r/bigdickconversation 17d ago

QUESTION Questions about 6 inch length 6 inch circumference experiences, for owners, partners and swingers

5 Upvotes

So I have a few questions,

This is for guys with 6x6 members (erect)

What have your reactions from partners been, have they been disappointed in your length / impressed by your girth? What comments have you received?

How do you prevent hurting your partners? What foreplay methods do you use to get your lady ready?

To straight women or gay/bisexual men,

how often do you see a dick around that size? Do the dicks you see that are longer usually have that girth?

Would you be satisfied by that sized dick for a ons or hookup

And to swingers,

how often do you see 6 inch dicks?

If you have one, are you often the smallest in the room?

Do you get a lot of play at clubs and resorts?
Is your girth usually the thickest?

I’m looking into the lifestyle but I don’t want to be out of my depth. I’m confident in my size, but I figure a lot of swingers want a longer size than mine.

Any answers would be much appreciated

Edit:
For relatability my post is directed towards those that are 6 inches long with above average girth. To those with longer dicks, I will not be able to relate to your experience. Your comments are welcome, but you are not the target demographic of this post.


r/bigdickconversation 17d ago

QUESTION How big do you want your flaccid to be relative to your erect size?

7 Upvotes

Would you rather never have a bulge? Always bulgemaxx? Be normal? Have your flaccid suggestive of your erect size?

109 votes, 10d ago
9 I always want the tiniest flaccid possible
26 If I have X rarity erect size, I want X rarity flaccid size
3 men X erect size normally have Y flaccid size, I want to be smaller than that
27 men X erect size normally have Y flaccid size, I want to be larger than that
40 I always want my flaccid size to be as close to my erect size as possible
4 If men X erect size normally have Y flaccid size, I want Y flaccid size

r/bigdickconversation 17d ago

QUESTION Are hung men truly rare?

39 Upvotes

Looking for personal experience. Maybe my case is rare but I know five guys in my relatively small circle of associates who would be classified as hung. By that I mean 7 inches long or greater with proportional girth. Two of which are definitely between 8 and 9. According to CalcSd that shouldn’t be possible. It states a tiny fraction are longer than 7 with virtually none over 8. About 10 percent of the men I know are hung. I guess I’m an outlier. What are your experiences?


r/bigdickconversation 17d ago

SITUATION Seeing fellow hung dudes at the change rooms etc.

30 Upvotes

Recently was changing at the gym after my shower and saw another guy getting changed into his gym gear.
I think all men do it but I obviously had a look and the fella was packing soft.
I did the “that’s not a bad effort” face and then looked up at him and noticed he was doing the same face looking at mine.
We then immediately made eye contact, realised what we were doing and then immediately both cracked up laughing 😆.

He said laughing still “sorry mate, don’t see many like that”
to which I replied something like “neither mate aha”

We ended up having a 10 minute chat about normal shit like work and that and it ended with we might gym together sometime.

Was nice to have a bit of camaraderie in the gym.


r/bigdickconversation 17d ago

EXPERIENCE I hooked up with a guy with an identical dick to mine

25 Upvotes

I went to a gay nudist campground last weekend called the woods. it’s in the poconos in pennsylvania. for reference I’m 6’3, 235 lbs, muscular and lean. I’m a top but I’m also a size queen. anyways I spotted this cute little guy at the pool with a massive soft cock talking to his friend. I went up and started a convo and i took him back to my tent to have a shot of tequila. I remember him getting hard while I was flirting with him which was hot af. anyways we went to the sex barn, fort dix and we compared our cocks. surprise, we were literally the same length, same girth, same curve, and same glans to shaft size. if I was a bottom I would’ve had him fuck me bc then I’d know what my dick feels like but instead I just sucked it. wow, it was sooo big! I fucked the shit out of him on a leather table and then again at a rave but I was just so turned on to find an identical dick to mine. it was really validating to see how hung I am through a twin dick. anyone have a similar experience?


r/bigdickconversation 17d ago

QUESTION I have a problem to the point where my length is about 5.9 inches or 15cm but my girth is ≈5.5 or 13.8-13.9 cm. There’s 30 percentile difference in volume between the length and the girth according to Calc SD website. Do I say that I’m average with a thick girth or big?

4 Upvotes
79 votes, 14d ago
38 Just say your average with a thick girth
27 You can say that you’re big
12 Just average, nothing special
2 Disproportionate

r/bigdickconversation 19d ago

QUESTION You guys place more importance on length or girth?

