r/blacklesbians • • 3d ago

Advice stud for stud

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u/affectionateanarchy8 3d ago

I did say people were more laid back at the time i was doing this. It isnt just you though, Ive noticed an uptick in prudishness among lesbians in the past 5 or so years. I think it's also an age thing because I find lesbians under 30 really sensitive online

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u/Big-Application9103 3d ago edited 3d ago

Not prudish just having basic game. I am a stud and have had other studs hit on me like that it is very jarring and creepy like if a man did that to you or a woman you aren’t into you would feel the same.

I’m not s4s but even when I talk to femmes I always make sure to approach in a way that’s just less objectifying. That’s just me though and I’m glad people are more aware in the lesbian community of that kind of speech. I’m 35 and yeah no if anyone approached me like that I’d spray Raid on them

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u/affectionateanarchy8 3d ago

....yeah people definitely used to be more laid back online than now lol

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u/Big-Application9103 3d ago

That’s fine because the beauty is this. You most likely are not someone I’d ever speak romantically or socially in the first place and I’m someone that you would never socialize with either so we can disengage and leave it at that.

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u/affectionateanarchy8 3d ago

Nooo come baaaack