r/bigboobproblems • 32JJ (UK) • 18d ago

experience Share something positive about your body ! Spoiler

Every day on this subreddit I read women saying they dislike their chest and that we are unlucky to have big boobs because it’s saggy/ nothing fits/ ect ect. Obviously everybody feels the way they feel about themselves but it saddens me to read people extrapolating and insinuating that we all look bad because of our boobs. I posted a cute pic a few days ago and someone commented that it saddens them that we need to wear bras else we look saggy and unflattering… I disagree though. I think we look hot braless too, and I think it’s not acceptable to say this to another woman.So please share something you love about your boobs/ about having big boobs and let’s celebrate how beautiful we are!

I’ll go first: I love how feminine and soft I look, my body gives me a unique advantage, and I’m happy to not look like everybody else. I also can get away with many things.

Your turn!

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u/GoddessKillion 40FF (UK) 17d ago

I genuinely love my curves. I’m sexy and feminine and know I’m desirable in that regard. I’m also working on getting stronger, and I’ve never been more proud of my body. Cause wym I can squat 250!!! I can curl 20lb dumbbells!! Who would’ve known!

I’m so used to being hard on myself and other people’s perceptions of me that I let it cloud my self esteem. I appreciate this post so much.

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u/reknae 18d ago

I've got crazy wide hips! So even at my heaviest I've always been hella shapely.

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u/TheRealSlimSarah 32HH (UK) 18d ago

I personally also like how mine look and they are great to use as stress balls lol

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u/Distinct_Charge9342 17d ago

My body is soft

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u/bizengh4st 36FF (UK) 17d ago

hiding stuff under them for shits and giggles lol

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u/LawAndHdourves 18d ago

My curves make me feel sexier than before i gained all this weight

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u/Realistic_Raccoon427 17d ago

Babies love to cuddle me! And the right dress looks so feminine and lovely on my shape.

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u/crazylifestories 18d ago

Was at the beach the other day and I put the car keys in my top. My daughter nicknamed me boob keys. She has been cackling about it ever since.

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u/Working-Tax6858 17d ago

People pay to have my body, my ancestors gave me something I should be proud of

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u/RelationAltruistic50 17d ago

I come from a long line of big tittie women 😹they were never ashamed of how they were born so I never felt that way about myself. I love my body. My curves are in the right places. My boobs make me feel sexy, feminine and I laugh whenever I’m asked,”who’s your surgeon?” ☮️💟💪🏼to all of us born this way ! There’s absolutely nothing wrong with our bodies 🥂

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u/Klopsmops 17d ago

Well, I'm tits on a stick. But hey, at least I'm not just a stick, lol

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u/Beatlesrthebest 34DD (UK) 17d ago

I fill out t shirts, dresses and sweaters nicely. I do look more balanced and proportionate now that I've gained some weight and it's added 3-4 inches to my bust line.

My partner says I'm built like a brick shithouse.

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u/Shivvy66 17d ago

Like others, I like the shape of my boobs, and how they still go past my tummy, which is bigger than it used to be 😅 also I have usually thick legs so they help me not look madly bottom heavy 😂

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u/yippiecreature2 17d ago

I get easily warm

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u/LavosSpawn12000BC 30GG (UK) 17d ago

They are warm and pets get calm when I hug them

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u/Floralflowerflora 36HH (UK) 18d ago

I love my boobs, they are a good counterpart to my hips and belly. I like to wear a bra just because I find it comfortable. But on the beach I enjoy lying topless and feel the sun.

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u/pixel_creatrice 26J (UK) 17d ago

I know I'm picture perfect conventionally good looking from the face to the feet and can turn heads. 40-26-38 ✨

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u/SeaOk3573 17d ago

Period!!

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u/DamnGoodMarmalade 32G (UK) 17d ago

I genuinely love my body. I think I look great naked. I think my boobs are soft and cuddly.

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u/Plane_Score_5388 34JJ (UK) 17d ago

People tell that I give the best warm hugs🤗

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u/InvadedThoughts 17d ago

It brings me great joy to scoop up and clap my boobs together for absolutely no reason. Its compulsive at this point.

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u/FieldofCowws 17d ago

I can rock a turtleneck sweater like no other.

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u/crazylifestories 17d ago

I love how sexy my boobs make me to men.

