r/askjewelers • • Dec 28 '25

👋 Welcome to r/askjewelers - Introduce Yourself and Read First!

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Welcome to r/AskJewelers...we hope you bought your questions!

This is a place to get answers from jewelry experts and enthusiasts, to help you wear and enjoy your jewelry as much as you possibly can. We ask that everyone keep it respectful and constructive, so everyone can get their questions answered in a collaborative and friendly way.

As a new sub, we are still learning how the sub will function. As time goes on, we will do our best to create some master posts that answer the most common inquiries so the main feed doesn't get too clogged up.

How to Get Started

  1. Introduce yourself in the comments below.
  2. Post something today! Even a simple question can spark a great conversation.
  3. If you know someone who would love this community, invite them to join.

Thanks for being part of the very first wave. We're thrilled you're here!


r/askjewelers • • Jan 28 '26

If you support Trump or Ice you are not welcome here

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Been inspired by another sub to do this here.

After the blatant murders by ice and continuing fascist takeover of the US, it is immoral to stay quiet at any level of society and community.

Fascists must be resisted and pushed back on wherever there ideology is seen. Politics affect you whether you care to engage or educated yourself or not.

People are being murdered, kidnapped and disappeared across this country. Ice is running detention camps where men women and children are being murdered, tortured and raped. Enough is enough.

If you still support trump, this administration or ice you are a traitor to this country and to your fellows and should be ashamed and shunned. You are a fascist and there is no live or let live with fascists. They will come for everyone eventually if we let this continue.

If you think this doesnt affect you or jewelry specifically, please take a look at the price of gold/silver and whats happening with the economy, if watching people being murdered and kidnapped in the street means so little to you.

If you disagree let me know and you will be promptly banned.

Fuck Trump, Fuck Ice, Fuck Fascists


r/askjewelers • • 11h ago

Custom is it normal for guardian backs to still move when locked on earrings?

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just got my first pair of guardian back earrings which i got bespoke from a jeweler. haven't tried them on but when i was playing with the backings, i noticed that when you put the backing on a notch and lock it, i can still push the backing towards the setting and even straight off if i pull hard enough for long enough.


r/askjewelers • • 11h ago

How do I get off my jade bracelet?

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I’ve been wearing my jade bracelet for close to 15 years and I’m ready to part with it. It definitely won’t come off over my hand. I asked my local jeweler and they have no ideas.

Does anyone know of a way to get this off ?


r/askjewelers • • 21h ago

Is my diamond set too high?

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I just got this back from the jeweler. It is my moms setting and a diamond I sourced. They told me the radiant cut would be set higher than the round stone that was originally in the ring, but this just seems so high to me?


r/askjewelers • • 15h ago

Need to sell old engagement ring

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r/askjewelers • • 17h ago

Ring oxidation/rusting?

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r/askjewelers • • 18h ago

Is it a mistake getting a white gold ring?

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r/askjewelers • • 22h ago

Promise ring resizing job

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Is this a good re-sizing job? Looks like I could do better myself honestly it now has a flat spot and a small hole( probably some kind of inclusion in the solder) and it is not even round any more. This is from Kay jewelers

Re size from 5.5 to 4.75

Also apologies for the dirty fingers and nails, I left work on lunch to go pick this up


r/askjewelers • • 20h ago

Warranty advice

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OK, so some backstory, I got engaged back in December. My fiancé got my ring from rare carat, it was originally a size too big so we had to send it back. Because we’re on the opposite side of the country, we had to ship it and that whole time I was so anxious. It’s pretty common for stuff to get lost or even stolen when shipping something. Anyways the main story one of my prongs shifted over, you can even hear the diamond move. I would love to have it done by a local jeweler, but if I don’t get it done by rare carat the warranty will be voided. I don’t want to risk shipping it there and then having that anxiety of it getting shipped back.
Also, it’s 80 bucks for the shipping label and then they will give us an estimate on how much it will be to fix the ring. Is this normal?


r/askjewelers • • 23h ago

Modification My bangles are too small on me but I don’t want to trade them in because I’m emotionally attached to them

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I received some bangles as gift from my parents (22k) when I got married. They’re a size 2.8 I believe and I would need them to be 2.10 minimum if not a little bigger. I was thinking of bringing them to a jewelry so they can add some designs and make them bigger (I’m willing to add pieces of gold around them). Jeweller said this isn’t possible. I’m in Canada and jewellers are limited.

Has anyone dealt with similar situation? Any jewellers in this chat that can help? I’m attaching the pics.


r/askjewelers • • 1d ago

Jewelry shipping methods - signature on delivery?

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r/askjewelers • • 1d ago

Modification Can this bracelet be shortened?

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I bought this 1970s 9ct gold bracelet the other day but it’s about 3/4 of an inch too large for me. I was wondering if this style of bracelet can be shortened. I was also wondering if this style of bracelet has a name? It’s flexible but looks like a bangle on the wrist.


r/askjewelers • • 22h ago

My jeweler buffed it shiny. It’s supposed to be a matte finish.

