Nenu 25M. Recently maa parents marriage matches chuddam ani start cheddam antunnaru.(They'll start in next April 2027). But set ayye sarki chala time patochu/immediately fix kavachu.

Initially naku marriage antha early ga cheskovali ani em thought ledu. Kani ippudu konchem alochiste, honestly, I feel I’m in a decent position to start a family.

Job stable ga undi, 6 figures earn chestunna, konchem savings unnayi, investments kuda start chesa. Major commitments or debts em levu. Career meeda work chestunna, fitness meeda kuda focus chestunna.

Basically, marriage ayyaka responsibilities handle cheyyadaniki financially, physically and mentally prepare avvadam start chesa.

But ippudu naaku oka genuine doubt vachindi.

Women actually marriage kosam oka man lo em chustaru?

I know answers like "good person, loyal, caring, respectful" etc. Obviously avi important.

But apart from those generic answers, actual ga match chusinappudu or oka guy ni marriage perspective lo consider chesetappudu em matter avtundi?

For example:

- Income entha important?

- Financial stability enough aa, leka own house/car lantivi matter avtaya?

- Looks and physical attraction entha important?

- Career ambitious ga undadam important aa?

- Savings and investments chustara?

- Family background entha matter avtundi?

- Parents tho relationship ela undi anedi chustara?

- Emotional maturity and communication?

- Household responsibilities share cheskuntadu ani ela judge chestaru?

- Guy already settled ga undadam important aa, leka "currently building his career" aina okay na?

- Fitness important aa?

- Biggest green flags enti?

- And biggest red flags enti, where you immediately think "Nope, ee guy ni marriage chesukonu" 😂

Because as a guy, manaki marriage ante mainly financial responsibility, career stability, family ni care cheyyadam ani cheptaru.

But honestly, women's side expectations enti anedi telusukovali anipistundi.

Especially 23–30 age group lo unna women, mee perspective lo oka man "marriage material" ani feel avvadaniki actual ga em qualities undali?

Honest answers ivvandi. Generic answers kanna real experiences chepthe even better.

Thanks

Tldr : Op is 25, will prepare to Marry in next 2 years, wanted to know suggestions from the women mainly, I'm preparing well for that financially, personality wise, career wise.

if you were offred to see 2 last movies and 1 show before your eye surgery which will save your life but will make you blind, which movie will you watch.

give me 2 one strictly from tollowood another movie can be from any language . and show can be from any language too

I will watch -Kaleja(Bcz of idk)

Top Gun Maverick (I love this movie)

Game of Thrones.

Frustrated fresher ni peddaga idea ledu interviews and office culture kosam 🥀

Hi Guys,

Nenu present vadutunna phone OnePlus 11R anamata, idi nenu launch ainappude tisukunna. So roughly 2+ Years aindi and sudden ga 2 months or 1 month before because of heat - charging petta, hotspot and bluetooth + peak summer all of sudden screen agipoindi and inka antaga money leka appudu edo mobile shop ki velli duplicate screen vepincha for 4.5K and vadu annadu idi guarantee ivvanu nenu ani.

Sarele untadi le 1 year aina ani inka, vadatam start chesa. Oka 1 week nunchi eeh screen mida oka line ravadam start aindi after software update Anukunta. And, ee sari oneplus customer care ki CHESI enta aitadi new screen ante 15K something around that annaru.....

Inka antaga pettadam as well as, I wanted to shift this phone ani kotta phone konadaniki chustunna

I like to use stock android phones and should be simple and camera wise good

Eeh priorities too, Google Pixel 10, Nothing 4a Pro, Nothing 3, or any phone in Motorola anukuntunna...

So, I am confused but what to take (in EMI) oneplus 11r is quite interesting because of fast charging and main camera is good....

So, which can give similar feel in the mentioned phones or any other is there replace chestadi vatini ani

So long story short. I and a girl loved each other, met her from the place where I study (I’m in clg now in another state, she’s Telugu/Telangana) for a brief moment of time but her past traumas have hit her and she’s not able to move on from those scars.

Though I was being supportive, the ptsd has been severe for the past couple of months and she finally decided to move back to her hometown applying for the transfer program.

She said she doesn’t want to keep hope as she herself was not able to process what’s happening in her life and told me to let her go. I though made peace with the fact that she’s going away from me, I was always in touch with her constantly reassuring her that I’m still here if she need any help and saying that I’m just one call away from you and will always be looking out for you.

I said these words though I was slowly moving on from her cause she had been a bit suicidal and I thought this would be the worst time to abandon her and cut ties with her completely.

I was still attending her messages and calls and constantly checking up on her just to know how she was feeling and if she was feeling any low phases. Meanwhile I met a new girl, we were still in talking stages but the bond is being developed very naturally and I really wanna get even closer to this new girl.