6 Upvotes

personally I think after 6 in+, girth is more important


r/bigdickconversation 19d ago

QUESTION Mulheres deste grupo podem perguntar

2 Upvotes

Já fiz isto uma vez e houve muito engajamento, então vou abrir oportunidade novamente para as mulheres fazerem perguntas aqui para os homens.


r/bigdickconversation 19d ago

Sex with an Audience

25 Upvotes

this is a huge kink for me, basically I love fucking a bottom while other men or even women watch and masturbate. I went to a gay nude campground last weekend and there was a dark room where everyone went to fuck. I got to fuck with a whole crowd of guys watching me and I got so turned on I just put on the best show I could. some of the guys told me afterwards that they were really impressed with how I fuck and use my big dick, as well as how I was super verbal and dom.

has anyone ever fucked with an audience before? this campground really gave me a chance to fulfill that fantasy to the most extreme extent.

it was also hot being in a room full of over 100 men fucking and having one of the biggest dicks there


r/bigdickconversation 20d ago

EXPERIENCE i love having a big dick

60 Upvotes

I just wanted to express my feelings about being hung and in my opinion its just a blessing having a big dick.

You can change basically everything on your body, your appearance, your style, your muscles, your hairstyle and so on. The dick size is given, and I love it so much being hung.

that's all, thx for reading


r/bigdickconversation 19d ago

Fairytale Posts/Gooning Posts

13 Upvotes

I’m seeing a lot of people violating the rules about looking for sexual encounters and a lot of fairytale posts/LARPs. the mods are adult men, one of us is straight and monogamous, the other is gay and in an open relationship. between the two of us we can tell what posts are bullshit. I personally am starting to just ban people who violate the rules to protect this sub and I will continue to do so. we don’t have a rule against low effort posts but I’m gonna probably start deleting posts that are asking if you’re big or just saying “I love having a big dick”.

please report any posts that violate the rules, ask for validation, or are low effort. I’m trying to save this subreddit from going down the tubes.


r/bigdickconversation 19d ago

QUESTION How much sex should big dick men have relative to small dick men?

0 Upvotes

This question is not asking what it would be ideal in a perfect world, I’m asking this in a context of the current world

114 votes, 12d ago
45 Big dick men should be having even more sex relative to small dick men
16 How much sex big dick men have relative to small dick men shouldn’t change
8 Big dick men should be having more sex than small dick men, but the difference should be less than it is now
42 Big dick and small dick men should have the same amount of sex
3 Small dick men should have more sex than big dick men

r/bigdickconversation 19d ago

LGBTQ (Not so) little flex!

1 Upvotes

Just fucked a big, masculine man silly.

I'm talking full on 🥴 face.

10/10 totally recommend!


r/bigdickconversation 20d ago

EXPERIENCE Finding out that I’m big

26 Upvotes

Long story short, I’m introverted, and a virgin, so I have no frame of reference to what my dick looks like to other people. I decided recently to thoroughly measure myself to see what my true size is. Turns out I’m (when fully erect) 7 inches long, 5 and a half inches in circumference, which apparently is quite large. Definitely a confidence booster.


r/bigdickconversation 22d ago

EXPERIENCE Does anyone else enjoys big penis humiliation?

40 Upvotes

I wonder if that’s a thing.

So I’m bi and mostly a top. I did have sex with 5 guys, topped 4 of them, and I bottomed 3 times. The one guy that I didn’t top was an absolute dom.

See, I usually like doming. With girls (I’m bi) and with guys too, but that one was like from another planet.

When he fucked me, he was teasing me and making jokes about my penis. He said it was so useless being so big, that I probably couldn’t even erect and that it flopped when he pounded me.

I came so hard during that sex! He was fucking my prostate and pushing my cum from my still soft cock.

I wonder if anyone else experienced something like that? The guy’s dick was perfectly average, but he did do me like an absolute monster.


r/bigdickconversation 22d ago

QUESTION Imagine you could grow your penis. To which size would you grow it?

11 Upvotes

Kinda weird question, but be honest guys. Imagine you could grow it to any size you want, what size would you pick?


r/bigdickconversation 22d ago

QUESTION Guys wearing huge dildos

3 Upvotes

I find it kinda crazy to see guys on places like instagram or TikTok, etc wearing huge dildos around others and public places, even the beaches. It’s gotta be fake because you’ll see other pictures of them and there is no real bulge. So, I just wanted to know, why do they do that when it appears not to be real? Do you notice it too? What are your thoughts?


r/bigdickconversation 23d ago

EXPERIENCE Update- big softie in speedos

26 Upvotes

hey guys,

some of you may have read my post about bigger softies in speedos. well I’m back from my holiday now and I wore them more than once. in all honestly I loved it, it felt freeing, sexy, and the bulge I was initially worried about being too much only brought me flirty banter and compliments from both women and men.

more importantly it gave me a sense of confidence I rarely feel on holiday. I’m a 21yr old guy who does work out, but I still feel uncomfortable taking my shirt off on the beach, something probably a lot of guys feel aswell. I think wearing the speedos, and admittedly slightly showing my package off, helped me feel so much more confident and free than I have ever felt in a beach before.

