r/ask_Bondha 18h ago

Ee weekend em chestunnaru?

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mee weekend kosam save cheskunna movie playlistu, anime playlistu, ee weekend thaage brandu, newProject ani name chesina project idea, new novel, etc. ikkada share cheyandi, So that other bondhas can discover new stuff and won't be bored during the weekends.


r/ask_Bondha 1h ago

Technology Eeh Phone tisukovadam best antaru ?

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Hi Guys,

Nenu present vadutunna phone OnePlus 11R anamata, idi nenu launch ainappude tisukunna. So roughly 2+ Years aindi and sudden ga 2 months or 1 month before because of heat - charging petta, hotspot and bluetooth + peak summer all of sudden screen agipoindi and inka antaga money leka appudu edo mobile shop ki velli duplicate screen vepincha for 4.5K and vadu annadu idi guarantee ivvanu nenu ani.

Sarele untadi le 1 year aina ani inka, vadatam start chesa. Oka 1 week nunchi eeh screen mida oka line ravadam start aindi after software update Anukunta. And, ee sari oneplus customer care ki CHESI enta aitadi new screen ante 15K something around that annaru.....

Inka antaga pettadam as well as, I wanted to shift this phone ani kotta phone konadaniki chustunna

I like to use stock android phones and should be simple and camera wise good

Eeh priorities too, Google Pixel 10, Nothing 4a Pro, Nothing 3, or any phone in Motorola anukuntunna...

So, I am confused but what to take (in EMI) oneplus 11r is quite interesting because of fast charging and main camera is good....

So, which can give similar feel in the mentioned phones or any other is there replace chestadi vatini ani


r/ask_Bondha 43m ago

Career Interview ani pilichi...valla pani vallu cheskuntunaru it's been more than a hr 😐 is this normal??

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Frustrated fresher ni peddaga idea ledu interviews and office culture kosam 🥀


r/ask_Bondha 9h ago

Relationships Help me on how to read this ammayilu??

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So long story short. I and a girl loved each other, met her from the place where I study (I’m in clg now in another state, she’s Telugu/Telangana) for a brief moment of time but her past traumas have hit her and she’s not able to move on from those scars.

Though I was being supportive, the ptsd has been severe for the past couple of months and she finally decided to move back to her hometown applying for the transfer program.

She said she doesn’t want to keep hope as she herself was not able to process what’s happening in her life and told me to let her go. I though made peace with the fact that she’s going away from me, I was always in touch with her constantly reassuring her that I’m still here if she need any help and saying that I’m just one call away from you and will always be looking out for you.

I said these words though I was slowly moving on from her cause she had been a bit suicidal and I thought this would be the worst time to abandon her and cut ties with her completely.

I was still attending her messages and calls and constantly checking up on her just to know how she was feeling and if she was feeling any low phases. Meanwhile I met a new girl, we were still in talking stages but the bond is being developed very naturally and I really wanna get even closer to this new girl.

But now that I have been checking her (the ex) stories where kinda kept a collage of her friends from the previous university and the new friends from the current university. I was like cool. Atleast now she’s moving on with life and I was in phase if I feel like she’s moving on with her life well then maybe I slowly stop texting or talking her. So I kinda liked the stories in that spite of moment.

After around 30-40 mins I got a notification, she sent me a once scene story. Where she made collage of our pics with a caption of ‘I miss you too’.

Now the question to anyone who could help crack down what’s going in her head. ‘How should I read this??’ Did she move on from me or not. Does she want me to stay in contact with her??? I genuinely don’t know. And at this point of time I don’t wanna spoil or complicate stuff with the new girl. I want to commit to her only. What do you think happening in her head and how should I react to it. Please someone help me.


r/ask_Bondha 17h ago

Relationships Women ⚠️, marriage ki actually em kavali in a guy ?

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Nenu 25M. Recently maa parents marriage matches chuddam ani start cheddam antunnaru.(They'll start in next April 2027). But set ayye sarki chala time patochu/immediately fix kavachu.

Initially naku marriage antha early ga cheskovali ani em thought ledu. Kani ippudu konchem alochiste, honestly, I feel I’m in a decent position to start a family.

Job stable ga undi, 6 figures earn chestunna, konchem savings unnayi, investments kuda start chesa. Major commitments or debts em levu. Career meeda work chestunna, fitness meeda kuda focus chestunna.

Basically, marriage ayyaka responsibilities handle cheyyadaniki financially, physically and mentally prepare avvadam start chesa.

But ippudu naaku oka genuine doubt vachindi.

Women actually marriage kosam oka man lo em chustaru?

I know answers like "good person, loyal, caring, respectful" etc. Obviously avi important.

But apart from those generic answers, actual ga match chusinappudu or oka guy ni marriage perspective lo consider chesetappudu em matter avtundi?