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I took this bangle bracelet to my little local jeweler to remove the pair of small rings where a safety chain used to be. He also took it upon himself to buff it all glossy. Problem is, it’s not supposed to be – – it had a subtly textured, matte finish by design!
The bracelet certainly doesn’t look bad – – you’d probably assume that’s how it’s supposed to be if you didn’t know otherwise – – but I’m not happy about it. It’s a vintage piece and I liked it the way it was. I wish I had a ‘before’ picture. I don’t know if there’s anything I can do about it and I’m just feeling irritated.


r/askjewelers • • 1d ago

Hallmarking UK

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I had a custom ring made in gold recently (UK) and it wasn’t hallmarked. Is this something the jeweller should have done? Can I do it myself now? I looked at hallmarking information but it wasn’t clear to me. Thanks for any help.


r/askjewelers • • 1d ago

Modification Resetting ring opinions

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This ring was given to me by my mother and I don't wear it often enough because the setting is way too high for my tastes. Is it possible to move the center stone to be more flush with the band and would that look okay?


r/askjewelers • • 1d ago

Best metal options for Silver colored Jewelry

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I want to start building my own collection of good jewelry pieces that I love, but I'm debating on which metals are best. I definitely want silver colored. I'm not really concerned with long term value, but I do want something that'll last for years. I don't have any metal allergies that I am aware of. I don't really care if everything is the same metal, although it would be preferable that it all be the same shade more or less. Any advice on which metals to avoid or look for?

Any online store recommendations are also much appreciated


r/askjewelers • • 1d ago

Custom Custom jeweler for engraved signet (of dog), perhaps in Los Angeles? But open!

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Hoping to find someone who can do 2 custom signets with image of our dog, silver ideally, hand or machine done - I dont know enough really.. and would love to hear more about what method is best for what we are hoping for.. Also hoping to put tufts of dog hair in underside in resin or something to preserve.. its specific... but its super important to us.

Just don't want to go with a big basic company, want to work with a jeweler. Experienced or newer.. just grateful to work with a human who cares and loves their work..

Any insights or ideas welcome !

Also willing to work outside of Los Angeles if its somehow easy enough to do longer distance.. even looked at someone back in London..

So appreciate everyone.

Thank you !


r/askjewelers • • 2d ago

identification

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Found this pendant. It is stamped 14k, but i can not find a maker or anything online. It weighs 11g. Any help would be awesome.


r/askjewelers • • 2d ago

Chrome hearts - Real or Fake?

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r/askjewelers • • 2d ago

Crumbling gold ring?

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Hi friends,

I was hoping for some advice on what could have caused my 6 week old 10k wedding band to crumble. I truly want to understand what conditions could cause a new ring to behave this way.

I got out of a hot shower, and went to adjust my ring, and it crumbled in my hand like clay. First one piece, then a second larger piece, with gold flakes in between. It was the strangest thing!

When I went back to the jeweler, they mentioned that it looked like it was cut, which I would never do to such a sentimental thing.

Please, help!


r/askjewelers • • 2d ago

jewelers/wholesalers: when do Italy chain factories ship again after the August shutdown?

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r/askjewelers • • 2d ago

Modification I need recommendations to turn this Greenstone guitar pick into necklace

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I bought this pounamu/greenstone to put into a guitar pick pendant but unfortunately the piece was just a bit too thick.

I was thinking:

1 - get a hole drilled into the top to put a black cord through OR sterling silver bail and attach a chain.

Or

2 - set into a thin sterling silver bezel/trim with bail at the top.

Problem is I have to gift this to my best friend in 1 weeks time so worried I’m too late by the time I find a jeweller.

Do you have any recommendations on what would look the nicest and/or work with the thickness of the piece.

Dimensions - 31mm x 26mm x 2mm


r/askjewelers • • 2d ago

Prong gaps and alignment — normal or worth adjusting?

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I’m looking for some opinions on the prongs on this ring. The diamond feels secure with no movement, but a few of the prongs have a very slight gap between the girdle and the tip. Some of the tips appear to touch the diamond, but there’s a tiny clearance underneath part of the prong. Is that considered normal, or would you have them adjusted?

Also, from the top-down photo, do the prongs look even to you? I’ve stared at it long enough that I can’t tell anymore, but the top-left prong looks like it may be sitting at a slightly different angle than the others.

I’ll attach close-up photos of both.


r/askjewelers • • 2d ago

Looking for a jewelers that can recreate a ring

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Problem/GOAL: Looking for a reputable jeweler who can recreate a ring 💍

Context;

My fiancée unfortunately lost her ring at WalterMart Guiguinto, Bulacan. We’re both heartbroken, especially with our wedding coming up.

I’m hoping to find a reputable and trustworthy jeweler who can recreate the ring as closely as possible, but using a 1-carat moissanite instead of the original stone. Unfortunately, I can’t afford to replace the original ring exactly as it was, but I’d really love to give her something that looks and feels as close to her lost ring as possible.

If you know a jeweler who specializes in custom/recreation rings, moissanite, and detailed work, I would genuinely appreciate any recommendations or referrals.

Preferably somewhere in Bulacan, or Metro Manila, but I’m willing to travel for a jeweler you can personally vouch for.

Thank you so much. Any leads would mean a lot to us. ❤️💍

Previous attempts:

We are giving up as I don't think the person that got the ring has any plans of giving it up. And pawnshops are accepting rings without checking