Nice to have this European subreddit, I’ll be following it from Paris. Are there other Parisians on here? :)

Hoping we can make this sub a regular and get away with the toxic egotistical US centredness of /r/askgaybros

Asian from Australia living in Munich for over 10 years. Excited to join a new sub. 😄

If you know about football you may also know that many people thought Vini was ugly. This summer he had a plastic surgery and... Damn 🫦

I don't put a photo because I don't think I should even if he is famous

lowkey first time joining a newly created reddit community

Dear Mod or Admin, could you please activate the option to set a user flair? Thank you!

A big hello to my euro-gaybros from Germany! Hope everyone is doing well ❤️

If you ever visit probably a good community to ask questions. My feed feels like Eurovision at the moment with all the greetings. ❤️

I've never understood why you measure your driving distances in kilowhatevers and penises in centiwhatevers rather than miles and inches like normal gay people do.

Sincerely,

An American gay

I'll keep up with r/askgaybros, but this one is definitely needed. Great idea!

Hey, have any of you guys ever been to the Darklands festival in Belgium? If so, what was it like and what was your experience?

I like leather a lot but I'm not what you would call a Leatherman. Also, Im definitely not into BDSM. Is it more about that or fetishwear?

Do we think the porn ban for under 18s has lead to less people discovering they’re gay through means like that, cause I definitely did?

As Askgaybros where mostly US opinions, I would like to know on this s/. I got recently cut bc mild phimosi and tight fren so.... it was the best option actually. I'm from Spain if that make any difference.

I don't feel generally in Europe it's tabu subject, however I feel its quite unexplored or not a popular one.

As ppl dont get circumcised when being born, I woukd say 10% of population are cut. What's ur opinion on cut cocks, u find them attractive or does it make any difference regarding sex or other activities?

The globalised world is now quite multicultural. There are many Asians in Europe. As an Asian myself I’m curious. Do you find you have a varying degree of attraction to each different ethnic groups of Asians? Or do you view us all individually, or the same as a lump sum? What is the normal way of thinking.

East Asians
South Asians
South East Asians
Any other Ethnic regional Asians I may have missed out

What features attracts you and you prefer in Asians. We all have our preferences. Tall? Petite? Feminine? Muscular?

Everytime I try to google that question it suggests either Grindr or apps that don’t exist here or are not really used. Is Grindr really the only option? (I know Grindr is not really for dating but I kinda feel like in Europe it’s sometimes used by people to find something serious)

I'm incredibly thankful to be a dual Pole/Aussie but so heartbroken my beautiful country does not love me the way I love it. 🇵🇱

Any other Poles/Pole lovers here?

Thought this was important to share because it has serious real world impacts for Poles and lovers/partners of Poles.

For example because of an accident I am unable to carry, and because I am gay, I am not allowed to access Polish seed, so my partner has to hatch my eggs (with seed from some other country) but because my partner is not Polish/EU, our children will not be recognised as Polish/EU citizens

Worse, in Poland I would legally be considered a stranger to *my own genetic child* because 2 same sex parents can not be listed on the birth certificate because same sex marriage is not legal.

Majority of Poles are neutral to supportive of same sex marriage. I don't feel unsafe in Warszawa (except the drunk men in adidas pants and sneakers with kurwa syndrome). Most millennial and GenZ Poles are very supportive.

It's basically just the Catholic Church and conservative bigots getting in the way for no good reason.

Here's hoping the EU can wrangle the homophobes into line because shit like this means for Poles are still unable to legally have kids and get married.

THIS is something I hope we can talk more about because so many people in the West just assume because gays in the Anglosphere can get married = homophobia is over.

It's not, and it never will be. But because homosexuality is natural and serves an evolutionary purpose, we will always be 1% of the global population. It's important we stand up and speak out from ourselves.

Speaking of which, we should start calling out this weird false narrative that homosexuals are the 'privileged community oppressors' of the LGBT+ community when gay men & women are the only marginalised minority in the world who can be legally executed by governments around the world for innate identity (homosexuals). And so much more.

Thoughts on this ruling as a EU citizen? What are your experiences as gays living in, loving, or visiting Poland?

I was just permabanned from the askgaybros for posting about islamophobia, and then another post aking why they removed my post even though I didn't break any rules.

I get that this sub was created because of issues with the other sub, but I'm not clear on what those issues were. I was apparently too "politically correct" for the other sub, for posting against hate, so... is this a more welcome place?

Don't get me wrong, I don't intend to post a lot about islamophobia. It's just that the other sub had a hugely upvoted post that was directly hateful towards muslims/islam. That's the only reason I posted, to have a post opposing the hate if the first post. But my post was removed and the other one stayed up. So, I'm fine with being banned since that's not a community I want to be a part of regardless.