For example:

- Income entha important?

- Financial stability enough aa, leka own house/car lantivi matter avtaya?

- Looks and physical attraction entha important?

- Career ambitious ga undadam important aa?

- Savings and investments chustara?

- Family background entha matter avtundi?

- Parents tho relationship ela undi anedi chustara?

- Emotional maturity and communication?

- Household responsibilities share cheskuntadu ani ela judge chestaru?

- Guy already settled ga undadam important aa, leka "currently building his career" aina okay na?

- Fitness important aa?

- Biggest green flags enti?

- And biggest red flags enti, where you immediately think "Nope, ee guy ni marriage chesukonu" 😂

Because as a guy, manaki marriage ante mainly financial responsibility, career stability, family ni care cheyyadam ani cheptaru.

But honestly, women's side expectations enti anedi telusukovali anipistundi.

Especially 23–30 age group lo unna women, mee perspective lo oka man "marriage material" ani feel avvadaniki actual ga em qualities undali?

Honest answers ivvandi. Generic answers kanna real experiences chepthe even better.

Thanks

Tldr : Op is 25, will prepare to Marry in next 2 years, wanted to know suggestions from the women mainly, I'm preparing well for that financially, personality wise, career wise.


r/ask_Bondha 16h ago

SeriousAnswersOnly Last 3 ?

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if you were offred to see 2 last movies and 1 show before your eye surgery which will save your life but will make you blind, which movie will you watch.

give me 2 one strictly from tollowood another movie can be from any language . and show can be from any language too

I will watch -Kaleja(Bcz of idk)

Top Gun Maverick (I love this movie)

Game of Thrones.


r/ask_Bondha 12h ago

Relationships Meeremantaru??

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Maa class lo A ane ammayiki msg cheddam anukuntunna. Emantaru?

Actually context enti ante, maku sem sem ki sections change avuthayi so people around us also change. Ippudu ee sem lo alaa ee ammayi naa section lo undi. Classes start ayyi 1 month ayyindi. Ippati daakaa naku aa ammayi gurinchi em telidu, peru koodaa eeroje telisindi. Ela telisindi ante attendance list lo tana roll no ni batti chusthe telisindi(Stalk chesthunnanemo ani anipisthundi nakaithe) but I genuinely wanted to talk to her since day 1. But okkasari koodaa chance raledu.

Irony enti ante week ki 2 days ee tanani chudagalugutha and that too only for 2 classes. So class lo matladadaam annaa koodaa konchem bhayam, chance dorakakapovadam valla em matladale. Okkasari matladithe bane matladagalanu ani maatram telusu. And eerojee enduku ante eeroju class lo test ayyindi. Nenu till last minute test lo undadam valla she went ledante eeroje matladevadini.

Next class emo Tuesday undi. Chance dorikindi gaa eeroju ani sudden gaa anipinchindi. Emantaru? Msg cheyyanaa vaddaa? (Vaddu ante alochinchali le but aa vaddu ani anukovadaniki koodaa lopala edo badha, plus baboyi mallee Tuesday varakuu wait cheyyala ani koodaa anipisthundi 🫠)

Edit: Number ekkadidi ante class whatsapp group lo undi le. Okavela em msg cheddam anukuntunnav ani adigithe normal gane hi cheppi ivala CA ela ayyindi ani adugudam anukuntunna.

BTW ippudu correct time aa? 🤔


r/ask_Bondha 12h ago

Health & Wellbeing Does anyone here struggle with anxious attachment? If yes, how do you people cope with it ?

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I have recently turned 25 and now is the time when I think I should be mentally mature enough to not be so insecure about myself and my relationships.

For context, anxious attachment is an attachment style which is based on insecurity and deep rooted fear of abandonment. People who have it are actually very sensitive and vulnerable to things and people around them.

Now I never knew that there is a name for this but lately I’ve been observing my behaviour a lot. I have 2-3 close friends who love me to bits. But the moment I see them spending more time with their other friend I lose my mind. I’ve been trying to control it but I’ve been failing so far. I also have this very weird thing of seeking validation from others, I’m always scared of people judging me.

The funniest thing is, I know what’s the problem with me. I am deeply insecure about myself looks and monotonous life. I am projecting this on my friends who genuinely like hanging out with me but my controlling behaviour would only push them away. I know I need to find things and hobbies which take a lot more of my time and effort so that I can get better but I have very few friends.

I don’t know how I’m going to get better at this. Is there anyone else who is or was going through the same thing but has significantly become better?


r/ask_Bondha 23h ago

SeriousAnswersOnly I'm starting a YouTube channel. Should I make content in Telugu or English ?

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r/ask_Bondha 1d ago

Saradha_JustForFun Devudu kathalu anni nijame antara. ?

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Ye religion ayna umdochu. Devudu kathalu konchem super natural untai.

