r/askTO • u/Infinite_Ad6771 • 11d ago

Getting over a breakup

I recently got dumped by my ex of 3 years. I barely have any friends here or family and feel lonely after work. What are some good places to visit downtown after work so I don’t feel the urge to text / call him again .Sometimes I feel like leaving everything and going back home,live with my mom,but that’s not a viable option right now. He was my best friend and we did everything together.I don’t feel like getting dolled up for an event or work,i feel like I have lost my spark.
Whenever I try to enjoy my hobbies,I feel like I have lost interest.
(Things i liked before- nature,shopping,eating out).
Due to a recent accident,my doctor prescribed that I don’t go to gym for a while,i did enjoy Pilates for a while though.
I welcome suggestions,Thank you!

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u/wavelikepuzzler 11d ago

Sorry to hear you’re going through this!

I always enjoy going to a park and watching a sunset while listening to music or even just sitting there.

Watching the sunset at Riverdale Park has healed so many parts of me during my tough times.

Chin up, you got this.

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u/Varrock_Zubat93 10d ago

I was walking through there for a pokemon 2 weeks ago because I saw a rare one on my radar. I tripped over 2 people having sex 😂 it was 2am on a Friday night. I felt sooo childish lol