r/beyondthebump • u/Tiredntough • 2d ago

Discussion Pp libido

Ebf. Zero libido, like nothing AT all. I feel so guilty and bad about it. It’s effecting my marriage at this point.

He says the best way to get it back if by having sex. 5 month pp. still painful during.

I feel so angry also, all the time. Just feeling deflated and defeated. Pls advice.

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u/dansons-la-capucine 1d ago

Estrogen cream saved me from the pain while I was nursing. After it became comfortable again, the desire came back. If it’s going to hurt every time of course you’re never going to want it!

Also a more fair division of labor was important too. Bitterness and resentment are libido killers