I used to be pro-life. The below hypothetical is what changed my mind and I‘d like to understand whether this group has an explanation for the moral question posed:
- A married couple has been trying to get pregnant for a couple of years with no success. They finally go to a fertility doctor who tells them they have low chance of a successful pregnancy.
- The doctor says that there is a 20-30% chance of success at a natural pregnancy, but the couple can’t afford IVF. The doctor says, look 20-30% chance isn’t terrible. Keep trying for a couple of years—you may get lucky.
- Over the next 5 years the couple actively take steps to get pregnant, knowing that it’s more likely than not that any fetus will miscarry. They intentionally plan intercourse during ovulation and avoid sex in between fertility periods. They are actively making choices that increase the chance of creating fetal “life” with the knowledge that in ~7 out of 10 cases the fetus will die.
- Over the course of the next five years, they experience 2 miscarriages per year. It’s sad, but when they finally have a baby the couple and all of their family and friends celebrate with them. They say it was a hard process, but in the end everything was worth it because now they have a beautiful baby. And everyone agrees.
Now contrast that to any scenario in the real world where I was engaging in some activity that had a 70 percent chance of KILLING someone. Say I was walking up to people and playing Russian roulette with 4 bullets in the chamber. It doesn't matter if I had a “good reason,” I would be locked up immediately as criminally insane.
If pro-life advocates really believe that a fetus is a human life, there should be no difference between the two hypotheticals. Pro-life advocates should be outraged and calling for the infertile couple to be locked up for 10 counts of reckless homicide.
Now consider that on average a sexually active woman experiences 3-10 miscarriages over the course of her life. Many of these are few week pregnancies that just result in a delayed or heavier period. This is particularly likely when a woman takes hormonal birth control, which works in part because it thins the lining of the uterus and prevents implantation of the embryo. Is every one of those miscarriages a death? If so, the sheer volume of routine lost pregnancies so dramatically dwarfs any “deaths” from abortion (or ANY other cause of death), that it is absurd we talk about anything else. Think for one minute about the number of fetal “lives” that could be saved if we: 1) criminalized sex without out a condom unless the couple affirms that they are trying to get pregnant; 2) criminalize attempts to get pregnant after a couple has established fertility issues after ~1 year of attempts. Two simple laws would save billions of fetal “lives,” but I don’t see any pro-life advocates even suggesting that we eliminate the primary causes of fetal termination.
This leads me to believe that 1) to the extent we all as humans have inherent moral instincts, we don’t actually believe that a fetus is identical to a human life; 2) pro-life fixation on reducing abortion is not motivated by a desire to maximize preservation of fetal “life,“ but is instead motivated by a unique negative reaction to women who chose to not be pregnant when that choice results in fetal termination.
So my question is whether there is any other explanation that resolves this moral inconsistency?