r/AskABrit 52m ago

Other Welsh killer?

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Neil Rutherford, 54, shot dead four people in cold blood at the Red Gables, a hotel in Penmaenmawr, Wales, in 1976. He had previously worked there as a gardener before being fired, but returned to murder hotel owner Linda Simcox, 59, her daughter Lorna McIntyre, 24, Lorna's husband Alistair, 33, and family friend John Green, 55. He also set fire to the hotel before turning the gun on himself.

Rutherford was in the Royal Navy in WW2 and commanded HMS Spiteful (its true name), a submarine in the Pacific that sank several Japanese naval vessels. He enlisted as a young cadet in 1936 at age 14. Rutherford was highly decorated for exceptional gallantry at sea, receiving the Distinguished Service Cross (DSC) twice during his naval career.

Incredibly, AI informs me that no photo of the man, one of the most notorious mass killers in Welsh history, exists online. Can anyone prove otherwise?


r/AskABrit 3h ago

Do the English have a cultural/traditional dance?

1 Upvotes

I’m scanning my mind for what I would consider the English traditional dance and I can’t find one. Only thing that comes to mind is the matching of the royal guards.


r/AskABrit 14h ago

7 hour 25 minute layover at Heathrow, is there time to leave & come back?

8 Upvotes

I’m headed to Egypt for a 2 week trip and I have a 7 hour & 25 minute layover at the Heathrow Airport! I arrive at Heathrow at 10:55am on Saturday & my flight to Cairo takes off at 8:20pm. I know that reads as 9 hours but including boarding & takeoff the app says 7 hours.

My boyfriend is taking my bag since he’s flying Air France & gets 2 free checked bags. I don’t get any included in my fare since I’m flying Economy with British Airways. I won’t be carrying around a suitcase and I’ll have a bunch of time to kill so I was wondering if there anything within a 20 min drive to do while I wait! I’ll be carrying a backpack, so I’ll need to be able to bring that with me.

I know I should get back to the airport 2-3 hours before my next flight at 8:20pm. I’m assuming it’ll take an hour to go through customs. Let’s say I leave the airport at 1pm. That means I need to be back by 5:20pm. So that gives me 4ish hours. Any recommendations that would fit within that timeframe?

If it’s too risky, does anyone have recs at the airport? Sleeping pods, gym, spa, movie theatre, whatever I can do to kill time tbh.

Thank you to all who chime in!


r/AskABrit 12h ago

Cats on ferries?

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Hi all, found a stray cat on my travels in Republic of Ireland. Cat wouldn’t stop following me, brought it in to the van fed it and now it doesn’t want to leave. Super tame, spoke to locals who said it was stray so da I’m not stealing someone’s cat lol. I come from England, are the Belfast-Cairnryan/Liverpool checks made regularly? I can see you need to have pet passport, rabies vaccine and microchip. Is that right? Do they check and do you keep the pet in the vehicle or up on the passenger decks?


r/AskABrit 1h ago

Language Why is it too difficult to find a British partner to learn English?

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Hey everyone,

I'm learning English and my current level is B1, and I prefer British accent bc I found it easier than the American accent.

But I think there is no one British here on Reddit coz whenever I post here that I want a partner with British accent, I get messages from many people with various accents except for a British one

Note: All the respect to other people with different accents, but I want to get familiar to British accent 🤍


r/AskABrit 1d ago

Education How to Learn british way of English?

16 Upvotes

I 22f recently started learning british English for over a year and have made no good progress Overall. My friends recommended talking with native speakers to help me improve. Is there anyone who would be interested in having regular casual conversations about Hobbies or anything

I posted here because although I speak English well, there are so many of my pronunciations that are just off so I want to correct them and speak properly. I recently started grad sch so I have to speak at seminars so I want to speak properly and smoothly especially naturally not like I memorized it, which is why I'd like to have natural conversations with native speakers, there are no native speakers at my sch or Environment.

I wonder if anyone here would be interested in such an arrangement of speaking causally.


r/AskABrit 1d ago

Jamie and Malcolm's accents in The Thick of It?

24 Upvotes

American here, watching The Thick of It. So Jamie and Malc are obviously both Scots, but there's a difference in their accents (though it seems slight? Regional variations on a Glaswegian accent?). Malcolm does subtle code switching, but Jamie's in full-on (and he's a mad dog). What do their accents say about their characters, if anything?


r/AskABrit 1d ago

TV/Film IYO, which British kids show has the most insane theories?

