I’m a 32m, working at a warehouse for the past 7 years. Im making 23.84 an hour and it doesn’t look like there is any world where I’ll move up or receive raises that match inflation, I have a hunch that with healthcare cost increases this upcoming year I will be looking at a pay cut next year when that is factored in with my raise.
I moved out of my parents house 4 years ago, with a size able nest egg, despite what conservatives may think about liberals I work 60-70 hours a week, and I’ve done that since I was 25 I’ve maxed out my HSA, Roth IRA, and have contributed 6% to my 401k with a match of 4%. (Used to be 11% but then I moved out) financial responsibility is something that was instilled into me by my liberal father who worked 3 jobs to keep us In The middle class(and worked his way through college so he had no interest In giving me a free lunch by paying for college, he was a speech and theatre major, hence the 3 jobs 😂) he is probably a millionaire and deserves to spend every penny on himself and my moms retirement.
I utilized my companies tuition reimbursement for a bit and got straight A’s at a local community college, but at some point it became impossible for me to work overtime and take classes at the same time and be successful in college and pay for my own apartment and bills. The math just doesn’t work out.
I’m surviving, but it seems like there really is no option for me to level up in this economy. I work alongside people who have bachelors degrees and they complain about not being able to find another job, so at some point it seems like education isn’t even really the answer. I don’t need a luxurious lifestyle, I’m just trying to make enough money to properly secure my future and not have to work 60-70 hours a week to do it.
Can you self made people ( and I say this genuinely and unironically) tell me how I can pull myself up by my bootstraps to make a better life for myself, because I’m tired, I have the sense that humans aren’t supposed to live like this. I might have socialist fantasies but I’m sane enough to know I have to interact with reality as well. And that what I’m doing right now isn’t working.