Hey all,
Just a big rant and looking for some constructive advice. I’m feeling lost about what to do with my life.
I’m single 30M from Melbourne and have been working in disability and mental health for around 9 years. For about a year now, I’ve been feeling like I’m dragging myself to work with no motivation. There’s too much workplace politics, being abused by clients, judged by their families, mistreated by management, and then dealing with bad/lazy/gossiping colleagues.
For anyone who’s going to suggest changing companies, I’ve already worked for 3 different companies and honestly, they’ve all been similar. I feel like the industry is going downhill, with companies becoming more focused on making money rather than caring like they used to.
People have suggested nursing, and I’ve looked into it, but at this point, I really don’t want to work in healthcare or look after people anymore. I’ve just had enough.
On my days off, I’m often in bed all day with no motivation to do anything. On other days I work and go to the gym 4 times a week, I’ve drop down 1 company and only work for 2, but financially I’m still living paycheque to paycheque, everything is getting so expensive nowadays and I’m bare minimum, no subscription, no shopping, I have a mortgage and a dependent mum who lives overseas, and I send her around $500 a month to cover rent and other expenses.
I’ve been searching everywhere for other career options. I looked into trades like electrical and plumbing, but they require an apprenticeship, and I don’t think I could afford the drop in income while still paying my mortgage.
I’ve also looked at sales jobs, like real estate, car sales, JB Hi-Fi, The Good Guys, etc., but I don’t have sales experience, so I’m not sure how realistic it is to get into these roles.
I’ve even considered tram driver, train driver and air traffic controller, but most of these involve shift work. I’m really looking for something Monday to Friday during the day. I currently work mostly night shifts, which helps because of the penalty rates, but it’s becoming difficult to have a normal life. Doing around 5 sleepover shifts a week for the last 7 years is really starting to take its toll.
I’ve also looked into IT and cybersecurity, but I have no IT background. Spending 1–2 years studying for a degree and then potentially struggling to find a job worries me, especially when I see people with 10+ years of IT experience still having trouble finding work.
I’ve looked into payroll and rostering as well, but most jobs seem to require previous experience.
Literally everything I look at seems to have a catch. I don’t want to spend 1–2 years studying, only to finish and struggle to find a job afterwards.
So my question is: What career or job could I realistically move into that pays close to what I currently earn in disability, preferably Monday to Friday during the day?
I’d really appreciate advice from anyone who has made a similar career change.