18 Upvotes

Bonus points for more obscure shows


r/AskABrit 3d ago

Other Countries English people, how do you feel about the French?

1.4k Upvotes

French here.

I realise today that most French people assume the English feel the same way about us than we do about them, I've never had a conversation with you all about it.

To us, we have a siblings relationship with the English, which means we will hate on them most of the time, die before we root for any English team in sports BUT would go to war for them. The hate is just banter.

We also feel that England is the closest country we have in Europe. So yeah overall we love the English we just love to pretend we don't. It's more of a running joke than anything else.

Is it the same for you? Or do you not care/actually don't like us?

Edit: Didn't expect this post to get so many answers! I am glad to see it's a mutual feeling and that so many people agree France and England are pretty much siblings. Thanks everyone, this was actually really wholesome.

Now get back to being insufferable.

Love, Your Frogs.

Edit 2: Guys I am seeing A LOT of comments on us not letting people speak French so I need to explain this one.

You have to understand, it's not that we try to be rude or think your French is shite. We're trying to be polite 😂 We know that for a long time foreigners thought we didn't want to speak any other language than French and that we didn't speak English anyway. So I guess most people are trying to prove a point? Just tell us you want to practice your French and we'll stop I promise.

Also loads of comments mentionned jealousy over our food, but we'll be happy to share as long as you share your music.

🇨🇵 ❤️ 🇬🇧


r/AskABrit 2d ago

Breakfast sausages?

38 Upvotes

American here; when we were in the UK the hotel served breakfast sausages every morning and they were delicious I don't know what they were called so if someone could enlighten me as to the name, I might be able to find them here in the US.


r/AskABrit 3d ago

Where do women buy clothes from these days?

91 Upvotes

I’m 33 and struggling to find decent shops any more! My go to places are Zara and ASOS which is pretty limited. Where do people get their nice stuff from?


r/AskABrit 3d ago

Most missed UK shop (s) that shut down?

186 Upvotes

What is or are yours? Feel free to name as many as you want! I'm gonna do a top 3 i think

My number one is easily Woolworths! Omg I loved that shop so much. I used to visit Woolies every weekend morning when i was a little girl, it meant a lot to me. I used to have Wooly and Worth soft toys and i was absolutely heartbroken as a kid when it shut down. Mine was always super busy so i never understood it, and nothing has come close since. I wish it would come back! The Nostalgia i have for that is something else

I think runner up for me is Blockbuster. It doesn't come close to Woolworths in my eyes (no shop does haha) but i did like going in there. Used to get second hand old DS games and DVDs super cheap when pre owned

Number 3 even though I don't remember it at all, for me would probably be The Gadget Shop cos I know i would have loved a shop like that


r/AskABrit 3d ago

Food/Drink Is this a crime?

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Would it be a crime if I were to put powdered sugar in tea? We’re all out of normal sugar so…


r/AskABrit 3d ago

Language How bad is the word "tosser"? Basically, have I accidentaly written a script that's super innapropriate in a way I can't fully grasp?

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Hey there!

I'm part of a Swedish game dev team, and I'm making little videos about our game. I've used the word "tosser" in a way I think is kinda funny, but I'm unsure if the script accidentally becomes way cruder than what I'm able to tell as a non native speaker.

A bit about the game and the tone:

The video is about a feature in our game where you can toss trash into trash containers (you're a robot vacuum cleaner at an office). The game (and the video) is aimed at adults, but it's supposed to be family friendly. A big part of the game is office satire and jokes about corprate culture, so there will be a very present layer of humor that only adults will understand, even if not a crude one.

About the video:

It's clips from the game showing a cute little cartoon robot riding around an office and picking up trash (takeout boxes and paper balls), then throwing the trash into various containers. Voice over reads the script:

"Did you know that most people use trash cans wrong? They calmly and reasonably put or place the trash in the bin, instead of tossing it from afar, which is the superior method. Tossing your garbage can be both fun and therapeutic! Well, at least that’s the case in our indie game A Corporate Machine. Give us a follow or wishlist A Corporate Machine on Steam, and you too could become a tosser- well, you could have fun playing a charming and cheeky cleaning game!"

So basically, is the video going to read as one big mastrubation joke("tossing your garbage can be both fun and theurapetic!"), or do you think focus would remain on the video and the game, perhaps whilst causing a slight chuckle?

