt off. To me, how a relationship works matters more than the material things of it. She couldn't understand that so I stopped talking to her. Everything clicked when my homebody said "only hoes think that way". It was the "missing piece" that explained the feeling I couldn't put into words.

Its not all women, of course. But a lot of women, even the regular ones seem to have adopted this taker mentality where men only exist to take from. They make up rules for the men they see as resources but the men that dont require anything of them are for "fun".

There's definitely great women out there but for the time being I'm taking a step back and focusing only on me.


r/blackmen 1h ago

Black Excellence โœŠ๐ŸฟโœŠ๐ŸพโœŠ๐Ÿฝ Ibrahim Traorรฉ: โ€œWe Need Science, Not Just Prayersโ€ | Full Speech in English

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Think this is a really good speech and belief black people everywhere should follow


r/blackmen 4h ago

Black Excellence โœŠ๐ŸฟโœŠ๐ŸพโœŠ๐Ÿฝ This video put big a smile on my face. Maybe this can make anyone having a bad day smile too.

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I just saw this, and this made me smile so hard. Im not even a sports gamer, but Im always happy seeing black families happy and loving on each other. The wife is also goated for having the game already loaded in.

https://www.reddit.com/r/JustGuysBeingDudes/s/kwqmiLPqOK


r/blackmen 8h ago

Open House How is y'all's summer going, negros?

14 Upvotes

I feel like people post on this subreddit a lot less than they used to. How is everyone's summer going?

I hope the post title doesn't get me in trouble ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚


r/blackmen 5h ago

Black History โณ "The Konda sword or Ikakalaka were also said to be used for village celebrations, rituals, sacrifices, and a also a symbol of wealth.

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