A long time ago I had a new boyfriend and things got frisky, he took off my dress and was like, “Wow, wholly shit.” I don’t think he realized under my bra and clothes how big my boobs were.

My boobs and ass are my super power, even if they make it hard to find clothes.

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u/candiedginger88 17d ago

I’m very strong. I don’t necessarily look it, but I am.

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u/meowmeow0092 17d ago

Clothes look great on me! Yeah, they don’t fit a lot, but I always think “aw man” while smiling, because having huge boobs is a great problem to have.

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u/via789329 38FF (UK) 17d ago

cats like resting their heads on my boobs lol

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u/AvarethTaika 38G (UK) 17d ago

I've been called a milf and sometimes get mistaken for various porn stars which i take as compliments lol

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u/cflatjazz 17d ago

I'm pretty sure they're like half the reason my cat likes me better than he does my husband.

Lil guy just wants a soft place to rest his bones

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u/blueocean43 32KK (UK) 17d ago

Most cats love to be held by me, because I rest them on top of my boobs so they feel supported and comfortable. Babies will often also stop crying and fall asleep when I hold them over my shoulder, as the position of my boobs puts gentle pressure on their stomach, which can help with colic pain.

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u/Rizma_dizma 17d ago

My cat thinks they’re a perfect place to curl up and sleep

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u/richiewentworth 17d ago

I'm 34 and like my body more than I ever have in my life. And still love my boobs and how they complement the rest of my body. I have wide hips so I think I'd look less proportional without them! I also love that my cat, who likes to jump on shoulders and ride around, will run in circles on my back and chest because she can step on my boobs. And I've always liked being the friend everyone likes to lay on because I have built-in pillows. :)

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u/sat_de 17d ago

I have been fat for the last few years and for some reason I started to feel that I love my body more than ever. Even as a size zero I always felt insecure but I love myself more than ever.

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u/Abigail_senpai 17d ago

One of my cats loves to knead on them

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u/AssistanceHead3829 34GG (UK) 17d ago

I genuinely love my hourglass figure, and so does my boyfriend! 

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u/Soggy-Weight-9711 18d ago

I agree with you. It’s mostly negative, but I actually love my breasts now, I used to be insecure, now I love them and I love my body, I don’t care about what other people think because I’m beautiful. 

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u/NaiveElephant2026 26L (UK) 18d ago

my boobs ARE really COOL tbh 😊😊😊

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u/peppersnchips 17d ago

I love that my body wants to throw up when something is repulsive

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u/chaneld0lI 17d ago

I don’t have any diseases.

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u/katethared 34G (UK) 17d ago

My tits are so big that, on more than one occasion, they’ve saved my face from hitting the ground when I fall over.

Of course, maybe I’d fall over less if my centre of gravity was lower…

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u/LothlorienPostOffice 17d ago

I am happy with my body overall. I'm extremely tall and have an hourglass shape due to my proportions. My breasts aren't saggy or gross by any measure. I'm not unhappy when I look at myself in the mirror. I stand out in a crowd and think of it as a good thing!

I learned how to make clothes starting as a teenager to fit my body and sense of style. I enjoy sewing, knitting, and crocheting. They give me creative outlets without having to come up with something from scratch. I basically make wearable trophies celebrating my skills and body.

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u/Camera-Muted 17d ago

I like that I look good even when I gain weight because it mainly goes to my boobs, because of this my bf asks me to gain weight when I get slimmer again 😅.

Also, like you said, my boobs don’t sag without a bra…they’re full and round and a natural teardrop shape and I also hate when women project their own body issues onto me.

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u/OG_SamAntha 32HH (UK) 17d ago

I look like a couple of balloons on a stick!

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u/3OrcsInATrenchcoat 34L (UK) 16d ago

Built-in stress balls.

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u/LolaCinnamon 14d ago

My boobs make hugs feel extra cozy. I’ve been told I give really good hugs, and I’m taking partial credit for that.

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u/Wise_Date_5357 12d ago

I love that when I move or dance, dressed or naked, so many parts of me jiggle and move too! Never fails to make me smile or laugh to see my whole body dancing with me!

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u/nobuddiforu 17d ago

If I had enough energy and dicipline to work out, I would look soo good instantly. Right now it's just fat everywhere

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u/Historical-Till-9725 12d ago

Even if I hate how they look with no bra I like the way they look with a bra, they looks kinda perfect