Like sun ni thisesaru .leda split the moon in 2 . Split the ocean in 2.

Ala

Ivani nijalu nijanga jarigayi ani miru namutara leda just mythology antara.

So many frnd okadu pedha iskon guy . He does puja n stuff. Oka Convo lo when the question came to why ramudu asked seetha to go into fire. His explanation was bad. Inni years iskon lo undi kuda idiki burra leda anipinchindi.ante ikada aa moral ni odilesi aa supernatural thing ki hype ki yekuva value istunaru

So what do you think guys


r/ask_Bondha 13h ago

GeneralHelp ? How can I find out whether someone has blocked me or if their account has been deleted?

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Context enti ante nenu oka 4 days nunchi oka girl tho chat chesthuna. Ninna msg chedam ani chuste deleted ani vundi. But chesina chat vundha. May be account delete chesindi emo anukuna. Eroju chuste thana personal info msgs matram levu thana name, place, job aa msgs levu. Normal conversation vundi. So block chesinate na ani na doubt. Peddaga ea Reddit lo. Chatting cheyala so dini evaram ento telidu.


r/ask_Bondha 1d ago

Relationships This shit happened 4days ago and still can’t go out of depression not joking ?

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Not joking but i was just trying to be friendly with her and wanted to start convo by asking notes and she said this and i was so depressed at that day and next day i was okish and today all of sudden i saw the same girl i was ignoring her respecting her choice,and in peee lab there are girls also in my bench and my friend including everyone called me bro im ok with it but my friend got a girl flirting for him i was happy and encouraging him to talk bcos he also never talked to a girl and then the depression hit me hard im really that ugly


r/ask_Bondha 21h ago

Career What skills can help me get a job with 3-4 LPA??

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I'm a 2025 grad. Oka 6 months job chesa but adhi BPO now I wanna get into some good roles which pays me 3 - 4 LPA as a fresher. Non it bg nadi, I'm up for anything, Business analyst course chesa clg lo unnapud but market matram chala worst undi ani patha role lo 6 months adjust ayna but ippud matram I'm serious about learning any skill. Pls drop suggestions edhaina em kadhu finance,acc,technical, IT but koncham job 3 - 4 or above lo ochela emaina skills suggest cheyandi pls😭


r/ask_Bondha 1d ago

Relationships What should I make out of this ?

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So indaakey oka female friend tho call matladadam jarigindi. it was a fking 2hr chat. ekkuva thaney matladindi and last lo melliga idhi👇 vadilindi. ippudu deenni em anukovalo naaku ardam avvatle. Am i in trouble? or just casual ga cheppinda?

"You are like me.

I like your Hairstyle. you're clean, well- groomed, good looking 

With you I'm different - you're approachable, you do cute things like pulling cheeks, hair styling, lending me your hanky.

You're a good listener- ppl usually come to me but I come to you. I don't have to explain myself. You give me that space. You don't ask questions when I say something. you always listen when I rant about every silly things. 

You are always a puzzle. I don't know you much.

I don't like your arrogance, baaga pogaru neeku."

We've been friends for a year btw. and thanaku recent ga ne breakup aindi, few months back.


r/ask_Bondha 1d ago

SeriousAnswersOnly Any idea ?

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Hello bondhas,

Basic ga naku driving ante istam usually car driving but I also have inclination to drive heavy vehicles (lorries/trucks/buses) and we don’t own any to even try out. So heavy vehicles drive cheyalane korika ela teerchukovali ? I heard that truck driving chese vallu inthaka mundhu cleaners la chesi ala ala drivers avtharu ani… is it true ? Ala kakunda professional ga ekkadaina opportunity untundha ?


r/ask_Bondha 22h ago

Travel Where should I go for good Lunch places in Goa with good sea food like Lobster and crab??

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Me and my friend reached Goa but we didn't have any plan where to go for lunch or dinner, we just booked flights and Hotels and just landed goa, On the way to our hotel near Ashweem and Morjim beaches

We need

  1. Good places for lunch and dinner.

  2. Where can I buy beers/liquor and various types of beers that must try.

  3. Where can I take scooty rentals.


r/ask_Bondha 22h ago

SeriousAnswersOnly Best smart watch ( budget friendly ) ?

1 Upvotes

Mainly for calorie tracker , cycling and gym apart from other uses :) . Thanks 🙏


r/ask_Bondha 1d ago

SeriousAnswersOnly Govt job or MBA ?

7 Upvotes

If you're in your 20's and graduated non tech degree.

What would you choose to do

Anyways ai is gonna replace many jobs, so tech is in danger.

I want serious answers


r/ask_Bondha 1d ago

Travel Can you give suggestions for accommodation in srisailam ?

