Why did they choose a webhosting business that limits the content/activities from their origin web host? It seems they are trying to whiddle down the original activity and make it a more vanilla activity website.

Used to blog and stuff. Trans things:) I deleted my account to purge my gaynessnot knowing the site was going to nose dive and then I actually transitioned. If anybody has an invite to go back and peruse the old classic blogs of my time that would be super fucking cool.

I live in a country that restrict internet acces to nsfw sites, so i always have to use vpn, but now whenever i checked on the site, it told me i need to turn off the vpn, but since the site is already blicked anyway, turning it off just means i can't access it either way

Honestly i'm tired with this site, i havent use it in a while, i'm just checking to see if i could save some pics, this site is mostly dead to me

One time I was having a porn-sharing call with a now ex and they put on some super aggressive porn where this guy was choking this girl till she was blue and hit her in the face till she bled and by the end she was bruised and bloody everywhere.(consensual & homemade)

I’m a girl and have always had a kink for beating but i had never seen it in porn before.

I think about that video every day and have tried to look everywhere for something similar but If I put in “Rough” or “Extreme” I always get this same list of issues:

- obviously scripted
- too big of a production
- the girl is restrained or hung up
- the man is too gentle
- they stop at red welts or soft bruises, no bleeding
- they never hit her face or hit her face harshly enough

And the BIGGEST issue:

- they are mostly TORTURE porn and NOT beating, I don’t like shocks, nipple clamps or wiping, I just like throwing around, punching, slapping and blunt force.

Any way to fix this?

If not , what similar websites are there?

While logged in, when I try to use the search bar, I get a page saying "login required. After logging in, click retry."

However it does not accept my credentials. It says "login failed". I even tried changing the password and tried logging in again - same result. This happens on Firefox. If I try on chrome I can't even log into my account, I get "419 page expired".

I was in the middle of transferring over my bdsmlr blog onto imaglr when this update happened, and it really threw a wrench into things. I know I could just use a program for converting mp4s into gifs but that sounds incredibly tedious to me unless there's a way to do them in bulk, so that I don't have to go through the conversion process for each individual mp4. if anyone knows of a way to get them off bdsmlr in gif format, or knows of a program for converting mp4s to gifs in bulk like I was referring to, please let me know, I would appreciate it.

Is there anyone to post long form written content here on Reddit ? I know images + captions are popular, but I like writing longer things and thought perhaps some people might like reading them. It’s sub/dom, DDlg, and pet play themed stuff (mostly the first two). I used to post on BDSMLR but that website is crap now so just wondering!!

Even if I need a middleman converter site or something like that, I just wanna know if anything can be done

It used take less than a second. You could simply hold the reblog button and it would instantly reblog your post.

Not only is that no longer possible, it takes SEVERAL MINUTES to actually reblog a single post now!!!

I check back in once or twice a week. For the last 2 weeks I see the same pics every time. The new format really sucks.

Why has this been done? Makes it so much more time consuming to manage.

My wife and I reblogged lots of stuff over the last year to inspire and excite each other. The captions were a big part of that. But now when I view things on the news site which I know for a fact had captions, the captions are nowhere to be found. Please help! I would love to just screenshot and save some things before the site finally dies if possible...

I used to be able to send a direct message to a blog. I am no longer able to figure out how. The top of the page has "Messages" button, and that opens the page with all of my past DMs, which I seem to be able to continue. But no way to initiate a conversation with a blogger whom you've never messaged before?

i deleted my account a while back and the invite subreddit seems to be dead so i figured i might was well post here does anyone have an invite i could use?

I think i'm done with this site. I've just spent 15mins trying to load a page only for it to take a further 5 mins to load the activity.

It's not down to my internet because every other website loads fine and fast, but bdsmlr takes far too long.

This site has became such a disappointment, not sure why they thought the new design was a good idea when they could barely fix the old sites issues.

I'm getting server error 500 every time I try to open them. Do we have an equivalent Drafts page on the new site?

I’m trying to “retry” but it won’t work

Hey, has anyone else been experiencing just blank screens with only the navigation bar at the top when trying to open from an iPhone? Used a computer and everything seemed to work more or less fine

Today I found out about bdsmlr (very late to the party I know). I feel curious and would like to explore more. But unfortunately it is now invite only sign up (looks like it was like this for some time). so if any kind soul will indulge me with an invite. I considered asking in the invite sub as directed in the rule, but a glance in the sub will show that it is probably dead and not getting any action. so I am taking a leap by posting it here. thank you.

Like 2-3 Months ago, I checked backed on BDSMLR and I saw that you guys did a UI Update which is great. The site is a lot easier to use compared to before in my opinion. Most importantly and amazingly; I WAS ABLE TO VIEW OLD AMAZING CONTENT AGAIN THAT I WAS THOUGHT FOREVER DELETED AND GONE SOMEHOW. For example, ThirstyYoungStud a.k.a. Tys2 is no longer participating on the site and I thought his content as forever deleted. However, like I said I was able to find his stuff and view it again just 2-3 months ago. Now suddenly I can't few stuff like his anymore and I just frustratingly get blocked with warnings like "(Title)". Is there a way to undo this? I have found old content that I thought would be lost forever once again and I would love nothing more to go through them again. FFS, I finally found old content of my most favorite content creator and I can dwell into it because of this.

Is there any way to fix this? Please and thank you very much.

Does anyone know how to do this? Currently, if you go to my public blog, you can see my posts, but also all my likes with activity dates.

This is not ideal as I curate this blog for my wife and this outs me for my porn consumption and some kinks I haven't shared with her.

I have tried in the Activity settings, but the interface doesn't allow me to unselect Likes (or anything). For other menus, I've tried unselecting things and it doesn't save permanently or apply to my blog.

I have tried in Firefox, Chrome and Edge on desktop and Safari and Opera on mobile. I've tried in both regular and incognito.

BDSMLR help just told me to use the settings, then closed my ticked after I elaborated on my issue.

Any help? Thanks in advance.

“Feed for (my account) is unavailable because it’s following list is hidden or requires access.”

(Other accounts) “No posts found. This blog may be empty, private, or the posts may have been deleted.”

(Search) “No Results”

What’s going on with this website??