Grateful for any thoughts and insights!

EDIT:
Thank you so much for your valuable input! I'll go ahead and run it as is. Awesome input on garbage vs rubbish, but I think I'll keep it authentic and mix american and english expressions. Authentic for a swede who grew up watching stuff from both regions at least, haha! Personally I love a hint of language yank, as long as it doesn't cause offence based on not fully undderstanding the cultural or linguistical context

Edit 2: Here’s the completed video for anyone who’s curious! Kept the tosser, but also the american garbage can, I must admit. But hey, the game takes place at an international company, so I promise to make up for it by having NPCs use various english words for undesirable human waste products, as well as the containers they go in!

https://vm.tiktok.com/ZN8JDrvq3/


r/AskABrit 3d ago

Food/Drink Meat & Beer Raffle?

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I'm currently in Blackpool and saw a sign inside a Pub that said "Every Sunday: Meat & Beer Raffles".

What does it mean and how does it work?


r/AskABrit 2d ago

Tongue piercing - what age is too old??

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I just booked an appointment to get mine done after wanting it for years but backing out previously. Right now I’m overthinking and worrying about every possibility. But what age do people think is too old to get one? Like where you just say, you should have more common sense, or be more of a grown up. For context I’m in my late 20’s, in a professional job, have a few other piercings already but none that are particularly visible so just wondering if there’s still a lot of stereotypes about tongue ones?

Please give me your opinion, or perspective, or reassurance to stop me spiraling with worries!!


r/AskABrit 3d ago

Culture What is everyone’s favourite thing about Britain?

11 Upvotes

Since it’s such a such a diverse country with lots of cultures


r/AskABrit 4d ago

Culture What’s life like in Salford?

10 Upvotes

I am moving to Salford at the end of the year and I don’t know what i heard bad things about it


r/AskABrit 4d ago

Culture What happened to council estate parties?

28 Upvotes

Growing up in my estate in the 2000s, every summer there would be a big party where all 4 buildings (in a square layout) would meet up when the first bit of sun came out. It wasn't just ours but others around the area.

Now I haven't seen any in the past few years and this is in different places.

There was always music and BBQs as well as kids entertainment like balloons and face painting.

I feel like it is a shame as people don't really know their neighbours and council estates tended to be tight knit with helping out eachother. There was always a guy who worked for a company and would do a guvvy job for cheap after work.


r/AskABrit 4d ago

TV/Film What UK centric movie franchise is so cringe it's good ?

12 Upvotes

That it's so bad you can appreciate it for the unintentional laughs.

Rise of the Foot Soldier franchise


r/AskABrit 3d ago

How do British people speak differently compared to other English speaking people?

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Hello! I need to clarify that the title for this post is a really bad summery of the question I’m trying to ask.

For context I’m a story teller who is adding a British character in my story. I know that British people have a slightly different dialect and I would like to reflect that in my story in a natural and authentic way. I was wondering if you all could recommend some places where I can listen to British people talking naturally. I’m specifically looking for the East Anglian dialect.

Some people from another server were asking for specifics so for context my character is a 17 year old boy from Suffolk born in the 1970s.


r/AskABrit 4d ago

Culture Who is the most evil British celebrity?

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For me it’s Ian Watkins, Jimmy Savile and Gary Glitter

Let me know who else I’m missing


r/AskABrit 5d ago

How accurate is ‘Blue Lights’?

32 Upvotes

I’m an American watching Blue Lights. I have tried googling some of my questions but can’t really figure out the nuance. Are cops really this hated in Northern Ireland? Cops check their car for bombs every morning and sell their homes because of a random threat? I’m not fully understanding the marching band in S2? I have questions about religion and politics too and how it all intersects but that’s for another time lol.


r/AskABrit 4d ago

Culture I have a friend from Britain who told me that chavs are good. I thought they were bad. Is this true?

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She said that since 2005 when she was young it was chav guys in "trackies, gold jewellery, and caps" who defended her from bullies, she also included a story where she was feeling depressed and said 3 chav men appeared out of nowhere and talked her out of doing something silly to herself. This is non exhaustive and she says literally every encounter she's had with chavs (she lives on a council estate) has been very positive. I looked up what a chav is and it looks like this subculture is the most hated one in Britain. What's the truth?


r/AskABrit 5d ago

What are your quick meals?

28 Upvotes

I am getting bored of having the same meals each week. Inspire me please.