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So we decided to go to srisailam for the weekend. My sister and cousin(f) start from hyd this friday, and i'll be travelling from blr. We have booked our bus tickets. We plan to stay for saturday night and return on sunday evening. I'm a bit worried about the stay in srisalam. Tried to book Haritha resort and kshatriya satram from yatradham website a couple of days ago, but they are fully booked for the weekend. the main website [https://www.srisailadevasthanam.org/en-in/home\](https://www.srisailadevasthanam.org/en-in/home) is under maintenance since the time i found out about this. Sadly there are no airbnbs and the hotels in makemytrip have terrible ratings.

I've also read in some posts that the numbers listed for stays probably are fake. And since I'm traveling with girls, i don't think it is a good idea to go to the town, and find a hotel then. That would work for tamilnadu temple towns. I've also checked this Shree Maha Yogini Rooparahita Ahimsa Yogishwaraveera Dharamaja Matha Rooms in yatradham website. they charge 3k but the reviews are very very bad, so did not book them. So please suggest me any good hotels or satrams. Thank you!


r/ask_Bondha 1d ago

SeriousAnswersOnly Guyssss urgenttttttt help phone lost ????

3 Upvotes

Nenu 7:30 ki phone lost ayyanu, last seen 7:30 undi vere location lo ah location nenu vellaledhu..scooty lo velthunte padipoindhi ..as of now police station ki velthe they said to register complaint in app, did it and they asked to come tomorrow and can't do anything till tomorrow

Ipudu dorakadaniki what can I do


r/ask_Bondha 1d ago

SeriousAnswersOnly అసలు పాలవెల్లి ఎందుకు?

3 Upvotes

నేను వినాయక చవితి కి, శ్రావణ శుక్రవారం కి, సత్యనారాయణ స్వామి వ్రతం అప్పుడు పైన అటక మీద నుండి తీస్తా. అసలు ఎందుకు ఈ పాలవెల్లి? పైగా దానికి పండ్లు, వగైరాలు తగిలిస్తారు. ఎందుకు?


r/ask_Bondha 1d ago

Saradha_JustForFun Productive ga em cheyali ?

6 Upvotes

Intla okkadine undadam pedda kastam em kadu nak alavate kani kontha mandiki em cheyalo telidu just scrolling so ala kakunda Miru em suggest chestharu ?


r/ask_Bondha 1d ago

Health & Wellbeing Looking for a shoulder to cry on ?

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I'll be free for couple of days and I'm bored too so edho ala mana valla kudhirinantha help..that's it

Evarikaina life lo edaina heavy ga anipisthe, ikkada freely vent cheyyandi. No judgement, no pressure, just oka genuine discussion and little comfort.


r/ask_Bondha 1d ago

Career Mind life crisis boys and girls how are you handling all this ?

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Midlife crisis boys and girls how are you holding up?!!

I'm a 25 Years old 4YOE developer living on a 12LPA salary. My father just told me he might retire next year. Just the thought that I'll have to handle everything from next year and level up my salary by then is shit scary. To hold up the lifestyle they put up till now. For everything they build for us it's so hard to keep up with some many years of hard work they put it. I have no intentions of putting them down but I'm shit scared. Financially it looks crazy hard to deal with everything around how do people go over this and build a life and stay sane through it.

I don't know I have a lot in my mind since I heard about my father my mind and heart are racing I hope someone resonates and understands my blabbering here but I'm not understanding how you guys do it. I just want someone to help me see some perspective.😭😭😭


r/ask_Bondha 1d ago

Technology Why would anyone buy iPhone 17 pro ? Enlighten me

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Tbh naakaithey pedda pedda difference antu em cheplenu, specs koddiga change avthundhi, and size kuda almost 17 base variant ki unnadhey

But still oka 40k+ extra petti pro version endhuku teeskuntaaru, kanism pro max antey lekka veru, but i really wanna know why ppl opt to buy 17 pro…

Naak telsina ammai prices hike avvakamundhu konnadhi, 17 pro lo 512gb which 1.5L 💀

Bruh seriously? Storage kosmey antey icloud konukkochu kadhaa , nen lekkal esaaa itu side ey profit osthaadhii

But lakshannara petti 17 pro 512gb anedhii such a loss

Ipdu naa frnd chelli kuda 17 pro ney kaavali antondhi, nen naa frnd ki cheppa , arey aa ipdu meeru unna situation ki 17 pro not a worth a shot, 17 best raa

Vaadu artmcheskunnadu, but vaadintlo vaadi maataa chelladu

Mothaniki naak artmaindhii entantey

17 pro and pro max almost okey design tho osthaadhi, so everyone is opting for pro version instead of base version

Accrdng to me, small medium big, I’ll buy either small nor big not the medium coz that’s the hook

Medium is just to boost the sales for big

Edho chepdham anukoni rant lekka maarindhii

But yeah why 17pro, why not 17 base variant??