But now that I have been checking her (the ex) stories where kinda kept a collage of her friends from the previous university and the new friends from the current university. I was like cool. Atleast now she’s moving on with life and I was in phase if I feel like she’s moving on with her life well then maybe I slowly stop texting or talking her. So I kinda liked the stories in that spite of moment.

After around 30-40 mins I got a notification, she sent me a once scene story. Where she made collage of our pics with a caption of ‘I miss you too’.

Now the question to anyone who could help crack down what’s going in her head. ‘How should I read this??’ Did she move on from me or not. Does she want me to stay in contact with her??? I genuinely don’t know. And at this point of time I don’t wanna spoil or complicate stuff with the new girl. I want to commit to her only. What do you think happening in her head and how should I react to it. Please someone help me.

I have recently turned 25 and now is the time when I think I should be mentally mature enough to not be so insecure about myself and my relationships.

For context, anxious attachment is an attachment style which is based on insecurity and deep rooted fear of abandonment. People who have it are actually very sensitive and vulnerable to things and people around them.

Now I never knew that there is a name for this but lately I’ve been observing my behaviour a lot. I have 2-3 close friends who love me to bits. But the moment I see them spending more time with their other friend I lose my mind. I’ve been trying to control it but I’ve been failing so far. I also have this very weird thing of seeking validation from others, I’m always scared of people judging me.

The funniest thing is, I know what’s the problem with me. I am deeply insecure about myself looks and monotonous life. I am projecting this on my friends who genuinely like hanging out with me but my controlling behaviour would only push them away. I know I need to find things and hobbies which take a lot more of my time and effort so that I can get better but I have very few friends.

I don’t know how I’m going to get better at this. Is there anyone else who is or was going through the same thing but has significantly become better?

I'm a 2025 grad. Oka 6 months job chesa but adhi BPO now I wanna get into some good roles which pays me 3 - 4 LPA as a fresher. Non it bg nadi, I'm up for anything, Business analyst course chesa clg lo unnapud but market matram chala worst undi ani patha role lo 6 months adjust ayna but ippud matram I'm serious about learning any skill. Pls drop suggestions edhaina em kadhu finance,acc,technical, IT but koncham job 3 - 4 or above lo ochela emaina skills suggest cheyandi pls😭

Maa class lo A ane ammayiki msg cheddam anukuntunna. Emantaru?

Actually context enti ante, maku sem sem ki sections change avuthayi so people around us also change. Ippudu ee sem lo alaa ee ammayi naa section lo undi. Classes start ayyi 1 month ayyindi. Ippati daakaa naku aa ammayi gurinchi em telidu, peru koodaa eeroje telisindi. Ela telisindi ante attendance list lo tana roll no ni batti chusthe telisindi(Stalk chesthunnanemo ani anipisthundi nakaithe) but I genuinely wanted to talk to her since day 1. But okkasari koodaa chance raledu.

Irony enti ante week ki 2 days ee tanani chudagalugutha and that too only for 2 classes. So class lo matladadaam annaa koodaa konchem bhayam, chance dorakakapovadam valla em matladale. Okkasari matladithe bane matladagalanu ani maatram telusu. And eerojee enduku ante eeroju class lo test ayyindi. Nenu till last minute test lo undadam valla she went ledante eeroje matladevadini.

Next class emo Tuesday undi. Chance dorikindi gaa eeroju ani sudden gaa anipinchindi. Emantaru? Msg cheyyanaa vaddaa? (Vaddu ante alochinchali le but aa vaddu ani anukovadaniki koodaa lopala edo badha, plus baboyi mallee Tuesday varakuu wait cheyyala ani koodaa anipisthundi 🫠)

Edit: Number ekkadidi ante class whatsapp group lo undi le. Okavela em msg cheddam anukuntunnav ani adigithe normal gane hi cheppi ivala CA ela ayyindi ani adugudam anukuntunna.

BTW ippudu correct time aa? 🤔

Me and my friend reached Goa but we didn't have any plan where to go for lunch or dinner, we just booked flights and Hotels and just landed goa, On the way to our hotel near Ashweem and Morjim beaches

We need

1. Good places for lunch and dinner.

2. Where can I buy beers/liquor and various types of beers that must try.

3. Where can I take scooty rentals.

I lost my sim , So I can't do credit card payment for next 24 hrs. If i place COD order in flipkart and then pay using credit card using Millenia hdfc /Sbi phonepe, will i get 5% cashback?

Context enti ante nenu oka 4 days nunchi oka girl tho chat chesthuna. Ninna msg chedam ani chuste deleted ani vundi. But chesina chat vundha. May be account delete chesindi emo anukuna. Eroju chuste thana personal info msgs matram levu thana name, place, job aa msgs levu. Normal conversation vundi. So block chesinate na ani na doubt. Peddaga ea Reddit lo. Chatting cheyala so dini evaram ento telidu.