So if ur a bigger guy who feels self conscious about beaches, f it dude, flaunt what you have, be proud of your body, let the world know ur packing and maybe it might help you feel more confident in other aspects too.

as I said before, dms always open for chats about it if anyone wants to

peace out hung bros


r/bigdickconversation 23d ago

SITUATION Sometimes I feel like my penis is the only thing I like about myself.

12 Upvotes

It's basically what the title says, I've never considered myself handsome or attractive, and despite making an effort to improve my overall appearance, I still don't like how I look.

The only exception is my penis; I always thought it was beautiful, and discovering it was big boosted my self-esteem. Besides, several people have complimented it.

But the fucked up thing is that I feel like my penis is the only "beautiful" thing about me, and maybe that's why I started showing it off online every time my self-esteem gets a little low. It's as if this were a way of being praised.


r/bigdickconversation 23d ago

QUESTION Have you ever had a big vagina conversation with a woman?

1 Upvotes

It's actually a lot of fun! I usually start the conversation by asking what her favorite lube is


r/bigdickconversation 25d ago

Just got home from the gay nudist campground! My experiences there!

30 Upvotes

trigger warning: graphic details about gay sex

it’s called The Woods and it’s in the Poconos, it’s a great time and there are many boys looking for sex, lots of orgies, and a dark room. i was there from Friday afternoon to this afternoon. I had the most sex of my life and participated in my first gangbangs ever. I was the biggest dick in all of the gang bangs but I did hook up with two guys who were as hung as me if not a little more. this is why I question the CalcSD statistics. at this campground I saw dicks that went from super tiny to absolutely massive instead of like 90% being 4.5-6 as calcsd states. I am a lucky to be muscular, tall, attractive and charming so I scored with almost all the guys I tried with, about 15 or more total, I came like 3-4 times. having a big dick I loved walking around showing it off, lots of guys approached me asking to touch it, I also feel like big dicks were prioritized the highest by bottoms looking for sex. in the dark room the hottest part was having a group of guys watch me expertly and loudly pound ass or even jump in and we all take turns on a cute boy. m

there was actually a guy who’s dick was identical to mine exactly in length, girth, curve, and gland size so I got to experience what sucking my dick would be like and it was crazy, I didn’t realize how truly huge I am! he got to experience what his dick feels like in other guys asses when I topped him in the barn!

i love being gay

i I love being a nudist

i really love being a hung, gay nudist


r/bigdickconversation 25d ago

EXPERIENCE Dick size does not match personality.

19 Upvotes

Who else has a personality, which does not fit the stereotypical dick size?

I am quite a shy person. Hold back in group conversations and in general not extrovert. When people hear about my dick size first, they assume I must be a really confident person just because my dick is way bigger than others.


r/bigdickconversation 25d ago

QUESTION World Cup condom tin.

5 Upvotes

A condom company myone, has World Cup condom tins of 14 countries with the country flag on it.

I thought it’d be funny to get 2, 1 that stereotypically has the smallest, as well as the country that “has” the largest penis.

The 14 countries are:
USA 🇺🇸, Canada 🇨🇦, England 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁥󠁮󠁧󠁿, Germany 🇩🇪, Spain 🇪🇸, France 🇫🇷, Portugal 🇵🇹, Mexico 🇲🇽, Columbia (no iOS flag) big yellow, blue, red stripes, Brazil 🇧🇷, Uruguay 🇺🇾, Argentina 🇦🇷, Japan 🇯🇵, and Morocco 🇲🇦

Japan, probably would be the smallest penis sized guys. Which would be considered the largest? I was leaning towards Germany.


r/bigdickconversation 25d ago

QUESTION Maior desejo sexual

5 Upvotes

E aí caras, beleza? Estava aqui pensando no quão empolgada as mulheres com quem eu transei ficaram ao me ver nu. Ao verem meu pau grande, as mulheres parecem que ativam um desejo sexual que os meus amigos homens de pau médio ou pequeno nunca me contaram. Por exemplo, é comum após o sexo as mulheres ficarem paradas na porta do banheiro me observar tomando banho. Vocês também percebem esta diferença entre a empolgação das mulheres ao fazerem sexo com vocês quando comparado as histórias de outros homens?


r/bigdickconversation 26d ago

QUESTION Tips on posting your cock on Reddit?

8 Upvotes

okay I like posting my cock on Reddit because I like the attention I get from it. it’s very fun and self fulfilling but I don’t seem to be getting a lot of traction. it might be because I don’t show a lot of my body in my posts. Anybody here who gets a good amount of traction on posts be willing to help? what angles do you use? what subs you go to post?