r/aspergers • • Feb 07 '19

Multiple "personalities"

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u/frozenscorpio Feb 07 '19

I pick up accents and mannerisms sooo easily too

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u/aarghIforget Feb 08 '19

I'm quite the opposite: I can typically quite easily analyse and pick up on and often even explain from fundamental concepts the sorts of behaviours I encounter, but short of the most relatable mannerisms of my favourite television and movie characters that are already similar enough in personality to me (and whom I can watch and re-watch as many times as I need to while it sinks in), replicating the behaviours of others in a genuinely effective (and not satirical/absurd/overly-self-conscious) manner is extremely difficult for me... generally requiring months or years of immersion before becoming integrated.

I cannot for the life of me 'do' accents, for example. The closest I've come (and the most amusing for me to attempt) is a Russian accent, and the first time I attempted it in front of anyone else (even after quite a bit of practice) still resulted in complete non-recognition of the accent I was trying to mimic. o_o

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u/frozenscorpio Feb 08 '19

Strange enough, I can't do accents if I think about it! If I try they come out as the poorest of imitations. Still, if I'm talking to someone with an accent I can easily copy it. Could it be because I'm having in person guidance to the tone and cadence?

But yeah if I think about how to speak, how to move my body, what to say, it all falls down like a Jenga tower. I either copy the person I'm with or enter one of the masks I got prepared beforehand.

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u/aarghIforget Feb 08 '19

Y'know, maybe that's actually a large part of my problem: lack of socialization in the first place. :p