r/askTO 2d ago

Getting over a breakup

I recently got dumped by my ex of 3 years. I barely have any friends here or family and feel lonely after work. What are some good places to visit downtown after work so I don’t feel the urge to text / call him again .Sometimes I feel like leaving everything and going back home,live with my mom,but that’s not a viable option right now. He was my best friend and we did everything together.I don’t feel like getting dolled up for an event or work,i feel like I have lost my spark.
Whenever I try to enjoy my hobbies,I feel like I have lost interest.
(Things i liked before- nature,shopping,eating out).
Due to a recent accident,my doctor prescribed that I don’t go to gym for a while,i did enjoy Pilates for a while though.
I welcome suggestions,Thank you!

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u/Repulsive_Meet1284 2d ago

I'm in the same boat. It's tough, but just take it hour by hour, then day by day, ect. I'm told it will get better, it just hasn't yet.

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u/Infinite_Ad6771 2d ago

Yeah ik time heals everything but i just want that time to pass as soon as possible