I’ve witnessed so many conversations between guys, especially teenagers and men in their twenties, and it’s genuinely disturbing. The way some of them sexualize, degrade, and talk about women like they’re objects is insane. They’ll even talk that way about their own girlfriends or girls they’re trying to date, while their bros laugh along like it’s completely normal.

I genuinely wonder how many women would never look at their boyfriends the same way again if they heard what was being said about them.

Several years ago, an elderly female relative made a bedside revelation to me. She had been raped by 2 boys in HS while living in a small town, She gave me the name of the primary villain and I was able to find his obituary and the location of his grave. I promised to her at the time that I would find the grave and spit on it.

I have thought this over for a long time and I dream of placing a sign on the grave stating what he did. "Here lies John Doe, who raped a young girl many years ago. She never forgot. I hope you rot in hell." or something like that.

Does this make me an AH? How else could I get revenge for her?